Im a paid member that still needs my gold membership activated. The powers that be took my money and won't activate the membership, so please ladies contact me directly so I can have the same fun you are having. Ive been a member here in the community with the other sites for over 20 years and haven't met woman one yet. Any of you guys having the same problem? I'm curious to know why some guys have all the luck and some of us don't. I do work a lot yes but man it's been a bad dry spell that won't go away I fear. If I could ever find that elusive woman under 200 pounds that would even give me a chance and be in the St. Louis area I would jump at it in a heartbeat.