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Confused (asexuality)
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Confused (asexuality) I've mentioned this before, but my wife is asexual. She is absolutely amazing in so very many ways, but this mood that I've been in has left her a bit confused, as I've tried to explain it to her. The last few days, I've especially been in the mood for a long and languid session of kissing, cuddling, and making love. Really to take my time and get lost in those sensations and please my partner. My dear wife has noticed that I've been a little Off lately. And of course, it never even occurs to her that it could be sexual in nature. Of course it doesn't. Ha ha. So I open up and share with her how I feel. What I am desiring. And she gets this strange look on her face. Like, why would anyone ever kiss and make out for that long? My god, a full minute of kissing is extreme to her. And throw in the rest? Why would anyone want to waste that much time? Then she makes a stroking motion with her hand... I could get you off if you like. Think that will help? LOL. I mean, of course I'm not gonna pass that up. A little play is better than nothing, but the thought of making love for hours is just so alien to her. It's kinda cute. She's lucky she's amazing in every other possible way. And that I love her more than she will ever understand. And I'm pretty lucky that she would even offer that much. And that she is open enough to encourage me to feel these hungers elsewhere. Sadly, Covid has put a bit of a damper of that. Still, maybe here before too long that will change. You see light dappling on the water and forget the deep, cold dark beneath. |
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Anyhow... Not sure if I put things down in a way that is fully understandable. But I thought I'd share for those who are a bit curious. You see light dappling on the water and forget the deep, cold dark beneath.
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No, that does not make her asexual. You really ought to talk to her, very frankly, about your wishes and desires and, critically, hers.
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No, this does not make her so. We both came to that understanding after years and years of research, careful discussion, consultation, and many other things I won't mention. Together we know she is asexual. I was mearly sharing the experience and reaction of my asexual wife. For those who are curious and interested. You see light dappling on the water and forget the deep, cold dark beneath.
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Wow... That is very interesting and fascinating. I am now researching ACE as they refer to the sexuality type. Its cool to see how much you love and respect her. Tis a conundrum for shore. May you both be sated always and find all sought after answers. Best wishes. *. *. *
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Maybe if she tried it the way you describe, she might enjoy it. It feels good to be petted and worshiped by someone who loves us.
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I tend to be quite the opposite - very sexual, very sensual and very much prefer lengthy extended foreplay with at least an hour of kissing and touching and licking and stroking before we ever even think about having sex. I've been told I am "weird" or "unusual" because of this. I guess most ladies rush? I don't get it, but I feel for you. Happy you guys have found a way to cope. I'm grateful that my ethical nonmonogamy occasionally lets me get what i need.
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