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Cynical? Me? No way!!!
 
Riding the online roller coaster and blogging since March 2005 - wooo hooo.
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Looking for Katrina......
Posted:Aug 30, 2005 6:13 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Katrina - where are you?

Rumor has it, anyone that meets you in person is never the same.

Would love to hook up with you and see if you could blow me away.

I'll be looking for a sign that you are around!!
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If I could take a long lunch.....
Posted:Aug 28, 2005 11:21 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I would meet you at a secluded location, a nice hotel perhaps? Or even better - your place?

I would hold you, kiss you, taste your lips with mine and feel the soft texture of them, then kiss my way along one cheek towards your ear. Lightly lick your earlobe and then continue quickly on to the nape of your neck, gently lifting your hair out of the way and then kissing and licking that wonderfully sensative spot. Hearing your breathe and take in little gasps with each of my kisses and licks would turn me on and you would be able to feel my hardness pressing against you.

I'd then turn you around and continue my attentions to your neck, and then slide my hands up and under your top, if it had buttons I would reach around you and slowly release each one as I continues to kiss, then I would remove your top and kiss my way down your spine as you enjoyed the moment - this is all about you - I know I will end up being please so I want to make sure you are taken as close to the edge as possible, if not over, before I even begin to worry about myself.

Did you wear a bra today? Then that will need to go at this point, clasp in the back? Easy work for me - in the front? Then please be a dear and open it so I can slide it off and kiss and lick eveyr inch of your smooth back while my hands run over your hips, up your belly and finally find your hard nipples waiting for my fingers to caress them.

this may be a long lunch... to be continued
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CRAP!!! I expire in 4 days!!!
Posted:Aug 26, 2005 11:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Damnit - I wasted away my gold membership - and soon I will be back to standard....

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!

forget confused - now I am just grumpy!!!

just curious - any of my fellow bloggers been re-upped by Affairlook since they started handing out the Golden Tickets last spring? Or all we all set to expire at once?
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Mutual self-centeredness?
Posted:Aug 26, 2005 11:00 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Two in one night - hold me back I am on a roll!!!

Wanted - an attractive female close to my age who would be interested in just getting together for mutual satisfaction. Distance IS a factor.

Too much to ask huh? Yeah - I know it is..... but I can dream can't I?

I was recently involved in a long distance thing (yes - my previous blogs mentioned it - and I did get involved and well - here we sit now looking back).

Now I work near a large university - and I see tons of co-eds every day - the person I was involved with seems to think that I was getting 'checked out' all the time and would have my pick of women. Let me say it here because it is the truth - DOESN'T HAPPEN!!!! I AM an 'attractive' male - sheesh - ya know I have actually lost weight since I took the pic in my profile last spring? I was around 185 then - and I under 180 now - not that I looked bad then and would be fine were I back at 185 - but I am telling you - either women are NOT checking me out - or they are so good at doing it without revealing themselves that I miss it. I tend to believe the former.

So as I walk around some days I glance at all the young co-eds and no so young other ladies (face it - I am about to hit the big 4-0 - looking at the co-eds is almost certainly putting me in the dirty-old-man catagory). Either way - I do look - but seldom get even a smile. I cannot even guess the last time a woman 'hit' on me - it just doesn't happen.

Damnit - did it again - started out thinking aobut talking about the impossibility of a 'no strings' relationship and ended up complaining about not getting hit on!! lol

see - I am soo out of practice - and here I was thinking I had nothing to write about yet I can't keep focused long enough to get out one decent post.

ok - those of you that 'discovered' my posts after I had been doing it a while - walk away and check back in a week - maybe by then I will have worked all this out of my system..... those that are 'new' to my blog - go back and check out May - or June - that might give you more of a clue as to my inner workings..... or not...

oy vey.... I am just going to just keep choosing the mood confused until I get this all worked out.

Back to my initial thought - if you are a female, somewhat attractive and live somewhere in Indiana - and would be interested in getting to know me better - for gods sake SAY SOMETHING.

As to all the lovely women that have visited my blog in the past, or wiked/written to me - would one of you please MOVE closer? lol

oh hell - there is that thing about me being married... chances are that isn't helping my odds either.... <sigh>

cynically yours, 'posting nick'
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Please please me
Posted:Aug 26, 2005 10:44 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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So much has changed in blogland since I vanished....

And I am a bit stumped for something to post.... but here goes....

Why was I away? Well several reasons I guess.

A bit of burnout, a bit of a long-distance relationship with someone NOT from Affairlook - alas that relationship has apparently reached a point where we had to shit or get off the pot and the reality of the situation make it look like we are both standing up and not reaching for the tp (ewww - where the hell did that analogy come from?).

Summertime was another factor I suppose - but do ya know I haven't met one person from Affairlook since I started this lil blog? I did better in my first six months of my silver membership when I spent all my time searching profiles and attempting to come up with that next witty message. Alas my silver membership (paid) expires next month and this membership also expires unless the Blog Gods decide I am worth re-upping me again (thanks BLog Gods - I did enjoy the advantages of Gold even if it didn't result in any meetings).

