What's Everybody Going to Do During the Quarantine?
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Posted:Mar 19, 2020 8:39 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2021 10:11 am
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Hi, everybody. It’s been a long time since my last blog.
As I’m writing this, the country – and the world – are starting to shut down because of the Corona Virus. Everybody is beginning the process of "self-quarantine."
It's like science-fiction, but it's real!
… and it means that, for some of us, it might be a while before we have sex again.
Everything I took for granted – the fun Affairlook and SLS hookups; the cool play parties – is going to stop for (at least) a while.
In a way, it’s good. Because for many of us work will stop, too, and we can’t travel anywhere. Which isn't good. But...
... it means that all that's left for us to do, is what we really want to do.
I have already started learning some graphic design software (I always wanted to, but I never had the time), and hopefully I'll be able to finish the novel I’ve been working on for a few years.
So the bad news: Maybe no sex for a while.
The good news: We can do things in our lives to "improve" ourselves. We finally have time to do that exercise we're always putting off. And we can sleep late if we want to.
It's also a time for me to reflect on all of the cool/fun/awesome fun I've had in the "lifestyle." I've made a lot of great lifetime friends. Some of the nicest people I've ever met. I've had amazing experiences.
My question is, for anybody who is actually reading this, is: What are you going to do during the quarantine?
Hope everybody is doing well.
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Affairlook: Not as Good as it Used to Be?
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Posted:Nov 21, 2019 8:49 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 8:11 pm
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I have been on Affairlook since 2003.
For about thirteen years, it was amazing fun. I would somebody, she would back, we'd meet, and then most of the time (because i guess everybody can't like everybody) we'd go back to "her place or mine" for a night of wild sexual abandon. I have hundreds of amazing memories.
But the last few years, has been weird on Affairlook. I would say that, ever since around 20, a lot of the new profiles put up women are , or they're "bots." (Maybe the new profiles are too, but I don't know, because I'm not checking that side.) And for the real profiles, I , but very often: crickets. No reply.
Has anybody else noticed this?
Maybe there is too much choice now -- not just on Affairlook, but in the world as a whole -- and people are now just "looking, but not touching." Or maybe it's just that I'm getting older, and now women want a guy? (I think I look pretty much the same!) Who knows?
Has anybody else had the same experience? It just seems like there's less actual meeting through Affairlook than there used to be.
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Does anyone else notice more flakiness than there used to be?
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Posted:Nov 19, 2018 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2021 12:27 pm
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It's been a long time since I wrote a blog, but:
Has anybody noticed that there's more flakiness than there used to be?
When I got into "the lifestyle" ten or fifteen years ago, it seems like I'd make a date with someone, and then we'd meet.
But I'm noticing that, just over the last year or so, I'll make a date with someone, we'll text or chat for a few days before and everything is great... and then "the day of," they disappear. Crickets. As if they were never there!
Does anybody else have experience with this?
I think it's not just happening in the sex world, but even in vanilla dating, too.
Has it happened to you? Why do you think there's more flakiness than there used to be?
Thanks for reading this!
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13 Happy Years
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Posted:Sep 9, 2016 12:13 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2019 11:25 am
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I signed up for Affairlook in 2003. I've been a card-carrying member since then. It's great!
I've met some of the nicest people and had some amazing experiences that I'll never forget.
Most of my friends have "settled" down -- the root-word being "settle." But why would anybody want to do that?
Life is short. Be nice to everybody, don't hurt anyone, and have fun.
For all eternity we're going to be dead. This is it.
I have made a lot of happy memories, and met the greatest people, on Affairlook!
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The Interesting Thing I've Noticed...
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Posted:Nov 21, 2015 9:05 am
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2019 10:49 am
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I've noticed something interesting in life, when it comes to dating -- and not really in "lifestyle dating," but more in actual/conventional, "vanilla" dating.
I've had this situation a few times: There's a woman I used to date, or a woman I didn't date, but wanted to (a friend). We talk on the phone and see each other quite a lot.
Then, invariably, she gets married to another guy (because I'm a "swinger" who won't commit). She continues to call you (or: me) for about the first month or two of her marriage to the other guy, but then, ultimately, it stops.
What I think is going on, is that she is apprehensive about her marriage -- she's kind of in limbo, in between the two world of getting married and not being married -- and she likes to know that she has an "out" (me) in case her marriage doesn't work out. But then, when she settles into the marriage with the other guy, and realizes that it's good, our phone conversations and in-person meals stop. You (or:  might say hi or wish her a happy birthday on facebook, but as far as talking and getting together -- it comes to a complete stop.
Have any other guys noticed this?
I have!
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My favorite porn stars.
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Posted:Sep 18, 2015 11:23 pm
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2019 10:40 am
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Trying to think of my favorite pornstars of all time.
In no particular order:
Christi Lake
Nina Hartley
Anna Malle
Seka
Vanessa Del Rio
Summer Rose
Crystal Wilder
Debi Diamond
Christy Canyon
Candy Hill
Asia Carrera
Alicia Rio
Fay Reagan
Jesse Jane
Stormy Daniels
Desiree Cousteau
Marilyn Chambers
Kim Chambers
Kelly Leigh
Minka
Shannon McCullough
Juliet Anderson
Keisha
Nici Sterling
Mackenzie Lee
Layla Jade
Ginger Lynn
Amber Lynn
Deauxma
Nikki Sinn
Bree Olsen
Alexis Texas
Lisa Deleeuw
Veronica Hart
Kelly Nichols
Alana Evans
Beverly Lynn
Hannah Harper
Carol Cummings
Bunny Bleu
Lisa Lipps
Michelle Lay
Darryl Hanah
Sara Jay
Ava Devine
Sydnee Steele.
Yum. Thank You.
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Adult Dating: The Dropout Rate
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Posted:Aug 3, 2015 9:26 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2019 10:23 pm
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I've had a lot of great experiences on Affairlook over the years, but -- I'm wondering about what other people's experiences are with the dropout rate?
For every cool person I meet (and I've met a lot of great people on Affairlook), it seems like there's a person who just "drops out." You're supposed to meet, you send emails back and forth... and then the person just disappears into the horizon.
Like everybody else, I have my share of faults, but I'm not flaky. I know that sometimes real life gets in the way and that everybody gets busy, but... I'm wondering if you've ever had any experience in which you were supposed to meet someone and then the person disappeared.
I tend to think it's because the person found somebody they want to meet instead. Or maybe she's just dipping her toe in the adult dating world-pool and seeing what's there.
But: it's weird. When I talk to somebody about meeting her, and she says she wants to meet me and then vanishes, I always feel funny about it.
What do you feel? 
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