Exploring Sexual Boundaries with your Partner
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Posted:Dec 28, 2019 8:32 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 2:49 am
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This was shared from a great website called psychologytoday.. Their link is below, but I thought it an important article share with my Affairlook community. I hope you enjoy.
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One of the best ways prevent boredom and breathe new life into the bedroom is to explore your sexual boundaries together. Most couples don’t explicitly communicate their boundaries with each other, so a lot of couples don’t actually know where they stand on the behaviors and fantasies they feel comfortable experimenting with. Discussing your boundaries can give you new ideas to try in the bedroom, and it can also help you develop better communication skills, deeper trust, and greater intimacy.
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https://psychologytoday.com.us/blog/wedded-and-bedded/201503/how-explore-your-sexual-boundaries-your-partner
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Bisexual Men - Not just a moidern phase
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Posted:Dec 18, 2019 9:38 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 2:49 am
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This is a great article that bi men have been a part of history ever since humanity has been alive.
https://www.advocate./bisexuality/2018/9/26/15-bisexual-men-who-prove-its-not-just-phase#media-gallery-media-1
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Great Prostate Massage Article
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Posted:Dec 18, 2019 9:11 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 2:49 am
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How to Have a Prostate Orgasm: 35 Tips for You and Your Partner
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prostate-orgasm
How to Have a Prostate Orgasm: 35 Tips for You and Your Partner
Overview
Who can?
Where exactly is the prostate?
How to find
What it feels like
Practice
Orgasm
Pain
How to
Techniques
Positions
Milking
Massage vs. orgasm
Benefits
Takeaway
What is it?
The prostate — or P-spot, as it’s often called — is a small muscular gland that produces the seminal fluid found in ejaculate.
It helps propel semen from the penis. It’s also surrounded by nerve endings that can feel oh-so-good when touched just right.
Curious? Read on to learn how to find this backdoor wonder and bring your body to orgasm.
Who can do it?
Not everyone has as prostate!
Only cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have them, but that doesn’t mean that other folks have to miss out on the fun.
Helping someone achieve one of these mind-blowing orgasms is pretty awesome, too. High-five!
Where exactly is the prostate?
The prostate is located about two inches inside the rectum, between the rectum and the penis.
How do you find it?
You’ll need to head south along the back road to find it in a magical place called the anal region.
Although entering through the anus is the most direct way, you can also stimulate the prostate indirectly through the perineum, or taint.
This is the skin that runs underneath the scrotum to the anus.
What does the prostate feel like?
It depends on whether you’re feeling it from the outside or inside.
Being aroused makes it swell, so the more turned on you are before you poke around, the easier it’ll be to feel.
From the outside
The perineum is firmer near the front of the penile bulb, which is the inner ending of the shaft.
It feels softer and fleshier toward the back. This is the area you’re aiming for.
You may not be able to actually feel the gland, but touching it will likely cause the sensation of needing to pee.
This is a sign that you’re where you want to be — trust us!
From the inside
It feels like a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining. It’ll feel different from the other tissue in there.
Is it easy to orgasm this way?
Let’s say it may take some practice and patience.
Actual clinical research on prostate-induced orgasms is seriously lacking, so we don’t know how common it is or if it’s possible for everyone with a prostate to have this type of orgasm.
Every body is different, so some experimenting to see what feels good is in order. If you do manage to have one, reproducing it will be easy.
What does a prostate orgasm feel like?
P-spot orgasms are said to feel similar to penile orgasms, only way more intense and felt through the entire body.
There are reports of people having super orgasms, which are a stream of fast, continuous orgasms that cause the body to shudder.
Not everyone ejaculates during a prostate orgasm, but some release a dribble of milky fluid from the urethra.
Will it hurt at all?
Minor discomfort the first couple of times (as you adjust to the sensation of anal penetration) is normal, but it shouldn’t cause severe pain.
How to get started
A little bit of prep can help make the experience a good one whether you’re flying solo, or on the giving or receiving end of things.
If you’re the receiving partner
You’ll want to be as relaxed and aroused as possible, because it’ll make the experience easier and more enjoyable.
The whole poop-comes-out-of-the-butt thing gives some people a case of the heebie-jeebies even when it’s their own butt.
Remedy this by taking a shower and paying a little extra attention back there to get it squeaky clean. Some people like to use an enema before engaging in butt play, but it isn’t necessary.
Use the bathroom before getting started. Prostate stimulation can make you feel like you need to pee, and anal penetration can cause the sensation of needing to poop.
Even though you won’t actually do either, worrying that you might can interfere with your ability to let go and enjoy yourself. Knowing your bladder and bowels are empty can help.
