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About my blog ~ It's a place to explore human sexuality. No topic is taboo. This is a "judgment free" zone. Your comments will never be deleted by me (exceptions are rude and/or offensive comments and comments that expose privileged information)

So..... Welcome to my blog. Don't be shy. I won't bite (unless you want me to). Speak up if you have something to say. I love hearing from you!
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On-Line Dating
Posted:Aug 19, 2008 7:25 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2008 8:46 pm
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At the beginning of the month I joined a traditional on-line dating site. (as opposed to a sex site like Affairlook or Passion)

The first thing that surprised me was how many people from this site were also over there. (I ran into at least 8 in two weeks)

The next thing that surprised me is how many guys recognized me over at that other site!!! When you consider the fact that I don't post a photo of my face on here, that is really quite something! From that experience I drew the conclusion that like myself, many of the people on here are looking for more than just sex.

The third difference I found is the rudeness of people at the other site. There were a handful of men whom I sent e-mails to that didn't even bother to respond. Not even with a system generated message. Maybe if I sent them a photo of me in thigh high boots or a sexy nighty.......

The last thing that was different was the quantity of e-mail. And I suppose I knew going into it, that would be the case. I mean, on this site the odds are seriously in my favor and on the other site there are more women then men.

So, originally I came here because I'm not really interested in "vanilla" sex and I think the men here are a lot more open minded and accepting. But my reasons to continue and stay here: the men are more polite, they are more responsive and they are quite possibly looking for more than just a sex buddy.

Besides, you can't blog at those other sites!

So I want to know..... Do you belong to any of those other sites? And what differences, if any, have you noticed?


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Are you consistent?
Posted:Aug 17, 2008 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2008 7:26 pm
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I have a friend that firmly believes you can tell how a person will behave in bed by how they behave on a date.

If I were to look at my own dating/sex style I would assume this theory to be true. For instance; on a date, sometimes I want my partner to make the majority of decisions (where we go, what time we go, etc.) and I'm content to sit back and let him steer the conversation. Other times I want to be in control and make the decisions and control the situation. But the majority of the time I am happiest switching back and forth between the more dominate roll and the more passive roll. This corresponds directly with how I behave in a sexual relationship. I am a "switch" in every way. But I am just one person.

I want to know about YOU!!! Is your behavior on a date reflective of your behavior in bed? Tell me. And give me some details.


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Sexed up chores.
Posted:Aug 16, 2008 6:41 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2008 7:03 pm
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We all know about vacuuming naked. Somehow, being naked makes vacuuming a lot more fun. Well today I accidentally found a way to make one of those tedious household chores A LOT more fun!

This afternoon while I was power-washing my front steps I kept getting tangled up in the various hoses. I stepped one leg over the hose for the power-washer sprayer and it accidentally pressed against my pussy. I quickly realized that it had a really nice pulsation. So...... I pressed a little harder against it. I pressed so hard, in fact, that it wound up in between my pussy lips pressing against my clit.

Well, it wasn't long before I had a little orgasm standing right on the front steps of my house. After a little more power-washing and two more orgasms I finally had to step away from the hose so I could actually get the job completed.

If you need any power-washing done at your place, give me a call. I'll be right over.

So tell me........... have you found any ways to make house work and chores more pleasurable?

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Thought of the day.
Posted:Aug 14, 2008 6:58 am
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2008 3:54 am
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There comes a point in your life when you realize

who matters,

who never did,

who won't anymore...

and who always will.

So, don't worry about people from your past,

there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

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Stop doing the math!
Posted:Aug 11, 2008 8:37 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2008 7:26 pm
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"Stop doing the math!" that's what my best friend would say to me every time I would use age as a reason why I couldn't be more than friends with BT.

BT was the hot guy from the gym that made it clear he wanted to do more than spar with me in the ring.

BT was 17 years younger than me.

