i must have failed to mention this, judging from the messages i keep getting. if you smoke, don't bother messaging me, nothing peral, but i cannot stand the smell of someone who smokes, even occasionally. also, if your profile has no pics or is populated w/17 pics of your dick, don't waste my time. looking for a regular sex/spanking buddy. here is a quote from a book i have been reading and it totally sums up what i am seeking "regarding spanking...it was difficult to really feel the physical aspect without that mental connection. i need them to be totally in to me for the spanking to mean anything, but i also want the whole vanilla world - going out to eat, staying in to watch movies, enjoying a glass of wine together, travel to exotic locales - all of that." if this reates with you, let's talk. please don't stop here the 'my ideal per' section will give you more insight into what/who i am looking for. [COLOR crim][I][B]if it feels right, if it sounds like fun, if it doesn't hurt anyone, count me in.[/B][/I][/COLOR] \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. To: Sydney University and all other institutions using this or any site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. [COLOR darkblue][B]looking for a firm but gentle hand to introduce me to the world of spanking.[/B][/COLOR] [COLOR darkred][B](NO MARRIED OR OTHERWISE ATTACHED GUYS)[/COLOR][/B] i am a novice in every sense of the word and am looking for someone to introduce me to spanking. currently my exposure has been limited to spanking chat who would like to take it out of the virtual realm but i need a safe partner who will teach me, go slow and respect the limits of what i want to do. new to the world of spanking - looking for someone sexy and nice to gently introduce me to the joys of sensual, bare bottom spankings. not interested in dom/sub humiliation or degradation, just the vulnerability of having my bottom exposed to the discipline you think i need. would like to develop an ongoing relationship with someone that includes socializing, enjoying each other's company a couple of times a week, getting to know each other on an emotional level, regular sex and of course spankings (hand, belt or riding crop and perhaps eventually blindfold and mild restraints). i am fluffy, perhaps rubenesque in appearance with short blond hair. my preference is for a partner who is muscular/athletic with strong shoulders and arms (better for spanking), who enjoys spanking, not because he enjoys inflicting pain but because he loves the feel of my skin beneath his hand and he knows that he is delivering pleasure with each strike. if i am going to bare myself to you, there needs to be an attraction, both physical and mental. i need someone who is intelligent and confident in his peral and professional life. bonus points if you can make me laugh - i would like to say that a great sense of humor is a deal breaker but i have learned that a true sense of humor is a rare commodity and it will be greatly valued and appreciated as such. individuals who expect to go from internet to spanking on the first meeting should not waste our time. i intend to explore this aspect of my sexuality, but i won't risk my safety to do it. also, if your marital or relationship status is not resolved, please do us both a favor and move on. i will indulge this fetish, but not at someone else's expense, i will not be part of a harem nor do i like to share. please be disease free and prepared to prove it.

My Ideal Person (NO MARRIED OR OTHERWISE ATTACHED GUYS)
i am not looking for a dominant, just a gentle, loving guy to lead me through the world of spanking. someone who wants to spank my bare ass as much because he likes the feel of my skin under his hand as because he knows it gives me pleasure (because i have not tried it in real life, i don't even know if it will give me pleasure).

i have zero interest in being humiliated, for me the appeal is having my bottom bare, vulnerable and exposed. i am not interested in whips, chains, nipple or vaginal clamps, butt plugs or ball gags, only a strong hand, some supple leather and perhaps at some point blindfolds and some light restraints.

hope that helps. and PLEASE, if u are married or in a relationship do not bother. i will not get what i want at someone else's expense, i have no interest in being the other woman and i don't like to share and i still believe in the sanctity of marriage vows even if they are not my own. WHEW!

if u thought this was too much to read...don't bother saying hi, i am looking for an intelligent, literate guy who is capable of holding a conversation. if u find reading a few lines too challenging or too much of an investment of your time, we will NOT be a fit.