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wickedeasy 74F
11204 posts
11/25/2016 8:39 am
no, thanks

The men stood in long lines with plastic trays. No one said much of anything except the old man who talked incessantly and was always ignored. The trays were filled and they sat as they always did by subgroups determine by crime or by race, by who was deemed less human, or more.

Desultory discussion of the meal ensued for a few minutes then waned. No one seemed to have much to say; no one seemed willing to break the heaviness of the day.

As the turkey was pushed around the tin plates, congealing gravy sticking to lumps of white matter that passed for potatoes, the blaring began so the men rose and emptied their trays, filing back out down long cold corridors.

In hundreds, thousands of homes, families remembered their names. Said prayers. In some homes, mothers sat in solitude, a vigil without celebration. Sharing the day with their sons in the only way they were allowed.

When the sun was swallowed down, she sat on her bed, an album in front of her. She didn’t dare open it. It would likely kill her. But inside her lived, smiling, laughing, himself. Her hands roamed over the cover.

At 11:00, she turned off the lights, knowing that he would be in darkness as well.

He lay in the dark, his mind blank. It took everything to keep it that way.


You cannot conceive the many without the one.


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
11/25/2016 10:26 am

Way too many of those situations for reasons that just don't justify the time lost.

Vive La Difference


wickedeasy replies on 11/28/2016 1:46 pm:
yes, I agree

goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
11/25/2016 10:38 am

Thanksgiving... in fact many holidays, aren't necessarily joyous occasions for many people.
And for various personal reason, too.

Well written.


wickedeasy replies on 11/28/2016 1:47 pm:
nods...sometimes the holidays are the loneliest time of the year

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/25/2016 11:08 am

Thanks wicked. It's terribly sad to think about, and so mostly we don't think about it, unless it's US. But we should be thinking about it because it really is us. This has a horrible effect on all of us. It demeans us all.

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wickedeasy replies on 11/28/2016 1:49 pm:
it takes a person and breaks them down into something less than.

I hate it.

when I visit, I can't eat before. and then after, I find myself too tired to do anything and all I did was visit. imagine living it.

HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
11/25/2016 11:12 am

Very Sad

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wickedeasy replies on 11/28/2016 1:50 pm:
it is....it is one of the saddest things in the world.

nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
11/25/2016 1:09 pm

Sad but beautiful. Thank you


wickedeasy replies on 11/28/2016 1:50 pm:
tight hugs beautiful lady

hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
11/25/2016 6:47 pm

Sometimes a blank mind can be a blessing.

Elevate me...


northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
11/26/2016 1:04 am

Beautiful, as always.

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
11/27/2016 12:07 pm

this is personal to me. some know the story of my son.

it's hard for many mothers to get rides to visit. there's ways to help with that if you want to......ask me and i'll let you know how.

and there are ways to help fight mandatory minimums and the three strike rules
check out my FB page.

thanks

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


christylovesfun 51F  
16880 posts
11/29/2016 1:03 pm

Love you, sister. I'm so sorry.

Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety. Other women cloy
The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry
Where most she satisfies. For vilest things
Become themselves in her, that the holy priests
Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra


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