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Blogs > RunnerGuySteve > Let's do an easy 10

Relationships; Lifestyle vs. Vanilla  

RunnerGuySteve 59M
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10/22/2020 7:36 am

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12/29/2020 11:49 am
Relationships; Lifestyle vs. Vanilla

Its occurred to me that as I consider the relationships I've made over the past 5 years or so, the better relationships are those where Sex is an Option! e.g. LifeStyle friends.

This could simply be the result of my growing commitment to a Non-Monogamous life, and the benefits it offers. Perhaps sub-consciously, I'm devaluing some relationships, those that are<b> vanilla </font></b>and not allowing them to blossom and fruit.

Or, it may be that those relationships where Sex is an Option, are in fact deeper and more intimate; without artificial walls or being trapped by conventional/traditional roles.

In that I'm enjoying my Non-Monogamous journey, I may be just choosing to believe that Lifestyle relationships are indeed better.

I would like to hear from others on this question:
Are your Lifestyle Relationships (where Sex is an Option) in general better than your Non-Lifestyle relationships?

Please adjust your responses so as to not consider those relationships that would simply be inappropriate (Boss/Employee, Your Cousin, etc.) or where you're simply not attracted at all to those in your relationship.

For those who do feel their LifeStyle Relationships are better than their Vanilla relationships, please offer some possible reasons as to why that may be.

Hoping we all learn something from this

Best, Steve
Steve Pre

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