Apolitically Correct
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Posted:Jan 29, 2016 1:50 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2016 2:18 pm
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On the rare occasion I peruse my Facebook feed I am confounded by the posting of an old female acquaintance. When I knew her, she was all about the turmoil of her boyfriend and her five . Then she got married and all she was was smiles and cuddly poses with hubby. Now there are cuddly poses and exuberant declarations of affection for a mannish looking woman. Does homosexuality really sneak up on you that quickly? These seemingly instant conversions make it hard for it not to seem like a passing fancy. And what is to be said for her when they break and reverts back to heterosexuality?
Some women are just hurt and go off men temporarily. I understand but I don't condone.
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Joint Agenda
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Posted:Jan 29, 2016 8:08 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2016 9:59 am
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As a single female I am called to work a joint agenda of finding a mate and finding a lover. These two missions are actually separate and work against each other. To find a mate I need to be the vessel of purity and sanctification which means I can't fuck you and have to put you off sexually because in the real world men don't marry whores and love the chase. To find a lover I have to troll websites looking for big dicks and hope it's ongoing but I can't get too emotional because it's just sex. I have a full life and all this takes a lot of time. I wish I had the money to outsource
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Omega Chain
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Posted:Jan 28, 2016 7:38 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2016 1:50 pm
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I was reading an article today about the male/female power struggle and it advised women to stop dating omega males. I didn't even know this was a thing. Turns out omega males are alpha imposters. What's worse is that I appear to serially date these types of men. I'm going to make a conscious effort to break this habit. It seems reasonable that I'd ultimately be dissatisfied with these nonconformists because my nature is conformity no many how many masks I have stashed in the closet. The article when on to advise dating beta men. It is an idea that I like but I want dominant air about. It releases my sexy.
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Attention Seekers
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Posted:Jan 26, 2016 10:39 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2016 7:54 am
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In a myriad of situations there always seems to be attention seekers gumming up the works. Typically people who have no business being involved but due to personality deficits involve themselves all the more. Some do this because negative attention brings more recognition than no attention. Do you have someone who you've placed in a prescribed box and even taken the time to discuss why they've been placed in said box and cannot occupy a more desirable one? Only to have them constantly in your face prancing about in their prescribed box but working their ulterior motives. You can try and ignore it but one of two things will happen. You will concede defeat or concede to crazy. They will be happy in any case to be the victor or the victim of your misplaced rage and hostility
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Block the Cock
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Posted:Jan 25, 2016 7:53 pm
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2016 8:14 am
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The last couple of weeks I've had an old flame invite me on a date only to cancel the day of due to a work obligation. He does say sorry, but left to his own devices he would occupy the next few Fridays with his bullshit. Is this an attempt at cock blocking?
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Just Be Nice
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Posted:Jan 23, 2016 7:51 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2016 7:57 pm
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I had a member contact me for a meet. His initial request was for me to meet him in the parking lot of a motel so we could feel each other out. I told him I would be agreeable to meeting for a drink. As I waited at the bar he texted me to inquire whether I was inside. I guess because he was still stuck on a clandestine parking lot meet. I cannot feel you out in a parking lot. I need to converse to determine what wavelength you are on. So he came inside and he ordered a beer which he chugged. I tried talking to him and asked him questions but it was like talking to a brick wall. His only question of me was whether I was ready to go. When we got outside I told him I didn't feel comfortable. A. Because he was sporting a cold sore. B. His disinterest to connect with me in any way meant he was going to take my clothes off, fuck me then ask me to leave. I'm a person,not an object. Despite being on Affairlook, I don't want to be a substitute sex toy
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Best of
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Posted:Jan 21, 2016 9:17 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2016 5:01 pm
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I had probably the best experience with a member a few nights ago. It was also the second travel hookup I've ever acquired through this site. He was a real person and treated me like a real person. He didn't show up in character and treat me like I was starring opposite in some porn. There was no alcohol involved. It was a complete BF experience (is that even a thing) from the way he kissed me to the way he touched me. He was sexy with a great cock and a complete gentleman. I have a hard time convincing myself it was real. May please have permission to stalk?
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Cake
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Posted:Jan 19, 2016 3:37 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2016 8:16 am
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I have an acquaintance I've known for a couple of years who is a Caucasian man in his 50's. I knew he was married and I assumed his interest in me was due to him having a white haired wife at home who is menopausal and uninterested sexually. I continued this delusion until the middle of last year when I saw him at a 's playscape with his hot wife and his . The wife is Asian with a tight body and I'm guessing 15-20 years younger. I ignored him of course but I've felt differently about him ever since. From afar I could see his wife was probably not engaging with him sexually. I say this because she never touched him and never looked at him and we were all there over the course of two hours. So it's not as if I believe he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. I mean his is but not in the sense that he's banging her every night and wants me too. It's not really a question of deception either because I deceived myself and I never asked for clarity. I guess in the past I considered my catering to his advances as some type of charity but it's not charity at all. I liked the story better when he was some guy sticking with his high school sweetheart for the long haul not playing the back nine of wife #2. What do you think?
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Holiday Validation
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Posted:Dec 26, 2015 7:00 am
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2015 12:09 pm
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I googled validation and the sites only referenced the female need of being validated by a man. There was no mention of men's need to be validated by females. I know this is reality because I got two phone calls yesterday for this purpose. You can say it was just a holiday call, but I heard the desire to be told "you are wanted, loved and missed by me" . I can't say that a small portion of that isn't true for my exes but I'm certainly not willing to part with it when I too am alone and single. Are there any men willing to admit to dialing the exes in the last few days for validation that you are still loved?
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