Wow, I'm seriously annoyed!!
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Posted:Jun 19, 2012 10:18 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:32 am
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So okay I emailed the FriendFinder franchise because I have Confirmed my ID but on an account with Friendfinder I can't get it to recognize the ConfirmID, the logo isn't on my profile page and I still show on my profile completion that I haven't fulfilled that. I tell support that and they tell me that I already got points for my ConfirmID and that trying to get it again could get me in trouble!
So I state my question AGAIN. And they come back with "to confirm your ID..."
Seriously??? No one is reading what I am asking for!?!!? No one seems to understand my damn question!
Has anyone else gotten the run around like this with the FF support group? Seriously, all it takes is a little damn attention!
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The conversation goes out of control...
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Posted:May 29, 2012 10:10 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2012 9:31 pm
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I have a really hard time taking charge in a conversation and not letting it go where I am not ready for it to go! At least, not too early.
If I've had a conversation like that with someone, where it's gone way too far too early, is there a chance the situation is redeemable or is it a lost cause?
If I give up too much in the first few conversations is there a chance the guy will ever take it seriously or just expect it always to go that direction?
I think I am too much of a pushover. And then I end up not wanting to talk to that person again. After I feel pissed that though I said I didn't want things to go that way too early the guy seems to push and push and doesn't listen. Seems like they never will allow me that respect. And don't care about what my situation is at the time. It seems really selfish and guys can be so pushy!
I can't even tell you how many times it's come to cyber sex, but I'm not even asked if I want to participate! They just seem to start yanking on it and trying to get me to talk dirty! Ugh
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Done
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Posted:Aug 23, 2010 7:03 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2012 9:32 pm
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I give up. What I want is not possible. People have different definitions for this or that. What I want can't be defined, I guess. It's somewhere in between the in between. Tired of trying!
Good luck to all of you! I hope you find whatever it is you're looking for.
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Couple account but only he is contacting me....
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Posted:Aug 23, 2010 4:49 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:32 am
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Twice I have been contacted by men that say they are no longer in a couple, but the profile is a couple profile.
I say get your act together first, get your own profile, before you start contacting people as a single.
Am I wrong??
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Spanked!!! Stop that!
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Posted:Aug 8, 2010 8:52 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2012 9:32 pm
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Okay it may just be me but I DO NOT like when someone I don't know flirts with me by "spanking" me! I find that to be quite rude!!
You can bet your ass if some dude "spanked" me in a flirt as first contact that I WILL NOT initiate additional contact by returning the flirt! And will be quite peeved if that person emails me. I just think that is a bit presumputuous and makes me feel very objectified.
Am I being silly?
For you guys out there, treat a lady like a lady. Even if we are on a site like this we are still ladies!!!
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Wha....what....I squirt????
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Posted:Jul 19, 2010 5:57 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2010 5:29 pm
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Okay so I got a little action this weekend. Had a really great time! We spent ALL day Saturday in bed. /contented sigh
Maybe it was more than a little. 
So we are doing our thing and he tells me that I squirted....could I really be a squirter and NOT KNOW!?!?!? Maybe it was something different he did? I don't think so! I mean it was good and all, but wasn't the best sex I've ever had or anything like that.
I thought this was something that you either did or didn't do. I know there is a technique that they say can make any woman squirt, but he didn't do anything special!
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The move went well...
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Posted:Jul 7, 2010 10:26 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:06 pm
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YES! The move went pretty smoothly. I just got my internet hooked back up in MY OWN ROOM! So I'll be around sometimes on Affairlook. I love reading the advice lines and commenting!
Hope everyone had a great 4th of July holiday weekend!
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Ugh they never listen!
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Posted:Jun 28, 2010 10:48 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:06 pm
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Okay so I mentioned in a previous blog that I am moving.
The move is taking place this Saturday.
I am so stressed out. I HATE change. I'm worried how this will all work out and I am concerned about the . Especially my youngest, who has severe allergies.
My parents are sooooo stubborn and they NEVER listen!!!
