How to Write to a Woman on Affairlook
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Posted:Aug 10, 2013 4:13 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2013 9:02 am
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Guys on Affairlook: I'm going to try to help you out. I've heard from scores of you in the last few weeks since my return to this site and so few of you are getting this even remotely right. I think I understand your predicament: you're horny, this site promises easy sex, you send out lots of messages, but you get little or nothing in return.
Here is the cold hard truth. There are very few of us real women on here. It's at least 100 to 1. Those are horrible odds. Unless you have a freakishly long dick or you look like George Clooney, achieving success here is going to take some work.
So what to do? First, only write to real, active women. How do you know a woman is real? Does she have any friends listed? As soon as a woman creates a profile on here she has the requests and the opportunity to add friends. If she hasn't, she probably isn't real or isn't very interested in this site. Does she have any testimonials? That is very good. Does her profile say something more substantial than "I like to have fun"? That is also good. Has she logged on recently? She is active. You have achieved step one: you have found a real woman.
Next, let me tell you what you should not do. Don't waste time with lame "how r u" messages. When I see a message like that, all I can imagine is that you're lazy. You don't really care if I answer or not, so I don't. Also, don't waste time with a form letter. Does your message sound like something you could send out to every woman on this site? If it does, I imagine you have sent 100s of them and I don't answer. Use real English, not text-speak, and include punctuation. Come across as intelligent, thorough, and caring.
READ a woman's profile - every word of it - and pay attention to what she is looking for. Do you have those things? If so, be very specific and tell her how you are a great match for her. Sound confident about it. If you're not what she is looking for, you can write, but you're going to have to include something very convincing about why she should make an exception for you. Either way, be sure to set yourself apart from the rest of the thousands of men here and include details about yourself and what you are looking for. Most of you have profiles that say little more than "I'm a guy who wants to have sex"; that's not going to set you apart from anyone and no real woman is going to pay any attention to you at all.
Most importantly, don't come across like you're looking for a . Lines like "I just need to get laid" scream one thing: you are a taker, not a giver. Women here are looking for men willing to give them friendship and sexual pleasure for the same in return. What do you have to offer? If nothing, get a .
And about photos. I don't think that I'm the only woman who isn't really very attracted to cock shots. We are not visual in the same way that you men are. Once I get to know a lover I think his cock is cute, but cocks without faces are just a little creepy to me. I'd much rather see a face pic or a full body pic with clothes. (I know, I know, I don't have a face pic on here either.) I did see a really adorable chest shot on here that got my attention. (Hi, B!) 
About marital status: if your profile says "prefer not to say", we know you're married and you come across as sleazy. On top of that. if we're single women, we have very little reason to hook up with you. I mean, who wants the complications when there are single men available? If you're married, it's best to just admit it and explain your situation honestly; there are married women in the same situation.
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