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Ladies, critique my profile lol. I have been
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Ladies, critique my profile lol. I have been Ladies, critique my profile lol. I have been off an on here and have yet to meet up with anyone. What am I doing wrong? Cock and body not good enough? Too many cock pics?  |
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Yep, far too many cock shots.. seen one, you've seen them all. Torso pics are nice though, nobody expects a face shot, but leave a bit more to the imagination
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No marital status. Are you single, married or attached? Most women assume no status noted means attached in some way. Nice body shot. Too many dick pic.
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Keep in mind standard members can only see the first sentence or so of what you put in your profile. So make sure your most important thing you want women to know is in that first sentence. If you had copied and pasted the text of your profile here, I'd have been happy to critique it more. I'll agree with the other women posting: ditch the cock pics. Women are almost always more interested in the whole guy than just one part of his anatomy. Let the woman ask you for one if she's interested. And put your status so she knows if you're truly single or not. If you have a girlfriend, you're "attached" not "single."
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Ladies, critique my profile lol. I have been off an on here and have yet to meet up with anyone. What am I doing wrong? Cock and body not good enough? Too many cock pics? you asked so answering you since you might find some insight Online profiles and the striking similarities with SALES & MARKETING Lifestyle BLOG posting from a couple with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies and a former professional Dating coach. We have written some blog posts truly hoping make this community a better place through teaching others how offer quality communication, interaction, and increasing the skills necessary be successful creating a quality profile meet more people. This post will be helpful for all members’ couples, single women and men are trying to meet others using these types of media platforms or any online site. Most people start a membership on any site hoping to get connected with people in a few days not realizing they have no plan for marketing themselves. Sadly most will be deactivated profiles in a few short months not knowing what went wrong and feeling that online is useless and unsuccessful. We have seen 10's of thousands of MALE profiles deactivate or QUIT after as little as 90 days due to no success. Like the old Cliché if you HAVE NO PLAN , you PLAN FAIL! Online platforms whether sexually oriented or not, are more MARKETING oriented than you might think. Most members post a torso pic, dick pic ,boob photo or some other non-descript pic that does not show well, and then even worse , no profile description or information for the reader to glean and determine if there is a good match or if there is potential to move forward with that person to meet. Think about it this way: When you go shopping for say; a box of cereal, there are HUNDREDS of different brands and options available in the isle. Would you choose to purchase the cereal brand that a has a non-descript photo, no ingredients information, and no information on the company ? Would you choose to go to the restaurant to eat if it had no pics, no description and no detail on what type of food or ambiance it offered? We think almost 100% the answer would be NO. When you are creating a profile imagine you are in competition with literally MILLIONS of other profiles in the immediate area for other member’s attention. No quality pics and no description will place you at a MARKETING disadvantage! Everyone one else has spent the time, effort and research on how create a quality profile which markets their personality, attractiveness and lifestyle direction accurately,packaged with a certain level of exciting details and pictures that makes you want to READ and meet the person who created the profile will be more successful. It’s exactly how we shop for products and has a striking similarity on how we choose people to meet using online platforms. All of the skills you use choose the right car, right house, right restaurant to go and eat ,should be the skills you use to create a successful profile. When you are looking to CHOOSE something you are drawn to certain things: let’s take a car for example. 1) You will shop for the best photos that strike your interest in attractiveness. 2) You will research the company and match for the right functionality and package options you like that best to fit your personality and driving style. mileage, power options, GPS technology, automatic lights etc. etc....in other words you did some RESEARCH and read some things about the car 3) You will search for specific brand or TYPE of car and check reliability info and other things that are important you 4) You will search for a certain location to see the car in your area and TEST drive to see if it’s a match, not choose the car that is 2000 miles away. These are just examples but transition this thinking into creating an ONLINE PROFILE and you should use the skills, description and details that attract the right kind of people towards your BRAND profile. Use quality photos to show personality, action sports, music, art, interest you may have, sexy well-dressed photos for men and women to garner attention and interest NOT a selfie in the bathroom with a toilet in the background or a mundane DICK pic with your sweat pants pulled down. ? I mean think about it. When was last time you went a bar, pulled your pants down and got a date? LOL Or the famous photo in the bedroom with an array of unkempt clothing , food articles and SHIT laying all over the place. There are MILLIONS of profiles that truly have NO VALUE at all to their profile yet expect meet people and get frustrated when they don’t. It helps to know that sexually based website or not; there are many common things we do every day in our lives to make choices