BT looked so sweet and innocent I thought "there is no way this knows how to please a woman". And the day he asked me "Why can't we be more than friends?" I told him as much. He didn't get defensive and he didn't immediately try to convince me otherwise. What he did do, was ease gradually into a conversation about our individual sexual preferences and past experiences. By the end of the discussion I realized that BT and I had more in common sexually than I ever realized. And to top it off, BT had experienced things that I hadn't but desperately wanted to! We scheduled a playdate for the very next day.

It was so much more than I ever imagined it could or would be. There was not, as Boy Toy commented to me the next day, a single uncomfortable or awkward moment. And when have you ever had "first time sex" and not had a least one moment of doubt or uncertainty?

I've always had Boy Toy's permission to blog about anything and everything that happened between us, but I never did. And when I gave him permission to brag to his buddies about the amazing sex he was having with his older woman, his reply was "That's just between you and I."

So why, you may ask, am I suddenly blogging about it now? BT moved away this weekend. And I'm sad. And I'm not ready for it to end. And while he only moved a few hours away, and we will see each other occasionally, it will never be the same.

So here are somethings that I learned from Boy Toy:
~Chemistry is unpredictable.
~When a man and a woman lie naked together it doesn't matter what year they were born.
~Don't waste time. The very thing you've been looking for may be gone before you know it.

Farewell Boy Toy! You will always be remembered!


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This cowgirl is gettin off her
Posted:Aug 7, 2008 2:10 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2008 7:17 pm
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Well, none of you changed my mind about reverse cowgirl, but that's okay........

So, I'm wondering what is your favorite position and why?

Mine would be tied to the bed......... oh wait, that's not really a position, is it? Okay then, my favorite position, if I had to choose just one, would be my legs over his shoulders with a bullet on my clit. I love the deep penetration combined with the clitoral stimulation and the ability to see his whole upper torso and face. So currently that is my favorite but you never know, the next boy toy or lover or bf could change my mind.

So don't hold back. Tell me.......
what's your favorite position and why?


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Reverse Cowgirl
Posted:Aug 5, 2008 6:40 pm
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2008 12:55 pm
32450 Views

Okay, help me out here. I just don't get this one. And in all honesty I've only ever tried it twice and it didn't last long because:
  • Your dick isn't pointing anywhere near my "g" spot. In fact, it is as far away from my "g" spot as possible!!!
  • There is nothing rubbing on my clit, except maybe my fingers or a bullet and you can't even see that.
  • I can't really see your dick sliding in and out of me, and I don't really enjoy staring at your feet.

    So tell me....... How do you make this one work? And besides playing with your woman's ass, what is it you like about this position?

    And girlfriends, I'll take any advice or suggestions you have!


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    Before I climb off my ......
    Posted:Aug 4, 2008 6:16 am
    Last Updated:Aug 17, 2008 7:34 pm
    34049 Views

    Before this cowgirl climbs off her , a few last questions.....

    When you gal is ridin' on top:

    ~What are your thoughts about HER fingering her clit or putting a bullet on her clit herself? At this point, she is basically just using your cock for her own pleasure. Seems kinda selfish to me but...... sometimes I get so caught up in the moment and the "feeling" I forget that there is actually a person attached to the cock I'm riding. Afterward I always feel a little guilty.

    ~Is there any final parting comments about riding cowgirl before I spin around to ride reverse?

    Giddyap!


    11 Comments
    Questions from a Cowgirl
    Posted:Aug 2, 2008 1:59 pm
    Last Updated:Aug 28, 2008 12:54 pm
    33141 Views

    When your gal is ridin' on top....
  • are you lookin' in her eyes?
  • looking at her tits flyin'?
  • or lookin' at your cock slidin' in and out?

    When your gal is ridin' on top....
  • can you manage to keep your finger or a bullet on her clit?

    When your gal is ridin' on top....
  • do you thrust your hips up to match hers?

    When your gal is ridin' on top....
  • can you cum in that position?

    When your gal is ridin' on top....
  • are her eyes open or closed?

