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Lets be honest.
Posted:Sep 21, 2020 10:15 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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I have been a member here for along time. Just recently got gold. Have say unless you have a lot of friends or fans not responding is Ridiculous. The amount of fake profiles, , and folks who say they're here hook up. Dont even espond a message or an IM. I don't have that many friends on here yet. But I respond both From everyone man, woman, transsexual, non binary, Vee, and a bunch of other identifying folks. . We are all here for a reason. Yes, there are different ones. Put it in your profile, Aand be real with people who reach out. I dont think i am a bad looking guy, and I am honest a fault. Check my profile and the date. Enough said. If you have been in the spot comment.

Can I get a hell yeah? Or An amen up in here? If you get the last reference good for you.

OUT.
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Starting early
Posted:Aug 10, 2019 5:24 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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Hello again. Back in Arlington. Will be her months. Wanted see if anyone is interested in going seeing some sights and spending some evenings together. Yes also hooking up, trying some new things, and putting some spice into the old.

Let me know if your up it.

Talk with you all soon.
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Life in Utah
Posted:Nov 2, 2018 10:09 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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Morning all. Have to say it is an interesting place when you on the outside. What is the best way to get to meet a woman who really wants to. Hookup, have a relationship, or just spend some quality time?

Talked to quite a few on here and when it comes down to the meeting up part you don’t hear from them again.

Please check out my profile see if it is just meet or what I putting down. Would really like to know.

Thanks hope to hear from you all soon.
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Still looking
Posted:Aug 26, 2018 11:51 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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Me again. Still in Arlington and have had no luck. Like I said before talked to some great people and some not so great. But again when it comes
Down to it no meet ups.

Really a downer when you have put time in your profile, talk to folks and still nothing.

At this point if anyone has some advice let me know.

Got one more month here and would really like to meet someone.

Hope to hear from some
Of you soon.
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Women in Arlington, VA
Posted:Jul 29, 2018 8:08 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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I see you on IM and even talk with a few of you. Let’s post some responses. When is the last time you hooked up with someone off of here.

Been trying to meet up with someone for almost four months and still have two more to go. Seems like no one follows up.

Gents when is the last time you hooked with a woman from Arlington? I am here in Arlington you would think it would be simple.
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Another weekend
Posted:Jul 22, 2018 11:44 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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Just to update another weekend come and gone. Talked to several ladies on here. Even ones near me. With two even had a lot in common. Saidhow about meeting. Somewhere in public and grab a coffee or a drink. See where it goes. They either break off the conversation or come up with an excuse. Your on here chatting you should be ready to meet.

That’s the concept here. Not sure why some folks are on here to find their soulmate. I can think of a bunch of different ways to do that. This is a hookup site and that is what people should be doing with it.

Just looking for one steady friend with benefits. At this time I would even do one night stands. But the girls here seem to not have the girl balls to follow-up.
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What’s up with DC??
Posted:Jul 13, 2018 4:00 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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Been here for a few months even met one lady, and could tell right off she was fake. Not looking for what she posts. Where are the ladies who would like to meet a professional older male. Have a good career wanted to go to dinner the movies. Of course looking to hook up. Not like I an ugly guy. Have a good sense of humor can carry a conversation, and up for trying new things.

Even a regular hookup. That way the pressure and the nerves are off after the first couple of times and then relax and get to know the real me.

Whole weekend is open ladies if this sounds too good to be true it using. I just an honest outspoken guy. Who will still treat you like you deserve and show you the respect you want. Then there is the physical part. I sure you would enjoy.

Feel free to reach out. Happy to talk with you.
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Another City Same thing
Posted:May 6, 2018 6:00 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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Morning been here in DC for almost two mo ths. Have talked to my daily limit of three people a day. Have to say have had some good chats. Talked about other things besides sex. Yes that’s right. When it come to time to meet in public for coffee or a drink. Etc nothing. They quit talking or make excuses. I am no underwear model. Older white male. A little heavy good sense of humor and can carry on a conversation. Still nothing.

