What Is It That Makes You Go Va-Va-Voom?
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Posted:Sep 18, 2013 7:22 pm
Last Updated:Jul 11, 2014 4:52 pm
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So after having a bit of a conversation with an online friend the end of last week, one of the topics talked about peaked my interests yet again. Those who know me are aware that I am a bigger girl - I also openly state this on my profile. It has taken awhile for me to become relatively comfortable with myself as before I moved to Halifax in 2007, I had extremely low self-esteem and poor self-image. Since joining this site the summer of 2008, I have noticed that there are definitely more men out there who are actually attracted to girls of a bigger stature than I originally would have thought. Beforehand, I always thought that [all] men were only into those women who had slim but shapely figures and did not carry the extra padding. My question for the men out there (and other women) is... what EXACTLY is it that you find attractive about bigger girls?
Honesty is great 
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Pack A Punch Or No?
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Posted:Jan 14, 2013 7:25 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2018 3:35 pm
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I just got done watching the new movie 'This is 40' and although I was rather let down with the movie overall, I must admit that it has indeed left me wondering the answer to a particular question.
I have been with my boyfriend 'Z' for a little over two years and he means everything to me. We have been through quite a bit in our two years together and somehow, we just keep kicking our way through everything. Like most couples, we have our fair share of arguments - some of them reoccurring ones. Near the ending of the movie, the woman of the couple was talking to the father of her husband about how they were always fighting and how he didn't seem to have a lot of fight in him. The father-in-law replied that he didn't need to have the fight in him because the wife had enough fight in her for the two of them; that one of the two people in the relationship needed to pack the punch so-to-speak.
That particular scene in the movie really left me wondering if that is true. Does there need to be that one person in a relationship who 'has the balls' and is able to pack the punch; who is able to face and call out shit when it arises in order for it to be dealt with?
From me and Z's experience, I feel like I am the one in the relationship who packs the punch. He is an extremely passive man and doesn't exactly face conflict very well in which he has admitted to. I feel like I am a nag at times and am being nothing more than a bitch with bringing up things that do require attention from either one of us or the two of us put together.
What do you all think; is there a need for at least one person in a loving relationship to pack the punch or no?
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Shed Some Light...
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Posted:Aug 28, 2012 4:02 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2012 9:11 am
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So.. I don't write blogs often because I have difficulty coming up with topics of what to write about. So this is where I ask for the help of all of you fellow pervs...
Send me some ideas! Share them and let me run free with your suggestions if they catch me attention. Be creative, suggest me anything... worst I can do is choose not to write about...
Be my guest
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Cream Pie Anyone?
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Posted:Aug 28, 2012 3:43 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2018 3:36 pm
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A delicious “dessert” to be enjoyed by those who love it…
Unfortunately, I am not an individual who enjoys the taste of cum. Fortunately, my loving boyfriend, “Z” is! If you would have asked me about two years ago if I had ever entertained the thought of having someone go down and clean up after we both have had our share and pleasured one another to the max, I would have said no. I’m not exactly vanilla but at the same time, I am far from neapolitan at the same time. The thought of it was just something that really did not appeal to me or tickle my fancy in any which way.
When “Z” and I had first started chatting on and off of this site, we had obviously talked about each of our own sexual interests. From the get-go, he was very upfront as to how much of a turn on the thought of being able to clean up his own cream pie that he made was. Myself, I didn’t think too much of this as I know that everyone has their own turn-ons whether or not they are similar to mine. As those of who follow my irregularly written blog, “Z” and I ended up dating regularly and have now been together for almost two years.