    So you like my cowboy boots?


  • 7 Comments
    What's up with the Cowgirl Position?
    Posted:Aug 1, 2008 8:37 pm
    Last Updated:Sep 14, 2008 7:19 pm
    31752 Views

    So tonight over cocktails at happy hour (okay, maybe it was well past happy hour and we'd had more than our fair share of "happy") we started talking about our favorite positions and the favorite positions of our past lovers and husbands.

    Seems many of you men REALLY like the cowgirl position, (aka woman on top). And we want to know (and I personally want to know)..... What's up with that? What is the appeal?

    We all agreed that we felt very self conscious on top. Those of us who had had all concurred that when we were on top it was much more difficult for us to cum. Why? Because we were self conscious about our "less than perky" boobs (from nursing) and excess belly skin (from being pregnant) and as a result, when we were on top we weren't feeling so sexy.

    So what is it about "cowgirl" position that you guys like so much???


    7 Comments
    Lessons Learned
    Posted:Jul 28, 2008 7:58 pm
    Last Updated:Jul 31, 2008 7:56 pm
    30982 Views


    As a life long learner, I thought I'd share some of the things I've learned recently.

    ~Just because a person looks/acts sweet and innocent does not mean they are vanilla in bed.

    ~There are young men (and I'm talking mid-twenties) that DO know how to please an older woman!

    ~People who enjoy being dominant in the bedroom do not necessarily behave that way outside of the bedroom.

    ~It IS possible to orgasm when you have a pulled muscle in you leg, but it hurts like hell when you cum.

    ~It is NOT possible to cum after you've take a muscle relaxant for "said" pulled muscle.

    ~When I'm not blogging on-line, I'm still blogging in my head. But I miss reading your comments.

    I hope you will share a few things with me that you've learned recently.

    6 Comments
    Sub or Dom?
    Posted:Jul 17, 2008 7:08 pm
    Last Updated:Aug 4, 2008 6:18 am
    31165 Views

    If you felt you were truly a Dominant or a Submissive you would probably be over at ALT and not here but.....
    I think inside of a good many of us one or the other is more prevalent. For myself I would say:
    5% of the time I like to take on the Dom role.
    35% of the time I like to be submissive
    The remaining 60% of the time I like to be equal.

    I'd love to hear your thoughts on the subject!
    [COLOR blue][SIZE 3]I identify as a Submissive[/SIZE][/COLOR]
    [COLOR blue][SIZE 3]I frequently but not always like the Submissive role[/SIZE][/COLOR]
    [COLOR blue][SIZE 3]Occassionally I feel Submissive[/SIZE][/COLOR]
    [COLOR blue][SIZE 3]I identify as Dominant[/SIZE][/COLOR]
    [COLOR blue][SIZE 3]I frequently but not always like the Dominant role[/SIZE][/COLOR]
    [COLOR blue][SIZE 3]Occassionally I feel Dominant[/SIZE][/COLOR]
    [COLOR blue][SIZE 3]I switch[/SIZE][/COLOR]
    [COLOR blue][SIZE 3]I don't identify either way[/SIZE][/COLOR]
    5 Comments , 79 votes
    Ass-icons
    Posted:Jul 8, 2008 6:25 pm
    Last Updated:Jul 17, 2008 7:51 pm
    30694 Views
    We all know those cute little computer symbols called 'emoticons,' where:

    : ) means a smile and

    : ( is a frown.

    Sometimes these are represented by

    : - )

    : - (

    Well, how about some 'ASSICONS?'
    Here goes:

    (_!_) a regular ass

    (__!__) a fat ass

    (!) a tight ass

    (_*_) a sore ass

    {_!_} a swishy ass

    (_o_) an ass that's been around

    (_x_) kiss my ass

    (_X_) leave my ass alone

    (_zzz_) a tired ass

    (_E=mc2_) a smart ass

    (_$_) Money coming out of his ass

    (_?_) Dumb Ass

    You have just been e-mooned!

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