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Solving the Feminine Mystique
 
One regular guy's effort to figure out women. This may take a while.
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Hello, Hello
Posted:Aug 2, 2011 4:24 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2011 5:16 am
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Hello Folks,

I am just curious. When a woman looks at your profile twice, is it because she forgot that she looked at it before or is she narrowing down her prospects?

I've had a few women look twice. I'm not quite sure how to take it. I wish they would say hi! Strike up a conversation! I might be just what you are looking for. If not, at least you have made a friend.

Enjoy your day!

RG
0 Comments
Alert! Alert!
Posted:Jul 7, 2011 8:09 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2011 11:31 pm
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You have all seen the alert notices on the bottom right of the page. I am not sure what they think is alert worthy. I get alerts that folks I know got on 24 hours ago. I get alerts that folks I don't know posted a picture.

What I didn't get is that someone who I would like to get to know better, a certain White Mountain Lady looked at my profile. Now THAT is alert worthy!!

So, thanks Affairlook for letting me know that my friends got on yesterday, but, people looking at my profile is the news that I am looking for!

Enjoy your day, blog buddies!

RG
1 comment
Received a message today!
Posted:Jun 28, 2011 8:40 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2011 1:16 am
4843 Views

Hello all!

I received a message today from another member. This is a big deal to a guy who is a regular member. Those messages are few and far between. Unfortunately, the member said that we were not compatible. Truly, that is okay in my book. I'd rather know than send a message to her, using my precious points, and have her tell me no thanks. The only thing worse that being rejected is no response at all.

Ladies, I am sure that you get many, many messages. I would ask that you at least respond with a 'no thank you' to any regular member that sends you a courteous message. If it is crude, well you know what to do.

Have a great day!

RG
4 Comments
Gone swimming
Posted:Jun 30, 2010 5:05 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2011 3:29 pm
4939 Views

At the risk that you will think I have lived a boring life, I am here to report that I went skinny dipping for the first time in my life last night! It was awesome!! I never realized how much a bathing suit made swimming more difficult! To slide through the water with little resistance... was great! (let's not comment on what might cause resistance or the size thereof!!)

So, have you been? Do you love it like I do?

Enjoy the day... er night!

RG
6 Comments
Two kinds of people
Posted:Jun 28, 2010 12:28 pm
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2010 4:43 am
4923 Views

Hi!

I know that there are more than two kinds of people, but I would like to discuss two in particular. They are those that talk and those that listen. This came to me this past weekend.
A relative came to visit and they talked and talked. A few weeks ago another relative came and they talked and talked. Perhaps I am a good listener. I think of myself as a quiet person, although I am sure that I have a few friends that would disagree.

So, are you a talker or a listener? Do you need to bend someones ear? Evidence suggests that I am a good listener! When you are done talking, you will feel so much better!

I look forward to hearing from you!

RG
4 Comments
No naked pics - any downside?
Posted:Feb 3, 2010 2:04 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2010 2:19 pm
4840 Views

I will credit another local blogger for inspiring this post. She asks if guys know how many women they are losing by posting penis pictures.

I ask, is there a downside to not having a penis picture? Does a woman think that a guy has insufficient equipment if he doesn't have a picture of it?

I know some women are turned off by the X rated pic, others like it (women, I have learned, are a diverse group! one size does not fit all) Will you kick a guy to the curb if he doesn't have a picture of the goods?

As always, I appreciate your input.

RG
6 Comments
Bad Manscaping
Posted:Jan 27, 2010 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2010 5:34 am
4833 Views

I was wondering if anyone has been the victim of bad manscaping. That is, was he a little rough down there, causing you some irritation. What the heck do you say to the guy? Get out? Get a shave? Wax or be gone!

Do you have a preference of how that area is trimmed? Do you like a woolly beast, neatly trimmed, clean as a whistle?

Let me know your experiences.

Have a great day!

RG
2 Comments
Which leads to which?
Posted:Jan 13, 2010 6:27 am
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2010 3:44 pm
4542 Views

Let's say you look at porn, whatever variety suits you. Do you get horny from looking at the porn or did you look at the porn because you were horny? Chicken? Egg?

If you stop looking at pron will you stop being horny?

Can you look at porn when you aren't horny and not get horny?

I look forward to your thoughts on these question.