yet, here we completely disregard them in favor of meaningless pics and no description profiles, thinking it will work. This is not how men and women psychologically choose to meet, or spend time to choose or see a product. THE PRODUCT in this case IS YOUR PROFILE PAGE AND HOW YOU REPRESENT YOURSELF OTHERS. YES there will be a few people as a minority of the population will choose meet you from a sentence profile and non-descript pic , but this will be very rare. If you dont spend time on quality pics and something EXCITING and valuable say , why would anyone want or feel enticed meet? You have already set yourself up for failure. Its amazing us that we get contacted everyday people want meet but have NO profile pic, no description, no value. Or just nude bathroom selfie pics of dicks,close up of boob-or NO PIC AT ALL. Its just not a reliable way choose meet. Yet they ask if we are interested? WOULD YOU BE INTERESTED IN ANYTHING YOU CANT SEE, READ ABOUT OR HAVE ANY INFORMATION AT ALL? In todays hyper availability of information we see more than half of the profiles out there with NOTHING in them. Taking the time learn the process on how humans make choices , certain marketing ideas and using them in your own profile will be more than POWERFUL in making you successful here. It just takes a little more thought effort and time
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How to write a QUALITY profile Posted:Apr 28, 2019 8:31 pm Last Updated  ec 27, 2019 12:50 pm2454 Views We always see the same descriptions and profiles. "We want to meet people like us" or " We want to add spice" , or "We joined to explore our sexuality" WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE do you want to meet, WHAT KIND OF SPICE, WHAT TYPES OF EXPLORATION? we see these statements along with a one sentence description and either NO pics , or just dick pics, or a bathroom toilet in the back round. Does anyone truly realize that saying "we want to meet people like us or add spice " is a completely EMPTY statement with no value to the reader? People like us could mean anything and adding SPICE is relative to the person who is writing the thought. WHAT KIND OF SPICE , threesome , water sports, BDSM , blood letting and cutting during sex. We are making a joke here but truth is there are MANY people that like this type of play here Most people writing a profile MUST stop to understand themselves FIRST, what they are looking for , what types of interaction they want to explore and create a profile with more detail around those specific thoughts , else we the reader have NO IDEA what you are talking about. The swing world has so many nuances, if you dont spell it out you will not be successful in trying to attract and meet the right people. HERE ARE SOME GOOD IDEAS here or any site because, after all, this is a DATING SITE LIKE ANY OTHER just sexually driven and based Step 1: CHOOSE THE RIGHT PICTURES Without the right photos, nothing you write matters. This is an article about how to write a profile, but if you don’t have the right collection of photos, even the best writer cant help you When putting together your photo gallery, make sure you look flattering in every picture, NOT a toilet in the back round or wearing dirty torn clothing LOL If you can combine this with pictures that also show your personal interests and most attractive personality traits, you’ll have a very powerful photo gallery. SPORT PHOTO TRAVEL PHOTO WINE & FOOD add something of interest not just a DICK or torso pic-contrary to what MOST MEN think .. woman and couples DONT CHOOSE TO MEET because of the beauty of your dick. SIMPLE and pretty much common sense. Step 2: THIS blog post has a structure ---- Your profile should be structured in a similar manner. Each “mini paragraph” should give an idea of who you are as a person, what you are looking for , LIKES & DISLIKES etc. Step 3: Add some ideas that give people a CONVERSATION STARTER The harder it is for someone to start a conversation with you, the more likely they will move onto the next profile, even if they were otherwise interested. ask a question: What is you r favorite place to travel? What made you get into the lifestyle? What is your idea of a great lifestyle date night? These are ideas to give an ICE breaker and start conversation on more than just "hey , what are you into" and then having to re type and explain that THOUSANDS of times to different people contacting you Step 4: Remove all negativity. Instead of writing, “I was bored or I just got out of a DIVORCE” try, “I am looking to explore some new sexual ideas and have recently become single. I would love to meet a couple to learn and enjoy MFM” Never focus on negative things in your life Negative energy always attracts negative attention. When someone approaches your profile it should exude optimism, happiness, and portray someone who is excited about meeting Step 5: Show don’t tell. Saying you are funny or adventurous DOESNT CONVEY ANYTHING try - telling a funny joke & story or explain HOW you are adventurous and show a MOUNTAIN CLIMBING picture- far more effective Step 6: change it up People who read your profile want to know that meeting you will be fun and exciting The more interests, passions, and personality traits you reveal, the more people will be drawn to your profile, and the more likely people will be able to find commonalities with you. More commonality means more success and quality matches Step 7: Proof read what you wrote There is a lot to think about and create but a poorly written , grammatically incorrect profile is disastrous. It could be something as simple as a phrase that accidentally comes across as desperate or needy, a really bad grammar mistake, poor language choice, a misguided picture, negative energy, or any number of the dozens of unintentional red flags that people accidentally show. Always proof read your profile Step 8: Put some thought into what you are doing Time and EFFORT are prerequisites to a good profile and qaulity communication Writing a profile takes a little time and extra effort, but you can create a profile that helps you stand out and meet the kind of people you’re interested in.
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