It wasn’t until passed our one year of dating that I had actually agreed to letting “Z” enjoy a cream pie that he had made. As I have stated before in a previous blog, I love the feeling of having him finish deep inside of me. It’s exciting knowing that deep inside of my pussy is a huge load of cum that I was able to bring “Z” to climax in producing for me, savouring the warmth and wetness of it afterwards. That night when we both had agreed that that would be the night that he would be able to go down on me afterwards was an exciting and rather nervous one for me at the same time. I had agreed to allow “Z” to try something new that I had never ever thought I would try, but was far from opposed to doing so. I was joyous also because “Z” would finally be able to experience one of his turn-ons that he had been curious about for quite some time for the very first time.
The sex was – as usual – amazing…. It is always intense, sensual, fulfilling, and ends with one (or several in my case typically) mind-boggling orgasms. After filling me up with a gracious size load, he slowly worked his way down between my legs and slowly started doing what he does best down there with his tongue. It felt amazing feeling his tongue work over my love button as his fingers slid in and out of my wet self. Because of how sensitive I am when he is down cleaning up after a good romp, it typically does not take me long to cum again – and it certainly did not that night. It was long, intense, and just made me quiver from head to toe. Fuck.. was it good…
Did I ever think that I would be letting someone go down on me after they had just cum in me? No. Do I regret it? Hell no… It was an amazing experience and is something that we do often now. I am exhilarated by the fact that I was the one who made “Z”’s fantasy come true and that I am able to regularly allow him to live out that fetish that he so truly seems to enjoy. It feels amazing having his tongue down on my ever-so sensitive regions after he has just given me a good pummelling. It`ll never beat feeling him shoot deep inside of me though as he`s giving it to me nice and hard 
Have you ever tried something that you had never thought you would before? Do you enjoy it or no? Do you enjoy your partner going down on you after the two of you have sexed one another up real good?
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New Sensation
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Posted:Aug 16, 2012 10:21 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2013 12:12 pm
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Almost two weeks ago, my boyfriend “Z” and I were getting hot and heavy in the bedroom as soon as we walked in the door from picking him up from work. I love a good romp in the bed right after we get home because it’s typically very to the point and intense, each of us wanting to please the other to the fullest extent. Amazing oral was both given and received, nice long, hard, and deep thrusts were made with a few good ass slaps, as well as teeth dragging lightly over my nipples. As we were on the home stretch to him cumming with me on my knees and him pummeling me doggie-style, I was just thoroughly enjoying every inch of his long rock-hard cock go in and out of my wet pussy. I was positioned in such a way then when he did finally cum, I could feel him just explode inside of me and all of his warm man-juice just flow downwards and left almost a warm pooling-like sensation in my abdomen. I have always loved the feeling of Z cumming deep inside of me once we finally felt we were ready and trusted one another to make that step together. I love the sudden hot sensation that feeling him explode gives me and filling me up. This particular day felt very different as I could just feel him pouring everything inside of me that he had, leaving me feeling very warm and full…
We need to do it again….
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Takin' It In the Back...
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Posted:Jun 29, 2012 10:26 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2018 3:37 pm
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I had my first experience with anal about four and a half years ago when I was living on residence at university.
At the time, I was kind of curious about giving anal a try but yet still scared shitless at the thought of it. I was regularly seeing a guy that I had begun chatting to online from another website who was originally from the Caribbean. We went out and about, but mainly fooled around at one another’s place. Anyways, moving on… We were back in my dorm room fooling around one night after he got done work. Things were getting hot and heavy, had already cum twice by this point and he asks if I`ve ever done anal. Being 19, from a small farming community, and just starting to experiment, the presumable answer would be no, I`ve never done anal. After telling him I haven’t, I state that I do express an interest in trying it but very slowly. Well… this was taken the wrong way. Before I knew it, I felt a sudden sharp pain and his big black cock had been shoved deep inside of me. There had been no playing with fingers to test it out, no lube, zilch… Just a quick hard push and voila.. he was in. Needless to say, it was far from enjoyable and did not last long. I did not see him anymore after that because trust had been lost and I was hurting cookie after that. This experience me very uneasy about trying anal ever again and made me shy away from it for quite some time; that is until I met my current boyfriend, “Z”.