First off both are not in good health. My dad is on oxygen, has had knee and shoulder surgery and he's just not the spry guy he used to be! He has alot of pain and gets exhausted so quickly. I had it all set to make sure he was NOT HERE for the day of the move so I don't have to spend the entire day trying to keep him from moving heavy stuff! Now my mom volunteered him to come help take apart beds on Friday....HELLO!!! My brother and sister will KILL me if he gets hurts or passes out or something trying to do stuff he shouldn't be doing!! sigh
And omg my mom...never...listens...to....me.
I have an old bed. It's practically falling apart. I need a new frame. But to get a frame I will need a box spring, because the bed is a bottom of a bunk bed. I can't afford to buy a box spring and frame right now. What I want to do is save up a little money and get a Pragma bed frame. It's designed where you don't need a box spring. It will take a little time to save the money, but I think in the long run it will be well worth it.
So my mom decides she is going on an epic mission to find me a cheap bed frame....I swear I have told her at least 5 times about the damn pragma bed!!! I even sent her web links!! I also told her getting a bed frame now is not an option, because not only do I not want to go that route, but I can't afford to get the box spring now and I don't want to have to store the bed frame til I can get one. Again, I'd rather just get the pragma bed.
So the other day they are out checking their items at a second hand store and they see a bed frame....and call me to see if I want it....um NO, we talked about this! I tell her again what I want to do and the call ends.
TWO DAYS LATER....she calls me all excited "Dad and I got you a bed frame!" 
So I have to tell her AGAIN what I want to get....and she is upset with me!! Pissed off!! Slamming down the phone on me!!! GRRRRRRRR
She thinks I am ungrateful....LISTEN TO ME!! You are driving yourself crazy trying to get me something I have told you many times I don't want! I have a plan!!! I am a big girl now!!!
She also told me how I should clean the stove in the new place and what product I should buy to clean it...
When is she going to accept that I have grown up?? I'm 39 years old! lol
I have to keep telling myself that shooting my family is illegal. Shooting my family is illegal....
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Go me!!!
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Posted:Jun 21, 2010 12:56 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2010 11:21 pm
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Silly stupid little blog!!! It's almost 4am!!!!
Not a bit tired.
So retardedly proud of myself at this moment.
I killed a fly earlier today, like the fucking karate ! Swooped in and smacked it when it came to rest, like a ninja! WOOT! lol
That fly has been buzzing around me all day long!!
Got in earlier while the roommate propped the door open to move some of her stuff out.
Then just now killed a spider that was crawling on the wall first down behind my comp then over towards my closet. Grabbed a towel from hamper and swooped in suddenly for the kill. Ran my finger over the spider's body through the towel to make sure it was dead!! Ninja spider killer too! WOOT!!
A little sad that I have to kill them. If it was a Daddy-Long-Leg I would have caught it and taken it outside. A beetle would have gotten that same treatment.
Some pests just need to be slaughtered.
Ninja bug killer should try for sleep soon!
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Wall of Shame #2 Liar......BUSTED!!!
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Posted:Jun 19, 2010 4:21 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2010 11:22 pm
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I got an email the other day from a guy that lives WAY too far away from me. I want a regular thing, and long distance usually does not work for that! Have tried that and it never works out well. So I politely told him so and wished him well.
He was persistent. Gave me his chat ID outside of Affairlook. At that time I noticed in his handle a drug reference. Some numbers, it's not hard to figure out! So I went to his profile and it says: drugs: I use some recreational drugs
I am not into drugs. I had bad experiences with my mother and my first husband. So I pointed out to him that I avoid drugs and people that use them because of past bad experiences.
And his come back was "Who says I use them?".....
I directed him back to his own profile answers.
He said back "eh, whatever" and has left me alone since!
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Just me needing to bitch!!!
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Posted:Jun 13, 2010 5:41 pm
Last Updated:Jun 20, 2010 5:39 pm
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I'm sorry for this post. I really have no one to talk to about all this. If I tell my mom these things she gets upset and then nags me about getting out of here (which I am doing!). I can't tell my because they don't need to hear this crap and they need to see me as stable and strong, not emotional and weak.
