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" My Second Question " (2)  

BBW56Sally 52F
0 posts
12/26/2019 3:56 pm

Last Read:
1/22/2020 4:14 pm

" My Second Question " (2)


OK! I am disable and Homebound, so meet a person I must HOST in home...…

QUESTION?
Why would men make a date come and meet you in your home and Not show up?
NO ? NO Message? you never hear for them again...…

What is the purpose? I mean it has not happened once or twice.... It happens all the time. I have gotten where I share desires for .... I do not share the kinky side of .... because I feel that could scare a man off.... I am just willing do what that ask do ..... I figure if the man get comfortable with and wanted more than we could discuss the kinky stuff.....

So I am not scaring this men off with talk.... I just answer their questions and am willing meet in home, , laugh and see where it goes from there....
NO! SHOW!

WHY Do you think this is happening?


Not Bling Owner


kinybbwlovermt 38M

1/22/2020 11:51 am

OMG, I dont think I have ever been so turned on by reading before. I keep cumming from reading your blogs, then i decide to read the next one and Im already hard halfway through and jacking off again.

I would love to meetup with you, but contact options seem to be limited for a basic user


BBW56Sally replies on 1/22/2020 4:14 pm:
My Darlin, Phillip! I love that I have excited you so greatly even before we have met. I love you enjoy reading my writings of my desires, fantasies, and if you have read a few of my experiences then you got a few laughs.

I am so very excited about out meeting and you coming to my home to get to know each other better and play.... I Hope and believer the sparks will fly with us greatly.... After our phone conversation I am so very excited... I can not wait to play to play with you and be with you greatly..... Yummy.... you have me so very excited meeting you and playing.... I know I am repeating, but I can not help my self....

Kisses,
Sally

aspan383 57M
16 posts
1/19/2020 12:30 pm

with as forward as you are i would have to guess that they get intimidated at the last minute. Or it all sounds good while theyre setting it up on line& horny then afterwards it hits them what they did & get cold feet. that said i find your openness extremely erotic. Reading your blogs gets my head spinning with sexual excitement so thanks for that. Have to say i for one would be soooo nervous if we were to meet that i were not to perform up to your standards but would still show up tho


BBW56Sally replies on 1/19/2020 9:56 pm:
Thank you, so much for your honesty and I respect that what your saying and how you feel.... I am trying to be my self about my desires, fantasies, wants, needs and all the giving.... An I can now see how I would over whelm and man with all this.... But I am learning it can not all be done at one time and there has to be sparks. I am truly feel the first meetings is like making love and getting to know each others bodies and to see if we have sparks or chemistry... We may be great at long slow sex, or at doing somethings and not others together.... I never thought I could scare a man off.... But In chatting with you and other men and learning I come across like rushing.... NO man should be intimidated by sex with another.... I would never cross any mans boundaries an would do everything in my poser to please my play mate and am sure you would do the same. You would leave feeling good about us and our experiences together. Even if you felt spark or chemistry was not right..... I would never over whelm any body.... I love to start out like making love and let what happens happen.... Thank you, again for sharing and being willing to not stand me regardless how nervous you may be....
Kisses dear Friend.
Sally

Anyday96 24M

1/1/2020 1:10 am

Hello Sally this is Alex , Happy New Year !!!! Loved reading your blogs ! I must’ve gone through a few pages of them. Im so shocked that you are into what I am into sexually I really want to chat again and talk about when I’m coming down to Montana in the summer! Please feel free to message me when you see me in IM messenger I would love to hear from you.


BBW56Sally replies on 1/1/2020 9:33 pm:
Hey Alex, Please forgive me I do not remember our chat... I am so pleased you live reading my blog and Do not understand your shock...LOL! I am very sexual and have a very high sex drive.... I have my kinks and I am open to other new experiences.... 62 almost 63 is not old but in my case I am disabled 10 years now and so it slows me down some and makes me homebound to where I have to host in my home.... I have not other way darlin.... is going to be easier for you to contact me than me you since you are a standard member.... I will send you a friend request and then you will be able to know when I am on line...
Kisses,
Sally