Z and I have a great relationship. Sure, we’ve had some tough times like most couples do, but the important thing is that we have been able to move past these hurdles and continue loving one another. We met on here which personally, I think is wonderful because there are no secrets and we knew from the get-go what one another was into sexually to a certain degree. There’s been amazing chemistry in the bedroom from the start, always resulting in a hard release. As time went by, we continued to discuss some things that each of us were interested in eventually giving try and anal was a topic that came up. I knew that he was no stranger to anal sex and that he really enjoyed it. I went on and explained to him the details of how my first experience was and he understood my hesitance toward trying it again. Z is a very patient and compassionate person, generally taking other peoples’ feelings and thoughts into consideration. I was reassured that if I currently had any interest in trying it again, we would go about it the right way and gradually work up to it. The time would be left up to me; all I had to do was voice my interest and willingness.
Time went by, great sex and fun times were continued to be had, and I had decided that I trusted him enough to give anal another try – the proper way. We began by having him play a little bit with his fingers while he was down between my thighs licking my pussy, slowly but surely massaging me until it was fine to try and gradually slide a finger inside. At first, I was a little hesitant and found it difficult to relax but that eventually passed in time and it began to become quite enjoyable. As I became more comfortable with having a finger inserted, we agreed on trying something relatively larger – anal beads. On one of my days off, we took a gander in one of the shops downtown and picked ourselves up a set of the beads and some cherry flavoured lube. That same night we tested out the new toy and I had quite enjoyed the beads, but I was not able to take the last two beads as much as I wanted to. Over the next few days on my own when I did not see Z, I played on my own a little bit each night. I`d get myself wet by rubbing my clit and teasing myself with my vibrator before lubing up the beads and slowly inserting them, one by one. With a lot of will and self-determination, I was able to loosen up a bit and relax more in order for me to take those last two final beads into my ass. I`d continue masturbating, pulling at them and inserting them again at times which certainly intensified my release, leaving me exhausted and with a huge smile.
We used the beads for a while longer until I was ready for something larger because I really wanted to feel his cock inside of my ass, to eventually be filled with a dildo in my pussy and him in my ass. At the Sex Show this past January, we purchased a butt plug training kit at a relatively decent price which consisted of a small, medium, and large plug. By this point, I had far by-passed the small plug and was basically passed the size of the medium plug so I opted just to start slowly with the large plug. Who knew that I was that ready for the large plug because that same night, a good chunk of it was able to be inserted into my ass while he licked my pussy again. It took a few more tries before I was able to comfortably take the entire large butt plug and be able to enjoy it. This, my friends, leads me to the day that Z was successfully able to push his cock into my ass after getting me ready with the large plug and fill me up nice and good.
The feeling of having Z`s cock felt amazing, there is no other word that describes the feeling really. At first, it was a bit different to get used to but was able to quickly adjust. It felt wonderful to feel oh so full of him, feeling him hold on to my hips and very slowly and gentle make slight movements. Gradually, he began to go a little faster while remaining completely aware of my body movements and how I was feeling. I was feeling wonderful because I was pushing back on him every time he made a thrust, pushing his cock back inside of my ass. By picking up pace and going just a bit harder (a pace and force that I was comfortable with, that is), we were able to bring ourselves to cum. It was an amazing feeling to feel him explode deep inside of me, allowing me to experience a rush of warmth that I have yet to be exposed to.
To this day, we are slowly working on our anal play and loosening me up more and more. I love the thought of having him deep inside of my ass and a dildo/vibrator in my pussy at the same time, having myself as full as I can possibly be.
Have you ever had a negative experience with something sexual and eventually, you tried it later on down the road and learned you enjoy it when done properly?
