Body to Body Massages
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Posted:Jan 11, 2009 5:56 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2013 5:55 am
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From time to time I visit my local massage facility.. local girls foreign girls and what not...to me the masseuses girls are very open and very warm, well most of them.... Every session I go for I always go to have a b2b massage. (body to body) hmmmm I like the feeling of a woman's body on mine especially the part when she uses her breasts to massage me.
It starts by paying downstairs then you go upstairs and you choose your girl, it has about 4 to 5 girls and sometimes more or less depending on how many is working at the time. Upon choosing you are taken to your room and asked to have a shower while she goes and gets ready.
After showering you are then in the room and she comes in her towel, you also are clothed in your towel cuz you just took a shower. Oh well it begins by you both removing your towels she dims the lights and sets the mood for the massage...
I always check out her assets which is a key part of it... As she begins she asks you to lay on your stomach as she starts massaging your ass and your back etc. she gets up on top of you and sits on your butt.... that feels good cuz you feel her pussy on your but, and her shaved part touching you... well as she does her thing you can feel yourself getting hard as she is doing her massage and she works the oil into you.... some of the oil gets warm as it touches you, the high point is when her breasts hits your back and the softness and nipples caress your back.... i love it as she goes and works it..... soon she asks you to turn on your back, well as the massage continues she will already see your manhood hard and before she straddles you she gets the condom from what they gave u downstairs and unwraps it and slides it onto your hard manhood.... if you are not hard she gets you hard by playing with your tool then slips on the condom and climbs on your stomach careful for your tool not to slip in. depending on your masseuses she will work it as if she is fucking you but your tool between her stomach and your and simulate the act. wow its good! sometimes the girls would ask you if you want something more... DON"T ASK THEM..... if she asks its up 2 you.... most times i just pay to have my way with her body by touching and squeezing and massaging her as well, one time I let one give me a blow job (extra) paid for that extra and well she was great!
As the massage goes on she will give you a genital release (jerk off) and complete the massage!
Damn a body to body massage is great!
Guys I'll hook u up with the location if interested!
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Are you truly close to each other
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Posted:Jun 19, 2008 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2010 7:05 pm
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Do u feel a strong communication with your steady with this level of intimacy. What are your experiences.
Facts vs. Hype
Have you and a significant other (relationship science's term for a romantic partner) ever been separated by time or distance -- say, parting for summer vacation when you were at school? Before the separation you naturally wonder what will happen: Will absence make the heart grow fonder? Or will it be a case of "out of sight, out of mind"?
Both proverbs offer "wisdom" but they contradict each other: how do you know which to believe? This is where research comes in, sorting good advice from bad. In this case, research has suggested that both sayings are true -- but under difference circumstances. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" when partners have already established a mutual commitment. Without such a shared understanding and a pledge to stay together, however, "out of sight" is likely to mean "out of mind," and a weakening or ending of the relationship.
Without science and fact-checking, much of what we "know" about relationships can turn out to be mere mythology or bad advice. Relationships are important to us, so we might even consider cliches in our search for guidance. Yet, as important as closeness is to human well-being, all the information you will find in our online series is the product of research, not the interesting, "anecdotal" accounts we all get from our friends or some of the self-help titles at the local bookstore.
"Oh, I had a boyfriend/girlfriend like that once... Be careful."
Or, "C'mon, man, you know how women are. Like the book says, they're from Venus. Only interested in love and romance. Don't try to tell her what you're worried about. You'll turn her off."
In fact, research shows that sharing fears and other personal feelings brings people closer, but the second exchange, overheard in a coffeehouse, while bad advice, tells us something important: As important as closeness is to human well-being, few of us feel completely successful in intimacy. We seek partners, we seek solutions to conflict and seek to know the secrets of harmonious relations with those we have found. This is the paradox of the psychology of CRs: important and natural as intimacy is in our lives, it can be elusive and difficult to achieve. As a result, most of us, whatever our relationship status, remain curious about closeness, even as we are motivated to forge stronger, more enduring connections with others.
Our friends and the popular media often do provide useful information. So how can you know whom to believe and what to reject? That ability to discriminate, to be an educated, critical consumer of information, is one of the goals of this seminar series. The information offered here is based on scientific studies and observations, not myth nor fantasy. Some writers offer only stylish opinions, designed to sell, not to represent the state of the science. The more you know of valid information and reliable research, the more readily you will distinguish the useful sources from the junk reading. The material in our seminar series will get you started and help you think about relationships in a more informed way and help you think about and improve your own relationship skills.
We will even be including interviews with current researchers to find out what they're working on now. For example, this week we will hear about psychologist John Harvey's work on minding and relationship loss. Did you know that we all tend to construct a story about past relationships? The content of this story can be very helpful to a person who has lost a relationship, whether due to death, divorce or drifting apart, recover and go forward.. John and I are also co-authors of Odyssey of the Heart: Close Relationships in the 21st Century.
The Care and Feeding of Close Relationships
To help give you a chance to think about your ideas and assumptions about relationships, in each session you will find some questionnaires and self-assessments. Knowing your own tendencies in close relationships -- for example, pushing or pulling away when things are not going well -- can be an important step to improving them.
I will also recommend resources to consult so that you can "follow along" with the course in other published materials and pursue some topics further on your own. Some of what we offer here can be applied readily to your own relationships, like an effective advice column. But this is not therapy; it is a course of instruction and study. No single research finding or lesson will apply successfully to every life. Complex problems don't have simple solutions. One size does not fit all!
What you derive from this Web seminar series depends on what you seek and what you put into the quest. It's intended to be as intriguing as a magazine article -- and, we intend, more reliable, accurate and useful. This first session emphasizes a point that may not need emphasis, especially since you are already reading this far: Relationships matter. And so does their "care and feeding." With effort and intelligence, intimacy can be an experience of both mystery and enlightenment.
Deep, personal relationships are central to how you define yourself, and to your experiences and actions. A relationship with a very close friend, romantic partner, family member or spouse affects how you remember the past, experience your present and anticipate your future. At this extreme are relationships we define as "intimate."
Intimacy refers to a distinctively close level of communication between two people. Intimacy may be reflected in confiding or candid talk; meaningful shared silences; mutually enjoyed activities; or of course in sexual interaction. But "intimacy" is not a synonym for sex -- rather, it should suggest the idea that sex is potentially a unique type of communication. All these examples are forms of close, personal relating -- what relationship scientists mean by intimacy. In an intimate or close relationship, you feel free to be yourself, to care for another person, to ask for what you need. These are the relationships that contribute to our happiness -- or, when they go wrong or fail, to our misery.
This seminar series on the psychology of CRs will examine the intimate end of the spectrum. Most relationships psychologists define a close relationship as one in which people have the following distinctive experiences:
* They know each other well.
* They care about each other.
* They depend on each other.
* They share their lives, thinking of themselves as “us.”
* They trust each other to be honest and fair.
* They maintain a commitment to each other.
A tall order? Certainly not every close relationship succeeds in every one of these qualities all the time. Elements might be missing in a particular partnership that is otherwise satisfactory to both persons. And no two successful CRs look alike: there are successful friendships, love affairs, marriages and cohabitating partnerships. But despite the many shapes and sizes, the best relationships seem to be the ones that reflect all these goals.
In future sessions, we will examine not only intimacy but also the longing for closeness; not only successful or healthy relationships, but also the "dark side" of intimacy, including conflict, loss and breakups. This series on relationships examines the broad range of human experiences and efforts at closeness.
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