Lastly I have a hobby involving a website that I own and I get very involved with during the summer - no its not a porn site but it does make me money from advertising (ya know people that BEG for donations to keep their site running? they are doing something wrong - my website paid for itself in January and I hadn't even added to the content for 3 months at that point) - a pretty decent sum of money for a hobby actually and this year went very well again (and still will be for a couple months) - so perhaps I will fund my Affairlook account the same way I did last year - with some of my advertising commisions - who knows.

wow - I am just rambling....

I think I will just post this puppy and then post another that hopefully is a bit more concise - sorry to those I might have confused.


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Hmmmm yes it has been a while...
Posted:Aug 23, 2005 10:39 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Off I went, this is is something I have been guilty of in the past, I get side-tracked and dissapear.....

I am think maybe I should come back, I hope you will all not hold it against me that I went awol.

Its about the worst possible time for me to come back, work is a total bitch but I need to have something to get away to and calgon just doesn't do it for me.

What have I been up to btw? In all truth nothing, or rather no I didn't meet someone from here and run offline for a couple months, I am sure I will go into more detail soon - for now it is back to work.

I have missed those of you that I have talked to and apologize for what that is worth for sorta falling off the face of Affairlook
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Long distance relationships here?
Posted:Jun 8, 2005 1:22 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Just curious if you have ever met someone via this site that was a LONG ways away and ended up meeting them.

Now I don't mean people that were in some city you were already planning on visiting - I mean people you met - and then made a point to get together somehow - perhaps after you met you ended up visiting the place they lived - but initially you had no intentions of going where ever they happened to live.

Personally I have never met anyone more than hmmmmmm 90 minutes distance from me via this site. In the past I have met someoen halfway that lived 3 hours away but that was long before I discovered Affairlook - I have also met people that I knew via the net that were hundreds of miles away - but that was just the friend thing - net buddies.

There are a few people I have exchanged messages with here that if I were ever in their neck of the woods I would love to meet - be it for coffee or well - a hot steamy 'no strings' (rofl) romp. Of course who knows if they would feel the same? (like how vague I am being?).

Anyone have any long distance stories to tell? If nothig else make your own blog post out of it and leave a not here to tell me where to look!!
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Rambling.......
Posted:Jun 8, 2005 1:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Just a few random thoughts........

It appears my gold membership has garnered me a few more views, even a couple winks and emails - thats nice - kinda a lil pick me up when I am feeling blah....

I do believe I have been exchanging messages with a guy posing as a woman - can't say for sure yet but if it is the case "she" has done a wonderful job of fooling me. I haven't done anything to regret... And if you are reading this and think I am talking about you - you are probably wrong - lol. But if I ever confirm my suspicions I will share the gory details with everyone.

and with that I have a topic to post that I will make seperate from this one....
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Around the blog in 60 minutes...
Posted:Jun 6, 2005 11:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Ok.. I have surfed by many of my favorite blogs (but not all in case you think I missed yours), 'stopped watching' a few that seem to have gone dormant and I wanted to ask a couple questions.....

Before I go searching is there a reason some of us found ourselves magically Gold members?

What the heck should I blog about? Should I just ramble? compile some more useless stats? List some more blogs that I think deserver more views (althouh I might be slipping off the map myself since I went awol).

Off to bed knowing no one will see this until some time tommorow.

night all and glad to see most of you are still about!!!
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I suck!!!
Posted:Jun 6, 2005 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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HEllo all in blogland - ughhhhhh - I am so lame - lame lame lame....

I have just been busy in real life land - and it was pointed out to me that the Affairlook god's decided to bestow gold status on me? wow

Funny considering I already have a silver membership. GO figgure - the 'rich' get richer.

So do I notice a big difference? Nope - the ONE thing I like aobut gold over silver is that you can do a search and ONLY search for people that have been active recently. That cuts out a lot of the junk.

Of course the problem is I have already sorted through the names and there just isn't anyone catching my eye (or rather I should say anyone I haven't already contacted).

I have this gold thing through sept which is also about the time my silver membership expires....

I am making myself a promise to spend time trying to catch up tommorow.... hope I can keep that promise.
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I've been a bad bad boy!!!
Posted:May 28, 2005 11:28 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I am sorry to all of you in blogland. Real life still has been keeping me busy as heck. I will do my best to catch up and see what is new around here. TY for the nice messages in my last post, its very cool to know you are missed.


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All work and no play!!!
Posted:May 23, 2005 3:06 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Been very busy, but will try to make time to read all your excellent blogs tonight!!!
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Cute vs Hot
Posted:May 18, 2005 11:08 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Confession time... I am 'cute.'

Yes, I have come to the conclusion that the women from Affairlook that have met me - or seen me on cam or my face picture think of me not as 'hot'- but as cute.

This is not a bad thing, I like being 'cute' - I think it is a combination of my writing/chat style, which is pretty much how I am in person, as well as my 'looks' - I just don't do 'sultry' very well.

So ladies (and men if you are so inclined) - which do you prefer given a choice? And/or what do you think makes a person hot or cute?
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