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My Mojo's A-Runnin'
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Posted:Jun 27, 2012 5:23 pm
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2013 6:01 am
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So it’s been a little bit of time since my last blog – exactly 391 days. I’m not very good at keeping it up to date. So since then, a bit has changed. I’ve met someone on here and things are wonderful – I haven’t been this happy in quite some time. I’ve also been getting lotsa’ “moan-worthy lovin’” on a regular basis (boy are there lots of moans…).
About a month ago, the boyfriend just so happened to have come across an interactive sex questionnaire for couples on the interwebs. Discover your partner’s hidden sexual fantasies is the catch phrase (and title as a matter of fact). Isn’t that enough to rail you in on doing it? It can be completed together on one computer or the two of you can do it at separate times. Upon completion, both of you get emailed the results on the fantasies that both of you said either yes or express an interest in fulfilling. Questions asked include the basics (sensual massages, mirrors during sex, photographs, etc), playing with toys, BDSM, anal play, group/public fun, as well as other fetishes.
Completing it was pretty interesting in being able to see and honestly answer the questions regarding what kinks you may be/are into. When it came to the BDSM section, I kind of felt like a prude. I’m not a vanilla person, but I’m certainly not overly experimental either. I felt like I had answered no to most of the questions and it made me feel awkward, almost as if I wasn’t really into anything “out of the ordinary.”
When we received the results back, these are just some of the fantasies that we expressed mutual interest in:
• Longer teasing/foreplay sessions
• To be woken up with sex/oral sex
• Watch porn together
• Talk dirtier
• Rougher sex
• Receive a pearl necklace
• Use nipple clamps (I love rough play with my nipples)
• Be blindfolded and to use restraints
• Anal penetration (including double penetration)
• Have sex/fondle in a semi-public location
Since then, we have decided to work on some of these things and aim to check them off of our “bucket list.” We are talking dirtier during sex and he is slowly but surely getting all the more rougher with me. I don’t know what it is but I just love being taken nice and hard. We are on the road to the blindfolds and restraints, though we have used them once or twice in the past and it was extremely hot – resulting in me cumming oh so hard.
Anal is something that I have always been a bit leary towards because of a horrid experience I had about 4 years back. Needless to say, the boyfriend was able to sweet talk me (not a lot of sweet talking needed, really) and loosen me up with beads and a training plug set. We were able to finally have him inside of my ass (he’s far from small), as well as have a toy in me. I love the feeling of having something in my ass while he’s inside of me! We still have more to work towards accomplishing and boy, do I look forward to the good times to be had alongside him in bed.
If you’re interested in perhaps doing this questionnaire, just do an interwebs search for Mojo Upgrade and you’ll be sure to find it.
What are some things that you and your partner/FWB aim to experiment in the bedroom? Have you had certain past interests that you have been able to check off of your list since then?
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How You Ask?
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Posted:Jun 1, 2011 10:25 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2018 3:38 pm
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How do you relieve the pre-work stress? How do you take your mind off of not wanting to go to work and stay there until well after closing? Let me count thy ways...
(1) Grab your laptop and head to bed.
(2) Get naked from head to toe.
(3) Root around in your bottom dresser drawer and find your three favourite toys (3 speed bullet, vibrating Mr. Blue, and anal beads), as well as 2 lubes (jelly and slippy slidy kind)
(4) Find a porn flick that suits your taste... and level of lust for the moment.
(5) Lay down and play with all three toys for the next hour, having at least 4 intense orgasms.
For me... it's the perfect recipe to NOT think about going to work in the next 2 hours.