RG
3 Comments
Which would you do?
Posted:Jan 7, 2010 5:13 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2011 9:42 am
4702 Views

This poll is for the ladies. Your guy gets in bed with you while you are reading a book. He is buck naked. Which do you do? (If you don't know what '...' means, watch the movie 'Mama Mia')

If you need any clarification, feel free to ask.

Thanks, RG
Keep reading
Keep reading, then turn off the light and go to sleep
Turn of the light, light a candle in the room, spoon him and ...
Say 'what took you so long to get here?' and ...
3 Comments , 9 votes
When to call it quits
Posted:Nov 23, 2009 7:02 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2010 5:44 am
4923 Views

Hi Folks,

I haven't posted in a while but I hope to get some input on a situation I have.

I met this person, not here. We have me 4-5 times for coffee, lunch, chat. We had one, for lack of a better term, make out session. All above the waist, outside the clothes stuff.

We had a recent IM session wherein I described what a more intimate encounter might be like. We set up an time to meet. She asked before meeting if I was expecting what I had described. I said that I expected nothing, only hoped for something like that. I also said that if nothing happened, that would be okay. I have said in prior conversations that I understood that 'no means no'.

The morning of our planned meeting she said she wasn't sure if she could make it. I asked why. She said she was scared, that I expected something to happen. I reiterated that I had no expectations and whatever she wanted to happen would and if she said enough, then that would be enough.

So, at the appointed time of our meeting I got a message that she couldn't come. The next day we IM'd about her decision. She said that she was concerned that I expected what we had written about. I reminded her that I had no expectation.

Now in real life, I am the most non-scary guy you have ever met. I am not pushy. Many people that I meet in my professional life say that I make them feel at ease, all within a hour of meeting me. This person that I have met in person 4 times is still scared of me.

So my question is, 'is it time to let this one go, say adios?' I spent the weekend thinking about this and I can't get over that someone would think that I am someone to be afraid of. She has never indicated that she had been or otherwise attacked. I don't mind being stood up, but I really can't get past someone being afraid of me. Is this a sign that maybe I'd be better off looking for someone else?

Thanks for reading this very long post. Feel free to ask questions if you need more info. I look forward to your collective wisdom.

RG aka the boogie man

Just to clarify - I am not upset because she cancelled. I am concerned that she is afraid I would do anything that she would not consent to.

TKS, RG
8 Comments
Heard from an old friend
Posted:Sep 7, 2009 7:53 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2009 12:12 pm
4622 Views

Hello Folks!

I heard from an old friend the other day. It was just a broadcast, but it was still nice to hear from her.

To her, I say, Happy Labor Day to you, too, Sexi!

And a Happy Labor Day to all of you!

Now, I will leave my office and go home! Some of us work on Labor Day, too!

RG
1 comment
An open letter
Posted:Apr 9, 2009 4:27 pm
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2009 7:59 am
4818 Views

Hello fellow Bloggers,

This post is directed to one person and she knows who she is.

She is one of the few people that I have actually met in person. She is attractive, inteligent and incredibly sexy. She is also mad at me. The problem is I don't know why. Although we met, I was not exactly what she was looking for. I know that she has gone out with other men. If her blog is accurate, I think she had a steamy time with one of them. If she didn't, it doesn't matter. We were not an item.

The other day I opened up Affairlook to find two letters in my mailbox. Let me tell you, as a regular member, that is like heaven!! Well, instead of heaven there were two unpleasant notes from her. One of them was commenting on a post I made on another member's blog. She also was mad because I did not accept a Kudo or other kind word that she posted for me. I did not even know that I could or should. Then she turned of her mail so I could not reply through Affairlook or to her private email. She also de-friended me.

Well, here is my letter to her:

I really wish I had a clue what set you off! I know I did not send birthday wishes on you blog, but I thought that would be lame when I know your email address and telephone number. I should have contacted you directly.

You can't be upset that I am commenting on other people's blogs. I am sure you do that all of the time.

I know I should have done a better job of keeping in touch but some of your blog posts sounded like you found a friend. You said it was no one special, but your blog posts made it sound like you were going to spend the weekend... enjoying each other's company.

I'm not going to apologize until you tell me what I did to upset you.

As far as the post that I did not accept, I did not know I had to. Have a good day! I hope to hear from you.

RG
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