Getting used to the sensation of having your prostate touched can help, too. Practice with an anal sex toy, like a butt plug, or your fingers.
Be sure to set the mood so that you’re turned on and primed for action. Light candles, watch porn, or engage in some good old-fashioned masturbation or foreplay to get there.
Finally, be sure to lube up real good. Applying a water-based lubricant will allow for easier penetration and make for some easy gliding if stimulating your prostate externally.
If you’re the giving partner
Cleanliness and safety are a must, even for the giver.
Cut and file your nails smooth to help avoid scratching or tearing the delicate skin in and around the anus.
Wash your hands thoroughly, even if you’re planning to use a condom over your finger to penetrate your partner. (Yes, you can do that if it makes you more comfortable.) For extra comfort, stuff cotton balls inside the condom or glove.
You can also get the party started in the shower together, which serves as foreplay and gets you both all nice and clean for the big show.
Check out the rest at: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prostate-orgasm
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My Lawnboy Daze
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Posted:Oct 22, 2019 8:07 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2019 7:34 am
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This really happened to me. It was my first sexual encounter with a woman who was mature enough to know what she was doing, and yes it was a full-on seduction by someone who knew what she wanted. It's why to this day I still love women who know what they want and are not afraid to go after it. It's why I'm such an oral guy and don't think I'll ever get enough of going down on my partners.
My parents were friends with Pat and Charlie next door ever since we moved in. I had always been that neighbor who had taken care of Pat and Charlie's cats when I was in Junior High and moved up to mowing their lawn when I got to high school. When I went off to college something happened and Charlie moved out. At my parent's request I would head over once a week in shorts and begrudgingly mow and trim completely unaware of what was going on with my body. I played soccer on the varsity team so was in great shape. Every once in a while I could see the curtains sway as if someone had just moved back from them, but could never swear to it. When it was hot out I would slather on SPF 30 and do my mowing without a shirt so I could catch rays while doing the neighbor a favor.
This went on for a while. On one particularly hot and humid day Pat came out with a glass of iced tea. We talked for a bit about the heat and what a great job I was doing, as I gulped the tea down. She went on about how much she appreciated my work and me being around now that her husband had moved out. I was wearing cutoffs that day and caught her eyeing me out of the corner of her eyes as she turned her head to look off.
She said if I ever wanted to use the pool to cool off I could. I said thanks, and that I would do that some time. She kept the small talk going with comments about how hot it was, and if I would like some more iced tea. I finally broke down and said sure, why not.
She went into her air conditioned house leaving me to watch the door close behind her. She was in her forties, but in great shape. I'd always been one for the kind of curves that a woman with a classic hourglass shape carried; a larger bust and the kind of waist that just opened up to a real ass. I could feel the blood flow into my quickly engorged member as I watched her sashay away.
I was trying to control my arousal, but that only made matters worse. But when she came back out she was wearing a swim suit. It was a one-piece, but still, she had changed into a swimsuit...
She handed me the tea and put a hand on my chest as she smiled and said she was going to take a dip.
I stood there thinking, "okay, is it my horniness that giving me the wrong signals or is she swaying her hips just a bit more than before?
She dove into the water and came up for a breath. I could see her nipples clearly through her thin suit. I could feel my penis betraying me again as she asked if I wanted to cool off. "The water's great and I know you could use some cooling off."
As she dove under I watched as her beautiful bottom rose and submerged again. My head was spinning with what I took to be a double entendre as my cock filled itself out a bit more.
The next time her head came up I yelled, I'd love to Ms. Benton, but I only have these grundgy cut offs." She shrugged, "I don't care. It's why we have that pool thingy."
For me it was a way to hide and hopefully minimize my raging hard-on, so in I went.
She swam over and rested beside me with her elbows on the pools edge. "You were beginning to make me feel bad, like I was some princess in her air conditioned chateau and swimming pool, while you slaved away on the lawn." We both laughed at that as This she started to ask me about how college was going and what the girls and guys were like there..
She asked me if I had met anyone. When I told her no, she put her hand on my bicep and said something along the lines of "Oh, that can't be true." She gave my arm a squeeze and let out a quick "oh," as she realized how firm I was.
She quickly gave my cheek a kiss and said, "there, now you've been kissed. Okay, by a neighbor, but it still counts."
We both laughed and went back to some light banter.
At some point she poked my chest with her finger. When I looked at her she just giggled and said, "well I just had to see if it was just your arms or if all of you was just as solid."
"I'm pretty sure it's all solid," I said with a knowing nod.