On a side note, I think I need a new Mr. Blue. He no longer vibrates continuously but chooses to in spurts 
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Food for Thought
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Posted:Feb 20, 2011 6:19 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2018 3:40 pm
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So it has been quite awhile since my last blog post - 9 months to be exact. It's not really something that I do often (as one can obviously see). Along with blogging, something that I don't normally do is browse through the horrid 'cosmo girl' magazines or websites. Tonight was a night for both of these things to be done. Upon opening up the website, one particular subtitle caught my attention: "77 Positions in 77 Days". Upon seeing this, the lightbulb of interest within me brightened, causing me to just have to click on the link. When opening it, I expected to see a list of 77 days with awe-inspiring positions that would make a fellow perv drool at the thought of it. Unfortunately, this was not the case as it just was a ploy to get us to buy their damn book. However, there were some daily post questions there that I thought would be intriguing. It'd be interesting to post the answers to these questions, as well as to see the answers to those questions from those who do keep an eye on this particular blog.
1. How many times do you have sex on an average week? Does this change when you have your period?
At this point, it seems about once or twice whenever I get together with that special someone.
2. What's the craziest place you've ever had sex?
I'm a somewhat conservative girl so I haven't really had sex in too crazy of a place. I am interested in exploring that avenue eventually and breaking out of my shell.
3. What's the craziest thing you've ever tried in bed? Handcuffs? Using food during the hook-up? A threesome? A sex tape?
Once again, nothing too crazy. I've done the handcuffs, rope, food during sex, mutual masturbation, but no sex tape. I am intrigued at that idea - very much so - but I think that's for a time to come, however.
4. What's the top thing on your sex bucket list? In other words, if you were going to die tomorrow, what would you want to try in bed tonight
2 guys, DP... enough said.
5. On a scale of one to 10, how important is sex in a relationship?
Probably around a 6. It's not extremely important, but it can't be overlooked either. Sex plays an important role in chemistry and it can keep things interesting at the same time.
6. What percentage of the time that you have sex do you climax? What about your guy?
For myself, 100% - at least once, not counting multiple. For the guy, I think mutual satisfaction is necessary so he must be left feeling great all the time, as well.
7. If you could hook up with one celebrity, who would it be?
Michael C. Hall - Dexter. His ruggedness and mysterious nature seems to get me!
8. When in a relationship, who is more into sex—you or your significant other? Who initiates it more often?
Usually, sexual interests are generally about equal. Usually, we initiated it an equal amount of times. There are times when lying in bed though when the only thoughts in my head were of ravishing him.
What about you? I'm intrigued in possibly knowing some of the earlier questions!
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A Time For Everything...
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Posted:May 4, 2010 9:28 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2011 5:12 pm
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To those who know me extremely well, they know that the years of my mid-teenage years were not all that glorious. I went through a bit of a rough stage that affected not only me, but my family in a drastic way as well. After months of trying to resolve this particular issue, attempts had failed and I had to learn to deal with my demons. All in all, I did extremely well and learned to put them behind me, to move on with life, and to make the most out of it. Doing exactly this - with the support of my immediate and extended family, counsellors, and my closest friends - got me through the experience and made me who I am today.
Today... is an entirely new ball game, however. I'm a private kind of girl; I enjoy keepings my most inner thoughts and desires to myself. However; this is too big to keep alone and I need to let it out one way or another... so what better way to do this then blogging? After years of putting the past behind me and for the most part, leaving it there, it has risen to the surface again. This particular can of worms drastically needs to be re-opened again and I am scared shitless in doing so. I remember the emotional difficulties I went through and put those who are closest to me through as well; I want to avoid that. I am fully aware that I am well-passed that stage, but the fear of it happening again simply dwells in my mind.
This is by-far the biggest thing I've ever had to do so far in my life. I know I have shitloads of support to get me through this... which I will desperately need - but I'm in it for the long haul until results are received. The past has returned and become the present. If all goes well, it will aid in the future
Not to go all biblical and shit on you, but there is a passage from the Book of Mormon that gets me through tough times and can be related to in SOOO many ways. Once again, for those who know me the best, I'm far from religious lol.