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
12/28/2019 7:30 pm

In slight defense of no shows to your home for a meet. There have been several cases of women mis-representing themselves on-line, and then when the men show up, they are attacked, robbed, or worse. Some have photos taken of them & are then used as blackmail, especially if they have a wife. Not saying YOU would do so, but some could just be being careful.
In ALL but one meet I have ever had with a woman from on-line, I have met them in a public place first, mall food courts being my fave as if THEY wish to keep that first meeting discreet, both of us can sit at adjoining tables, and have enough of a conversation to know if we wish to continue somewhere more private, and anyone observing us would be hard pressed to say we had not met at random when we sat down. That method also allows a nervous gal (and they have every right to be as nervous as a man does) to have a 'wing-woman' nearby in case needed.
In the one case I referred to above, I was not at all sure I wanted to meet her in her home for that first meet, but our meeting was very last-minute, in fact she was a back-up for a no-show meeting I had previously set up. I called her, and asked her to meet me out, but she suggested I come to her home instead, and horny Me agreed! When I got to her address, I drove past it 3 times, to reassure myself it was ok, and to locate doors, etc, if I needed to leave quickly. It all worked out however, and she was as horny as I was & within an hour we were in her bed & busy. But, as I said above, it often does NOT happen that way, to men or women.
I have had many public no-shows, never quite understand that, but it is a fact of life. I can honestly say I have NEVER done that.
I cant comment without being pyschic as to why your desired men, dont show up at your home. But a year ago I encountered a gal online that I should NOT have met, and I saw several 'red-flags' in our previous communications that should have warned me. But, horny me, met her indeed, we had two dates, both overnites, the sex was terrible, but yet SHE was so desperate that she still wanted more. And after I told her I would not be back after the second date, she proceeded to flood my phone, and threatened to come to my home ( I had foolishly gave her my address), and I had to resort to a threat of a charge of stalking against her to make her stop! I feel sad she was so needy, but I ignored the vibes that should have told me ahead of time, and well, I got what I knew I should not get !
Perhaps, you can go back & really READ your communications with these no-shows, painful as that may be, and see what may have scared them off?


BBW56Sally replies on 12/28/2019 8:49 pm:
Thank you, so very much for reading my question and for your response.. I know you read I am homebound and so that means everyone works during the day and my transportation is during select hours of the day and no nights. My transportation is free to me and public so that is why I have few choices... My home is my only option to meet others... But you have given me a lot to consider and to be more understanding.. I can see that to be a real threat and scare I never new about for the men and ladies going into someone's home.. To be honest that never crossed my mind. I am such an honest person, evil does cross my mind.. Thank you, for opening my eyes to such scary thing that can happen.. For me I figured out why the late stood me up.... I did not know him and allowed him to bring his brother with him... I felt safe where I live and I wear an life alert alarm around my neck... But they wanted to bring more people over and I did not know them. I had never met them and alarms started to go off in my head so I said NO! they asked me why and I told them I said just them and only then and it was my home and my rule stand... they said ok and never showed up.... So I truly feel something was bad going on with them for me.. Now the others.... I have no idea... only others thoughts about me being overly sexual and maybe intimadating the men.. like scaring them to not be able to satisfy me and my needs after all we shared about our desires.... SO I try to share less and let them share only their desires and be happy with what they wish to do to me... until I find the right man... I just have this image in my head that men especially young men have this huge desire and stamina to have sex non-stop... I guess I was not right about that...
thanks again for your sharing with me, you truly have given me another way of thinking...
Kisses,
Sally

funtimespl08 52M
13 posts
12/28/2019 1:55 pm

message me so we can chat and hopefully make some skin on skin happen... with the kinky thoughts too....lol..


BBW56Sally replies on 12/28/2019 2:38 pm:
Thank you, I will try, but understand I am disabled, homebound and I must host. Plus I must be attracted to my play mate just as he is to me.... just human nature darlin.... I will try to contact you...
Kisses,
Sally

BBW56Sally replies on 12/28/2019 9:20 pm:
Darlin Funtimesp108, I keep trying to get a hold of you but you are IM only. I sent you a friend request so if you friend me, you can message me and I can send you messages as well. Plus I will know when you are on line darlin... You have my interest greatly... if we have sparks I would love to Ring in the NEW YEAR with you if possible regarding you work schedule I am sure of... waiting to hear from you..
kisses,
Sally

funtimespl08 52M
13 posts
12/27/2019 10:59 am

Some people are just talk on here it seems... if I was closer I would show up for sure... message me sometime to chat more... I am kind of interested in the kinky side....


BBW56Sally replies on 12/27/2019 4:21 pm:
Thank you, for reading and responding to my question. I understand the sexting that is going on and once I catch on I stop the sexting because I am not getting anything out of it.... Is why I need skin on skin.... But to make a date and a time to show up for a meeting..... to not show up, not call or message Is more that being not real... I just do not understand what it is and why?
Kisses,
Sally

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