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3 long agonizing months to go.....  

wet_pussy4ever 50F
2510 posts
1/11/2007 2:19 am

Last Read:
1/12/2007 7:00 pm

3 long agonizing months to go.....

I juz got d latest news from my bro... D doc called him & said tat she won't b able to survive for long. D longest they r predicting is 3 months. I was so lost for words i didn't know wat to say or do.

HE wasn't thinking of telling me if i ddin't say tat i need a break & wanted to go for a weekend breakaway to a island bt he had no choise to tell me. So, i told him if tat's d case, i will not go than. Of cuz, i m not tat stoopid or selfish. So, now all my plans r on hold. I m not plnning to leave tis country anytime soon Watever holidays i was planning for will b postponed till further notice

I m really so down & out, i dun know wat to do. I know we will hafta accept d fact tat all of us will one day have to go back to HIMbt atm we can't accept tat she'll b leaving us. Yes!!! she had 87 years of journey in life. She used to tell me her stories in life. Sumtimes i take it for granted.

She use to talk to me early in d morning when i m still slepping. She'll cum wake me up & start talking to me & than i'll brush her off saying tat i meed to sleep. Now i feel really bad for doing so. It's juz tat cuz she doesn't see us much during d day. We r all too bz wit our work & our life.

She used not to sleep at nite & take care of me when i m ill (which i shld b d one for doing so) She would cook my fav dish when i wanna have it or she'll ask wat i wanna eat & she'll cook it.

Now her time has come. It's our turn to b looking after her (not tat we haven't looked after her b4)

I really dunno which is more agonizing..... to know tat she has another 3 months (or less) wit us or if she juz closes her eyes & not have us informed or c her suffering till she closes her eyes.

My sis & bro is doing all d run arnd as i dun drive. They r getting things for her tat she wants. I think tis has also made me, my bro & my sis to b closer. We have not actually so many family dinners or gatherings before tis. Yes!!! we do gather for dinner bt only occasionally as we r all bx wit our own life bt tis has heped us open our eyes. M thankfull for tat

I know i have not blogged much nowadays..... M in no mood or no words to blog. Will c wat i can cm up next.

And most of all...... i thank all my frens who have been there for me. Givingme moral support. U r all gr8 i will treasure wat u have done for me

& to all my frens in blogville... thnxs for all d comforting words i really appreaciate it so much

lurve ya gurls & guys


Wet_p


MataKhan 113F

1/11/2007 6:18 am

Give u heaps of this


wet_pussy4ever 50F
3059 posts
1/11/2007 7:14 am

Thnxs sweetie {{{huggiessss}}}

Wet_p


wet_pussy4ever 50F
3059 posts
1/11/2007 7:16 am

    Quoting  :

Errhhh!!! wat kinda power is tat if it helps me to regain my strenght.... send me more power. Thnxs hun {{{huggies}}}

Wet_p


SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
1/11/2007 7:11 pm

Hope nobody tells her that. She might believe it.

Never underestimate the power of the mind wetP

Sir Teezalot

WAR IS ABSURD


wet_pussy4ever 50F
3059 posts
1/11/2007 7:59 pm

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i think so too... well,trying my best to spend more time wit her {{{huggzzzzzzzzz}}}. thnxs.

Wet_p


wet_pussy4ever 50F
3059 posts
1/11/2007 8:01 pm

    Quoting SirTeezalot:
    Hope nobody tells her that. She might believe it.

    Never underestimate the power of the mind wetP
well, nobody is telling her tat bt my aunt (her daugther) is dropping hints to her like taking her to d bank & staff like tat. Think she knows wat's going on bt not saying anytg about it yet

Wet_p


wet_pussy4ever 50F
3059 posts
1/11/2007 10:19 pm

    Quoting  :

yeah u r rite!!!! feels like time is running out make full use of it

Wet_p


rm_deep_end 65M
212 posts
1/12/2007 2:34 am

Babe,

Very sorry to hear about this, but hope you'll be strong enough to get thru it. Looking at another side of things, I'm sure in 87 years, she'd have gone thru a whole life's worth of experiences, and she wouldn't have missed much. Being a Buddhist, I'd like to think that she's going to a better place (corny as it may sound!!), so don't fret too much, ok? You might indeed need that island break when this is all over.

Cheers and tight hugs


changihomme_fem 53M/51F

1/12/2007 9:11 am

*HUGGIES*

Truly, you need to spend quality time with her.
Let her pass on gracefully and with dignity.

Fem.


wet_pussy4ever 50F
3059 posts
1/12/2007 6:57 pm

    Quoting rm_deep_end:
    Babe,

    Very sorry to hear about this, but hope you'll be strong enough to get thru it. Looking at another side of things, I'm sure in 87 years, she'd have gone thru a whole life's worth of experiences, and she wouldn't have missed much. Being a Buddhist, I'd like to think that she's going to a better place (corny as it may sound!!), so don't fret too much, ok? You might indeed need that island break when this is all over.

    Cheers and tight hugs
Yes!!! i believe tat she has gone thru a lot in her lifei know she'll go to a better place yeah!!! those holidays have to b put on hold for d time being. will only think about it later: D

{{{huggzzzz}}}

Wet_p


wet_pussy4ever 50F
3059 posts
1/12/2007 7:00 pm

    Quoting changihomme_fem:
    *HUGGIES*

    Truly, you need to spend quality time with her.
    Let her pass on gracefully and with dignity.

    Fem.
Hey Fem,

Yeah!!! tat's was all of us doing atm. spending as much time as v wit her

Thnxs for dropping by dear

Wet_p


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