There is a time for everything;
And a season for every activity under heaven:
A time to be born and a time to die,
A time to plant and a time to uproot,
A time to kill and a time to heal,
A time to tear down and a time to build,
A time to weep and a time to laugh,
A time to mourn and a time to dance
A time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
A time to embrace and a time to refrain,
A time to search and a time to give up,
A time to keep and a time to throw away,
A time to tear and a time to mend,
A time to be silent and a time to speak,
A time to love and a time to hate,
A time for war and a time for peace.
Has there ever been a time or event in your life that was so major that you did not know how you would muster up the courage and strength to possibly get you through this? If so, how did you do it?
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Family + Holidays = ?
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Posted:Dec 28, 2009 7:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2018 3:41 pm
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I've had a wonderful holiday thus far in which it was spent at my parents place. I returned around lunch time back into the gracious city today - hallelujiah! My mom and younger sister are staying tonight and supposed to leave tomorrow. Due to the oncoming flurries and bit of rain, they are now staying until Wednesday. I love them dearly but... I WANT MY PRIVACY, DAMNIT!!! The roomie is scheduled to come back Wednesday or Thursday.
Is there a God to answer my two prayers: (a) for it to be nice so that they can go home tomorrow; and (b) for the roomie to come back on Thursday?!?! Please say so!!
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My Fantasy.. at 1 21am..
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Posted:Dec 19, 2009 9:27 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2011 5:38 am
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If I could have only one wish at this VERY moment and get it... what would I ask for? ....
That's easy!
I'd love to be lying on my bed right now, face down and naked, with my fuzzy blanket draped over my ass. I'd want a big strapping man straddling me, rubbing my neck, shoulders, and lower back roughly. I wouldn't even refuse if his hands wandered elsewhere right now.
It gives me shudders as I think about it at this very moment! 
If you could have any wish for this VERY moment, what would it be??
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Futurama
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Posted:Dec 17, 2009 6:58 pm
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2009 9:34 am
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Forgive me Affairlook; for it has been... too long.. since my last blog post. Blogging just doesn't seem to tickle my pickle enough as it does with lots of others. To each their own, right?!
As some of those who are close to me are aware, I've been out of work for the past two months and have just recently gotten back into the swing of things with a new job. I love it; there's stability, great colleagues, and mediocre pay (though it could be a lot better, minds you!) With my time off, it gave me a lot of time to think as to what I'm actually doing with my life now and where I'm going to end up. I promise that this isn't just another blog on how I'm not finding what I want on Affairlook, or I don't know if this is the place for me blah blah blah. I guess I just needed something to reflect ... so here goes nothing.
So here I am now.. the end of 2009... third year university, Bachelor of Arts undergrad degree underway and still no major. I'm leaning towards English. Why? It's the only thing that I can actually do efficiently. By the time I'm done with my degree - whenever that may be (hopefully soon though) - I'm fully aware that toilet paper will have probably more use than my Arts degree. I have no intentions of going into a masters or honours or PhD or whatever the hell else there may be. Why - university is a waste of time unless you're doing a professionalism degree like law, medicine, or engineering.
The famous question that I always get - that I hate by the way - is What do you want to do when you're done university? Your guess is as good as mine. With my degree - nothing. Ultimately, I'd love to end up at NSCC in 2011, doing my diploma for Therapeutic Recreation. After that, I've thought of doing 2 years at Dalhousie to complete a Bachelor of Science degree specializing in Therapeutic Recreation. I hate university now.. but I'm thinking money...
I've always been brought up with the value that having goals set to work towards accomplishing make people strive towards their dreams even more so. Within ten years, I'd like to see myself with a career that I love doing and do not dread going to work on a daily basis; a career that makes relatively good money to pay off my fuckload of student loan debts. I'd like a family; 2 or three - I've always wanted to be a mom - and a great husband whose there for the family.
Most of my wants with the future focus around my education. I was always pushed academically from an early age for perfection so perhaps that's why I am where I am today.
When you were younger and dreamed of your future, what did you see? Did it change drastically or happen as you wanted it to? I'm interested in hearing your thoughts!
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