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absinthe  

wickedeasy 74F
11204 posts
4/8/2019 12:31 pm
absinthe


Walking down the farm path, out at my uncle’s heading back towards the quarry, looking for signs of spring. The cousins rent the land to a group that grows artisanal vegetables for restaurants and like all good farmers they won’t turn the land until they’ve had a good couple of weeks of over 50 degrees which gives the insects hibernating in the dried plant stalks time to wake up and move on. It’s a little chilly in the soft rain but the ground gives under foot, the willows are greening and the rest of the trees have that soft haziness that comes with budding. I feel connected here, to a way of life that I was privileged to be a part of even if only for summers, as a guest though never treated as one.

Once I hit the porch my shoes came off, my hair was tied back. Chores came before free time, well before everything else, truth be told. I never felt so used up at the end of a day.

One year when my parents were struggling with the loss of a , I spent the whole of a summer there and entered a heifer into the 4H fair. My cousin Lee entered Jams. But I was not so much of a girly girl and so my uncle let me join the boys. My heifer was a runty thing and I was told early on that she would not win a prize because her size was off and she had a shorter leg. Still, she was mine for almost three months, named her absinthe not knowing what it meant but knowing that it made my uncle choke.

Now Jim, the oldest, he kept an eye on me at first to make sure I was doing things right but then once he was sure I was, he left me to it.

Eventually Abby and I took to walking the fields together early in the morning together just so she could get more strength. Lee refused to get up before she had to so, it was just us. One day she was really frisky, ran a good ways ahead of me and I had to chase her like a fool. With all the time we had, I taught her how to bow down like a little princess, shake her head no when I asked her if she was a runt.

Came time for the fair, all the heifers had been washed up and looked so nice. Lee won first prize for her jam and was riding high. We were only 7 so that was really something for a . Auntie was just so proud of her, my uncle was carrying her like a queen on his shoulders with her blue ribbon flapping away in the breeze. What a sight. I held on to her foot and she kept rubbing my head to give me good luck.

So then…..all the heifers in a row. Absinthe was the smallest and we were right next to a big old bugger who made her look like a damn elf. The judges did their thing. And when they came to us….one of them said, looks like a runt.

I said to Abby, are you a runt…she shook her head no. the judge laughed out loud.

Now take a bow. And she did….so dainty and perfect.

Everyone clapped and yelled. The Judges smiled and kept on moving.

No, she didn’t win.

She was too small and her legs were uneven. But she had her moment in the sun. And my uncle….well he gave her his homemade ribbon for best performance. Then we all got hot dogs.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
4/8/2019 12:32 pm

this is the type of cow abby was although she was smaller

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You cannot conceive the many without the one.


_IKanCu2_ 105M

4/8/2019 12:51 pm

Red Face Angus.
Animal*z are NOT dumb as ssssooo dumb people think.
We didn't own a farm, but ][ worked on quite afew growing up.
][ miss that country LiFe, it was a Great Serenity ~




wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:40 pm:
being with the land like my uncle was felt like such a gift to him. I always felt like I was being "tuned up" when I was with him. smiles.

bitchkitty2017 71F

4/8/2019 12:59 pm

Angus are the bomb .I raised a lot of Angus , black as well as red ..The cows are able to have calves born backward and forward and are great mothers make rich milk for their calves also have the highest yield of beef pound for pound more so than a lot of beef breeds


wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:42 pm:
grins. I love that you know this.

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
4/8/2019 1:59 pm

Oh.... I'm reminded of the few weeks one summer I tried to nurse an abandoned dairy calf back to health on a friends farm in Georgia. Sadly she didn't make it but if she had, I'm sure she would have been a tiny thing like yours.

What a great memory, thank you for sharing it!


wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:43 pm:
my summers were golden times

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
4/8/2019 3:52 pm

I love this 💕

Lots of farm kids where I grew up, even though I was a townie.


wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:44 pm:
farm kids were lucky I think......

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
4/8/2019 3:59 pm

Abbey sounds cute! 😘
Nice story... 👌


wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:44 pm:
I thought so

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
4/8/2019 4:08 pm

Summer memories are just so very special!! Mine was a pet robin that was abandoned . It had a broken wing . Thank you for sharing this with pictures in words

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wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:46 pm:
I was so lucky to have farmers as uncles. and when my cousins would come to my house they though it was so cool to be part of the city although we were suburban....but they dug riding a subway, museums, all that stuff

SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
4/8/2019 7:02 pm

What a fun summer.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:46 pm:
I was blessed for sure

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
4/10/2019 10:46 am

What a great story, those are some fond memories you have there, thanks for sharing with all of us..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:49 pm:
my mom's family was large and we had so many cousins...it was a wonderful group

christylovesfun 51F  
16880 posts
4/12/2019 1:16 pm

I treasured having farm time as a kid, an experience so many don't get thesee days.

Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety. Other women cloy
The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry
Where most she satisfies. For vilest things
Become themselves in her, that the holy priests
Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra


wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:50 pm:
you're right. what a shame. it's freedom with a lot of work but such freedom. so much space, such a connection to nature.

backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
4/13/2019 2:09 pm

Hey Darlin,
.......That’s a Sweet story,.......Thanks,.......
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:50 pm:
thanks. glad you enjoyed it

wannacoppafeel 48F
1326 posts
4/16/2019 7:40 pm

Fun story! And what a great memory to carry with you! 😀

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wickedeasy replies on 4/29/2019 4:54 pm:
we were so lucky to have such a large extended family -thanks for reading

_IKanCu2_ 105M

12/16/2019 3:35 pm

We didn't have a Farm, tho we lived among them.
][ worked on all of them.
Dairy, Produce and Crop
The work was hard, long, and sometime*z dirty,,,but it was Pure.





tY****


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