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Doesn't matter how you say it.......... 2/26/2016
It doesn't matter how you say it, the person on the other
end 95% of the time gets offended. Its a lose lose situation.
I have said it so many different ways, changed my profile
so hopefully they wouldn't even email me (that does't
work, men look at pictures), I have even just deleted the
emails being rude and not saying a word but that don't
help either cause they continue to email ...
9 Comments, 79 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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You have to say what you mean.... 2/1/2016
There are some people who think that "no" is
the hardest word to say in the world. I am not one of them.
Some people believe if you say "no" you will
lose friends, or be unpopular. Better to be friendless
and unpopular, than to say yes to something that will put
you in a poor position.
So, "no thanks" is often necessary. And it's
actually better than radio silence. There are many who ...
3 Comments, 27 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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You have to say what you mean.... 2/1/2016
There are some people who think that "no" is
the hardest word to say in the world. I am not one of them.
Some people believe if you say "no" you will
lose friends, or be unpopular. Better to be friendless
and unpopular, than to say yes to something that will put
you in a poor position.
So, "no thanks" is often necessary. And it's
actually better than radio silence. There are many who ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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They get there and they aren't what you expected 1/21/2016
Has anyone ran into the situation where you invited someone
from Affairlook over with adult fun in mind only to find they are
not as advertised? How did you handle this situation. I'm
sure it is really awkward for everyone involved. Or maybe
there was something that just turned you off when they finally
got there. How did you handle saying "no thanks"?
6 Comments, 157 Views,
14 Votes
,4.74 Score
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I might be too blunt 1/13/2016
If I'm not interested it's going to be a straight
up answer. I am nice but blunt is anyone else like that or
am I the only bitch. If you n I have nothing in common I'm
sorry but it's not happening
NO THANKS
2 Comments, 33 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Temptation NOT 1/5/2016
Remembering my fun days i just sit back and smile. Always
been great at showing my passion when i have sex. Saying
this to say i have had a lot of unforgettable times. But time
stops for no one if you don't take care of your self it
shows. So when a old sex partner hits me up on social media
I look sometimes and be like damn what happened. No thanks
even if i remember how delightful your pussy ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
0 Votes
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"No Gracias" 1/4/2016
There was one time where the person said please do me so hard
and I said no.
2 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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YES or NO 12/13/2015
we do say YES when its come about sex life and normally word
NO in sex life was just a word thats mean nothing. As long
we live and ability to want means YES to our sex life
2 Comments, 20 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Ass lick 11/22/2015
Why girl ass makes man horny..
3 Comments, 29 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Sent mixed signal and chasing a lost of interest 11/11/2015
This is usually the reason why people pursue after someone.
Because they thought they may be interested in them or may
possibly give them a chance however when the individual
decides to say no then the aggressor typically a man ( Man
dominated cultures and in this chase America) thinks the
chase (woman/man) is just playing hard to get. It is the
flirts, misinterpreted body language that has ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score
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rejection on reason basis and strength of rejection 10/30/2015
some people just do not like to accept "i don't
like you" as an answer. what could be done in this case?
one of the good choices could be reasoning and explaining
the reason unless he/she is some kind of psycho, in which
case rejection should be strong and exempt from reasoning
2 Comments, 22 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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NO! 10/29/2015
Hey Look Ppl - No is NO and they usually [90%] mean just that
= NO. Once should be enough! To keep going is not only pointless,
but it is also very annoying and can lead only to trouble.
Listen and comply.
2 Comments, 19 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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JUST SAY "NO". 10/8/2015
Some people are just so sweet hearted that even on a sex site
they have difficulty saying NO to someone who is trying
to get them into bed. No one enjoys being rejected but...for
something as serious as giving my body to someone for their
pleasure and me indulging in theirs I feel a need to be extremely
picky. Maybe if you don't get many invites and you are
desperate to get laid your expectations ...
16 Comments, 155 Views,
31 Votes
,6.50 Score
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Traveled the Road Less Traveled 10/4/2015
Well Ladies and Gentlemen, I tried to travel down the road
less traveled and let me tell you... I learned some major
lessons.
As Oprah would say, what I know for sure is... what I like
and do not like and what I will and will not tolerate.
Let me explain I traveled down the road of younger guys and
what my experience was... the sex was great, but... and
we all know that the but ...
3 Comments, 74 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score
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How many times to say no? 9/25/2015
We have several members who continuously message their
interest in us. We do try to answer when someone takes the
time of message us but just how many times must one do that?
Is there a way to block a member when they become a nuisance?
4 Comments, 32 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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FILLES open sur la rivesud de montreal ?? 9/19/2015
Yas tu du mondes sul party a soir
0 Comments, 2 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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How do you feel when you make a "date" for swinging and the other party does not show up? 9/12/2015
Whenever a party says they will meet for a sexual encounter
and they do not show up, what do you do?
