ONLY FROM CHENNAI So it goes... years into a marriage and the excitement is gone. Why? Every reason under the sun that's been talked about ad-nauseum on Oprah and Dr. Phil (, work, routine, lack of desire). Over time the friendship is stronger than ever but the inclination for any flirtation or suggestive touch is gone becoming mechanical, routine, non-existent. Is there such a thing as a platonic marriage? If you are a married woman and find yourself in a similar situation just email me and start a conversation. If you are a married woman and looking at this ad there is something missing and you're already half way to looking for a discreet relationship.