I feel like I have to give some back story because otherwise whoever does read this will be totally lost as to what the fuck I'm talking about.
Okay so first, I left my second husband because the law caught up with him on some things he did before we met. When I left him I had been a stay at home mom for a couple of years when we were living in IN. Now I have to say, I did not have time to prepare to leave him, at first he kept saying his being arrested was all a big mistake and he would sort it out quickly. Well with the threat of utilies about to be shut off I moved back to MD until he sorted his problems out. We ended up losing our house, 2 cars repo'ed, etc.
I moved back in with my parents, but they got into a senior apartment. My and I had no where to go. So my best friend of 20+ years offered to let us come stay with her in exchange for me watching her pre-school aged , cleaning and cooking. I didn't have to pay any rent. I was saving her money on care, plus I was paying for almost all the food in the house with food stamps. So it seemed a fair enough trade. The plan was for me to get a job once her youngest was old enough to be in school full time.
Well to make that long story short, she is now losing her house because she is a compulsive spender and can't pay the bills before she buys books, DVDs, starbucks coffee several times a day and gets her nails, toes and eyebrows done all the time! What person in their right mind buys a new toy or outfit for their every week when they can't afford to pay the electric bill??? Because of all that, my and I were going to be homeless again, but I found a nice lady willing to let us live in her house really cheap. She has MS and will need a little help from me, but I am free to try to find a full time job. It seems really great! Wish us luck!
So back to why I'm bitching. Well my roommate is a lazy bitch! She NEVER cleaned her house before I got here. Never used a vacuum cleaner. Never wiped off the bathroom sink or cleaned the toilet. There was caked on food on the kitchen counter, etc. And she's a pack rat. Maybe even a hoarder. She won't let me touch her stuff either. She has piles of stuff everywhere! She never makes her clean their rooms either. There are piles of dirty clothes and towels in her 's room. Both her (9 and 4 when we moved in) are bed wetters. She was too lazy to change their sheets and was making them sleep in it!!!! I took charge of her pre-schooler when I got here and started stripping her bed every morning. And my friend would get really upset because she had to wash her sheets every night. So she is now making her wear pull ups. But her is still wetting the bed and she only washes his sheets on the weekend! IF she has time between all the partying she does to actually do any laundry!!!!
This has been going on a long time.
What has me really riled up tonight is that she is packing for her move. And she moved a bunch of stuff around in her bedroom so someone could take a chest of drawers that she was selling. Well she ended up putting everything on her bed instead of just moving it out of the way. And they piled her 's bed with stuff while they were packing in their earlier. So now everyone in the house has to go to bed at 8pm because she and her are going to sleep in the living room! Bedtime for the older is 9 and 9:30/10!!! And we all have to fucking tip toe around all night cause she was too lazy to take the stuff back off her bed! And they came to get the chest of drawers yesterday around 2pm!!!!! So she has had this time to move that crap off the bed but hasn't! And now everyone else is inconvenienced.
Ugh, I know it's not really that big of a deal, but with everything that has been going on since we moved in here it's like the straw that broke the camel's back!
Anyway, again sorry for the rant. I really needed to get that off my chest.
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10 Important things men should do on this site.
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Posted:Jun 8, 2010 4:23 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:04 pm
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1.) Read Profiles before emailing.
2.) Post a picture. Doesn't have to be your face, I know privacy is an issue. Your chest, your eyes, a pic with your face
distorted, or the ever popular cock pic, if you are so inclined.
3.) Read Profiles before emailing.
4.) Read Profiles before emailing.
5.) Put as much info as you can on your profile. Fill out the questions, give us some information about you! And not just that you have a high sex drive and love to eat pussy.
6.) Read Profiles before emailing.
7.) Read Profiles before emailing.
8.) Make your first email more than just your phone number, your outside IM ID and how much you'd like me to suck your cock.
9.) Read Profiles before emailing.
10.) Read Profiles before emailing.
And in case you didn't get the most important one. Read Profiles before emailing. Usually we put our preferences on there. IE no married men/only married men, no dating outside our race/only a different race, that we are into the same things you are sexually, that you fit our age range, etc, etc, etc.
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