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be back soon!
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Posted:Mar 17, 2011 11:13 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2015 1:35 pm
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i'm taking a brief hiatus from Affairlook to take care of some things in my life.
good luck to all in finding what you seek! 
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To all my friends....
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Posted:Jan 27, 2010 3:42 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2014 10:02 pm
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if i haven't told you lately how much i appreciate and love you....know that i always have and do!!!!
my surgery is today and i'm thinking of all of you....i miss you all *hugs*
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reality....
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Posted:Dec 9, 2009 9:46 pm
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2009 12:17 am
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~ Life is not about being right ~ it's about doing the right thing. In the words of George Orwell, "During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act."
~ Actions are the fruit of all truth, it is by your words you may be heard, but by your actions you will be judged....
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to remind myself and inform O/others
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Posted:Sep 25, 2009 9:48 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:44 pm
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the following 3 files i have copy pasted were given to me years ago by Someone very special to me Who died in 2007. i post them here as a reminder to myself and as a statement to O/others.
the submissive's rights....
i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected.
i have the right to trust, providing i have earned it.
i have the right to expect You to believe i am an intelligent, caring and loyal person.
i have the right to ask for Your attention, without having to misbehave to get it.
i have the right to expect You to administer Your punishment on me with care and caution.
i have the right to question Your motives, should You deny my requests, as long as i do so with the proper respect.
i have the right to speak up if i feel O/our relationship is not giving me what i need. i have the right to tell You what i need in a respectful manner.
i have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for doing so, and the right to expect You to listen with an open mind and heart.
i have the right to walk away from O/our relationship if W/we cannot come to a common ground on these issues.
i have the right to expect tenderness, love and understanding after a scene is completed, should it be what i desire.
i have the right to ask You for that tenderness if i've had a bad day, or if i just feel the need for closeness, i understand that there will be times when You and i will disagree about this when You will want a scene and i will not.
i have the right to voice my opinion, and expect You to listen to and consider my reasoning, i expect You to have final word, but i expect You to wholeheartedly consider my feelings, whatever they may happen to be.
i have the right to expect You to understand that deep trust often breeds love, and i expect You not to repel me if i tell You that i love You. For my Mistress i will love You, should O/our relationship move ahead, should O/our trust continue to grow.
i have the right to expect You to tell me, at any point, if You do not feel You can return those feelings, so that i may decide what i want and need. For it is Your pleasure that adds to my own, and makes it real, And mine, that adds to Yours!
the submissive's creed....
i will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. i realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Mistress and i from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm. i will not try to manipulate my Mistress. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should. i will keep an open mind about trying things that i am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits. i will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
i will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Mistress, and will do my best to fulfill Her wishes and desires. i will not allow myself to be harmed or abused, i know that submissive does not equal "doormat".
i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives, i will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where i have been i will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
i will be responsive to my Mistress, i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may assist Her in Her responsibilities as my Authority, i know that Dommes are not telepathists, and will not expect my Mistress to know thoughts or feelings which i do not share.
i will never think myself a "better" submissive because i choose to submit on a different level than another. i will not be boastful of experiences i have had as a sub. i know that my actions reflect upon my Mistress, and will do my best to help others see Her in a positive way. i will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Mistress.
above all, i will wear my title of submissive with honor. i will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or subhuman. i will take pride in who and what i am, and will never show myself in a negative way.
the slaves prayer....
allow me the strength to answer questions i can't fathom....
allow me the spirit to know Her needs....
allow me the kindness to choke back retorts....
allow me the serenity to serve Her in peace....
allow me the love to show Her in peace....
allow me the tenderness to comfort Her....
allow me the light to show U/us the way....
allow me the wisdom to be an asset to Her....
let me be able to show Her each day my love by my service to Her....
let me open myself up to completely belong to Her....
let my eyes show Her each day my love by my service to Her....
let me open myself up to completely belong to Her....
let my eyes show Her the same respect, whether i sit at Her side, or kneel at Her feet....
let me accept my punishment with the grace of a woman....
let me learn to please Her, beyond myself....
grant me the power to give myself to Her completely....
give me the strength to please U/us both....
permit me to love myself, in loving Her....
allow me the peace of serving Her....
for it is my greatest wish, my highest power to make Her life complete, as She makes mine.
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the new me....
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Posted:Sep 10, 2009 3:57 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:43 pm
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hourglass figure - 115 pounds - size 3 - now to get in shape!!!!
i know it's the insides that count, but the outsides help a little 
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in search of me....
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Posted:Aug 27, 2009 3:42 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2014 10:01 pm
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i am on a path to find myself and my purpose in life. i am doing some soul searching in hopes to find the true me. at this point i'm not sure if i'm truly a natural born submissive or if it is just some role i have been playing all my life because that is all i know.
until i figure out who i am and what i am....i am not seeking A/anyone or anything.
i don't play games and i certainly do not wish to hurt Anyone by my not knowing myself thoroughly.
i wish E/everyone the best of luck in finding what T/they seek....i know i hope i find what i seek too.
tie
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the ties that bind me....
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Posted:Aug 25, 2009 6:58 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2009 8:08 am
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struggling is the action of trying to hold onto something i want or think i posses that was never mine to begin with - the struggle causes PAIN!!!! - letting go is the action of accepting things as they are! True acceptance and truly letting go is painless and therein lies FREEDOM!!!!
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a time for change
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Posted:Aug 24, 2009 4:45 am
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2009 3:27 am
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today and each day is an opportunity for me to do something different - a second chance to bring about change in my life - if i don't take action for this change no one else will....
tie
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new pictures taken today
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Posted:Aug 21, 2009 11:20 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 8:36 am
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i posted 3 new pictures that i took today. they should be approved and showing on my profile soon.
tie
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omg i am losing so much weight
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Posted:Aug 19, 2009 4:44 am
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2009 1:46 pm
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finally got the guts to dig out the measuring tape.
36 1/2" - 26 1/2 " - 36 1/2 " 
too bad i couldn't lose this much weight when i was trying (in healthy ways) 
hopefully things turn the corner soon, being this sick, feeling this badly grates on a person's nerves while still trying to be an active participant in their own life.
i miss all my F/friends *hugs*
Tie
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on the road again
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Posted:Jun 22, 2009 4:59 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2009 7:25 pm
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i'm moving again today.
my health has taken a turn for the worse  so i am unable to work. moving back home because i have no other choice. i guess i should look at it as it's a good thing i have that option open to me, but it kind of still sucks.
once i get my health back i can finally move on with my life. *crossing my fingers*
i'll be back in touch and keep my F/friends posted ASAP.
i'll miss Y/you all,
tie
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finally leaving
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Posted:Mar 28, 2009 11:12 am
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2009 11:05 am
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leaving washington next week and headed east *smiles* finally.
oh what an adventure my life path has been thus far
i'll miss all my local friends - i love you all
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