6 Comments, 39 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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whoa can we meet you before your genitals 9/6/2015
Why ...just why lol do people think it is attractive to send
genital pics in their 1st ever message to you like hi this
is my stuff do you like....um I don't even know anything
about you yet...immediate turn off
5 Comments, 45 Views,
11 Votes
,6.35 Score
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How to say "no" 9/3/2015
My wife and I have been in this situation a few times and it
is always difficult. We were in a group situation, invited
to a party where there were several couples we knew and there
was one guy out of the bunch that my wife found very unattractive.
Later on in the evening there was group play going on and
we didn't end up playing at all because she was uncomfortable
with having to say no to ...
2 Comments, 60 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Male Head vs. Female Head 8/28/2015
This is a repost of an blog I did in 2012
I am just flabbergasted about a NSA that I had with a dude
here on Affairlook. 1st of all he did not read my post. 2nd he was selfish and lazy. 3rd he wanted me to give him head but not return the favor.
4th he had the ordasity to get upset about it. 5th he still wanted to have sex after I left.
This is a 38 year old man (now he's ...
4 Comments, 82 Views,
17 Votes
,6.24 Score
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Harsh Articulation 8/15/2015
In response to the email I received asking if I am interested
in you I will begin by stating that I read your profile thoroughly
in an effort to offer a no ‘bs’ and sincere answer. Typically
I would simply not take the time to read through a profile
without a profile picture attached. It shows a lack of confidence
and conviction. That, in and of itself, is less attractive
than the homeliest ...
5 Comments, 48 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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Taking "no" for an answer: A How-To Guide 7/15/2015
There are many, many people who breach our inboxes everyday,
sending all sorts of stuff.
First of all, I'll respond to a message with just "hi",
before responding to someone saying what they want to do
to me. It's called respect. If I turn you down-take
it the first time. Don't try to keep getting me to say
yes. I've made my mind up. It's not going to get
changed. So please, when I deny ...
1 Comments, 54 Views,
16 Votes
,5.48 Score
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Say No Gracefully 6/21/2015
If something is not working out, just let the other person
know as soon as possible. When you tell them, be as gracious as possible. Thank then for what they have done for you in the past and/or
pay them a compliment. Then, gently let them know that things
are not working out, why they are not working out, and then
tell them that things must end. When you tell them the reasons,
try not to blame ...
5 Comments, 41 Views,
12 Votes
,5.98 Score
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Hard sometimes 6/3/2015
Now, there have been sometimes where Ive been straight
just given ass and had to turn it down. I consider myself
a bit of a sex addict if you will, but even still its good to
sometimes say no. Even with a condom, they're some
pieces you gotta avoid like the plague's coming back
lol. AT least in el paso there was, I'm in SA that'll
be a slightly different story but we'll see.
0 Comments, 20 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Women don't have a patent on preference 6/1/2015
There's no doubt that the man to woman ratio on this
site is 500/20. That means a man has a 4% chance of actually
getting as much attention as a woman on here. This doesn't
include couple status. The women seem to be the smart ones
on here. The ones worth talking to are selective, as a man
should be. Some people just don't get it though. All
I can do is shake my head when I hear a woman talk ...
7 Comments, 70 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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But they won't go away! 5/16/2015
I have met a few guys on this site. I usually message back
and forth, then either make a decision whether I want to
continue on or cut the ties. Behavior that is persistent,
constantly messaging me on my phone while I'm asleep
or at work...ugh! This is why when I get messages from guys
I know there is not a chance in hell we will have any chemistry,
I don't respond. I also have a message that ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
17 Votes
,4.12 Score
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no thanks 5/15/2015
no thanks
0 Comments, 9 Views,
2 Votes
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I agree with something SensuousShades said..... 5/1/2015
If I am approached in a polite respectful manner....I will
likely respond in the same way. You get what you give.
If you repeatedly email me "hey lets fuck",
"me in ur pussy" Or "come suck my cock"...
You will get nothing from me. Honestly, I don't "owe"
anyone anything if I don't even know them. That's
part of the territory in this community. If you don't
get a response......don't be ...
6 Comments, 62 Views,
19 Votes
,7.21 Score
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30 pts post(ignore) 4/5/2015
How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?
2 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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I suppose 3/18/2015
The way respond to unwanted emails or IMs is based on the
request we've received. If the person messaging us
is polite we'll respond with "thank you for your
interested, but you aren't what we're looking
for."
Sometimes people say things that we can't actually
respond to so we leave those messages unanswered. Messages
like "Hi, I want to cum on your face" don't
get responses.
4 Comments, 68 Views,
17 Votes
,6.24 Score
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