As a standard member, it would be nice to see someone who actually wants to meet. Will be here for work for another four months. I will update again in a couple of weeks.

Stay tuned.
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Really on Instant Messenger Why?
Posted:Oct 11, 2017 10:10 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2020 9:04 pm
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Morning,

Just wanted to take a moment to say if your on IM it should be because you want to talk. Not always about hooking up, although, that would be nice. However, you get those that don't want to talk. Or if they do it is about nothing related to meeting, talking about what it is they are looking for, or carrying on a conversation.

Is it just me or am I just daft?

Someone let me know.
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Hardone371970 says On with the Saga
Posted:Sep 9, 2016 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2018 8:11 am
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Friday afternoon. We will see how this weekend ends up. Review my other posts. This is why I don't renew my membership. You can talk to a lot of ladies, and hear all kind of BS why they aren't ready right now, etc. Over the last ten years the women that I have talked to always seem to have a reason that we cant meet right now.

What happened to all of those ladies who took the chance, met in public, hooked up? I am sure some of them had a relationship with someone from here. Others it was just a fad and then they moved on.

Still there were some who will have fond memories, and are now in a regular relationship.

Ladies there are those that are in a relationship, had some , a home and are wondering WHAT IF?

Then there are those who reached for that brass ring, took each one, and loved, lost, or just hooked up and passed in the night. They are saying I remember when.

Women on Affairlook which will you be What could have been, or What Was.

Update you guys on Monday how it goes.

OUT
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With the continuing saga of WTFO?
Posted:Sep 6, 2016 8:06 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
4973 Views

So talked with one woman tonight, sent her a photo and she doesn't do the short beard thing. I said ok I will cut it so then are you ready to meet? What does she say?? Glad you asked. I am not sure if I want to meet. So you talk with a guy tell him you don't like his look, he is willing to change it. When presented with what you ask for then you say "Not sure your my type" . Really? Really? A man who is willing to change something you don't like without even seeing your photo, and in two seconds you pass judgement.

Now that is a lady who knows what she wants. Did you catch the sarcasm? So another evening of females who Don't know why there here.... Lets see how the rest of the week goes.

Ladies if your on here it is for the same reason as us. If you pass judgement that quickly without even seeing what the other is interested in you might get a lot of friends, and build your self esteem, but not a lot of action. IF that is even the reason your on here.

Stay tuned for our next episode.
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Hardone371970 says WTFO?
Posted:Sep 4, 2016 1:35 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
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Again another weekend, and again a bunch of ladies that are just chatting, and looking for old friends. Talked with two ladies this weekend. One WOW not enough to keep the conversation going. The other one getting somewhere and she disappeared. I am still under the same impression as last week. That when given what they are asking for, they buckle, back-out or change the subject. Looked at your profile what your interested in and there it is. OH OOPS need to um well er uhh?

So still nothing in the continuing story of why are they on here, what is the true purpose and who knows.

Stay tuned next week for the continuing story of the ladies of IM who just wont put out.

Signing off.
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Why is it we are all here
Posted:Aug 27, 2016 3:13 pm
Last Updated:May 17, 2024 1:23 pm
5481 Views

So you go online. Set-up an account. Then narrow down your search, and you think great there are ladies on Instant Messenger. In my area looking for men. You look at what they are looking for and you go Wait? What? You see "I am here to make friends" or "not looking right now" Or a number of other reasons. If that is the case go on Facebook and post.

Then there are the ladies that you do start to talk to and then they sign off. Not because I am an ass or rude. When they are presented with what they are looking for either they get scared, change their mind or I have even read in a response "This is wrong" and then they are gone.

Ladies we all signed up for a reason put some thought into our profile. Spelled out what were looking for and for what??? The above?

Don't get me wrong I have had my account for over ten years, and for awhile was out of the loop. Since I got back on I have met two ladies who were great. One came by we fooled around a little she left and never heard from her again. The other was a younger girl and really into it. We had a great weekend and then gone. That is perfect. We are on here to hook-up, have a bedmate, or avoid being alone. All of those are good reasons. If you want to find love you should be on another site.
Can I get an Amen?????????????
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