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Ladies where have I gone wrong?  

pemdas51 55M
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15 posts
7/11/2019 5:32 pm
Ladies where have I gone wrong?
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fkmeallnitelong9 53F  
2586 posts
7/11/2019 5:40 pm

 I think your profile is just fine....I don't know why some girl hasn't talked to you...some people on here are just rude and stuck up....go figure....


pemdas51 55M
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7/11/2019 5:54 pm

 I had to reboot my pc tonight after it locked while I was on Affairlook.... I was starting this blob at the time thought I was getting a sign LOL


pemdas51 55M
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7/11/2019 6:03 pm

 fkmeallnitelong9 I even sent you an IM tonight and didn't seem to get to you....hmmmm wonder if I'm having issues with settings... IM is on though.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/11/2019 6:04 pm

 Your pic and profile look just fine. Have you tried to send a nice mail message? Some may respond to that. The IM is a bit annoying to some women here. Most men’s approach is crude or to just initiate dirty talk.


pemdas51 55M
Ask me for a photo

7/11/2019 6:15 pm

 Yes ma'am I have and said hi.. used my name and sent a pic simply asking to chat to get to know them, but nothing. So not sure if there is an problem... would rather not start out with flashing Mr. Winky pretty sure that would'nt work HAHAHA.


5CwazyDaisy 54F  
213 posts
7/11/2019 6:31 pm

 I would suggest full sentences, commenting on something in their profile that shows you have read it as most don't, and hold off on the name and pic. Wait for her to ask for a pic and your name.


Snk4u22 43M/43F
17 posts
7/11/2019 6:35 pm

 your right one is on here somewhere.. we as a couple are finding it hard to get replies all we can do is try
Be happy !!! Be safe !!! Be full of life and let it be xxx


jannan123 51M

7/11/2019 6:38 pm

 i think most of us had that problem


pemdas51 55M
Ask me for a photo

7/11/2019 6:39 pm

 cinnamon0133, I kinda figured there were tons of guys slamming you ladies with IM's. Love your profile pic too.


pemdas51 55M
Ask me for a photo

7/11/2019 6:44 pm

 5CwazyDaisy, I like that suggestion. I have been reading profiles finding most ladies want a pic to reply and I started using my name to make it a bit more personal... I'm going to change that up immediately. Thanks!! I love your profile pic too.


pemdas51 55M
Ask me for a photo

7/11/2019 7:02 pm

 2Saltie2, thanks for the comment it was loaded with solid eye opening information.


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
7/11/2019 8:27 pm

 The IM is sporadic and twitchy at best. Why it was replaced with this current version is beyond me. The older version would at least work if you refreshed your page every now and then.

It will also go dormant if there are no messages coming in or going out; most often this happens if you're reading or writing blogs. It becomes active again when you look at another post, or another profile, etc.

I rarely can get this newer version to work, so it's better if someone sends me a message through the system's email.
"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/11/2019 9:11 pm

 Don't tell women what you've grown tired of.

Don't offer women conversation. That's not exciting , except to the woman with 3 or more cats.


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