"Why don't we see about that," were her words as she moved to the ladder and began to climb out. She grabbed a towel and bent over s she dried her hair. I could see her large and natural breasts bounce and sway past her firm buttttocks as she did. She just looked around her hips at me staring at her. She smiled before wrapping the towel around her, covering her body and her swimsuit before straightening up. Then her face changed into something else. She reached beneath her towel and her swimsuit dropped to her ankles as she stepped out of it.
Still covered by her towel she walked toward the back door and said, "well, aren't you coming?"
If it wasn't obvious then, I don't know when it would be.
I jumped out of the pool and tried my best to be cool about the whole thing, but not everything bought it - my cock was raging hard and was pushing down, more than peeking out through the left leg of my shorts. Yep, denim, fringe, cock.
When I opened the door to her living room, there she was laying back on what I imagined was Charlie's easy chair. As I opened the door she opened her towel to reveal her breasts that rose and fell above her firm belly, which of course ended in a trimmed tuft of fur, all of which met her tanned thighs in the perfect V of her pussy.
My gaze was interrupted when I heard her commands, "Well, don't just stand there. You're dripping all over my floor. Take off your shorts and come inside." I undid my shorts and kind of wiggled them down to the floor. My cock, at full staff, bobbed and bounced as I did which brought her no end of pleasure.
She opened her legs and displayed one of the most beautiful pussies I have ever seen. Her hand slightered down her body and drew slow circles near to where her clit was. Her other hand quickly followed to spread her flowering lips and reveal the glistening pink of her inner lips.
"Come over here. I want to teach you things that no girl in college could ever teach you."
She pulled a little pillow from behind her head and tossed it on the floor. "It's for your knees. I want you to kneel down as you taste what a real woman tastes like."
I walked over and put my knees on the cushion as she instructed me to place a hand on either thigh, opening her legs slowly as I caressed my way up her innermost legs. She taught me not to rush straight in, but to kiss my way up her ankles to her calves, and to pause at her knees as I tongued the thin and sensitive skin behind each knee.
She gently slapped the top of my head, "Do you see where I'm rubbing? That's called the clit, and it is one of the most sensitive little bundle of nerves on a woman's body." I begin to reach up only to have my hand slapped. "Oh no, no. That is for gentle touches and tongues only."
She grabbed each of my ears and led me up to her pussy and her clit as she instructed me how to lick her outer lips first until they revealed the shiny oyster beneath, and then how to savor the brine before sliding a finger gently inside, hooking it upward until I found the roughness of her G-spot. All while my tongue and lips continued to flicker and suck on her pearl.
As soon as I got into playing with her pussy, she would push me away to tell me to never rush, but to pull back and kiss her inner thighs and even move my fingers down to massage the bottom of her pussy opening.
When I did it right, she would say things like "oh, that's right my little slut," and "You are such a good pussy eater and mommy's going to make you a great one," or my favorite, "Mommy's going to have such a fun summer with you."
Pat moved my mouth around her body, both gently and not so gently, as she taught me how to suckle on her nipples, caress her breasts, eat pussy and to learn to enjoy rimming her ass. Oh it was a summer school of erotic pleasures. And it wasn't just about me giving her pleasure. She also taught me how to moan as I learned to enjoy everything she did. There were times when I was uncomfortable with what she liked, but I learned to open up to it and simply breathe it in. Like that day when she told me to lay on my back so that she could get herself into a 69. As soon as she started sucking my cock I begin going up on her.
"Just follow my lead," moan, "and do to me what I am doing to you." I could feel her saliva dripping down my cock as she sucked. I could feel her fingers massage that lubricant onto my balls. I pulled her ass cheeks apart just as she was going to me, and I rimmed her ass in little, short flickers of my tongue just as I felt her do to me.
As she spun her own saliva around one of her fingers I did the same with the wetness of her pussy, and when she began to smear that lubricant around the rim of my asshole, it felt so good that I did the same to her.
"Oh, that's right slut, open up for me. Just relax and open up for mommy."
I felt the pressure as she slid her finger into me. I flinched at first, then relaxed as she massaged her finger deeper into me as her throat slid down on my cock. "Oh yeah, that's a good boy. Finger my ass as you eat my pussy."
As she went down the next time and pushed her finger deeper into my opening I started to cum. When she touched my prostate I erupted as never before. It was like the inside of me was pouring out and into her waiting mouth.
We both just lay there like that. She on top of me, my legs and ass splayed wide open in complete and utter exhaustion. It was she who moved first, swinging a leg over and climbing off her me, her new and willing student.
"Mmmmmmmm, I think someone may just enjoy a little ass play. Am I right?"
I stood there in silence, just nodding with my eyes wide open.
"Oh, that's good. I'll have to remember that in the future." She grabbed my ass as I stood there naked, under her unabashed eye.
I was quickly learning to be proud of my body and more comfortable in my nudity.
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