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I can't tell  

RickT2019 51M
16 posts
10/18/2018 12:39 am
I can't tell


I enjoy meeting new people. I have meet a couple of new people here via IM. The folks I have talked to are nice however, I will be talking to them for 10 to 20 minutes and they will go silent. Is that a problem with Affairlook?

I hope to have many other conversations. Everyone is looking for connection but each person is looking for something just a little different. Some people are looking for Single, Tall, NSA connection. Some people are looking for Married, hung BBC. Is this a place where people find real connections or are we looking to live out one of our wet dreams. For me it is a bit of both. I will keep my mind open to what comes.

Cheers,

Rick

RickT2019 51M
14 posts
10/18/2018 12:39 am

your thinking...


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/18/2018 1:18 am

Get a clue Rick....You want conversations? Then you [within in a few minutes] need to make words to get them to meet you some place for that conversation, and to potentially get laid.

They type with you for about 20 minutes and then someone else more interesting, and maybe more aggressive than you comes along and she moves on.

No, this is not the place to "Find" real connections. Common sense should tell anyone this site is for hooking up , and seeing what else is out there.

You can keep an open mind, but that's about the same as keeping an open mind you'll find donuts in a hardware store.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
10/18/2018 6:15 am

Ignore Heathen... he has a downer on everyone on here! ... the IM IS crap, you can be happily chatting and boom.. down it goes... I'm not saying it happens every time,, but more often than not... and it shows people online when they aren't.
I would suggest reading profiles before you message to see if you both want the same thing.. and also use the messaging /email system too. Good luck x


JuBee513 66M

10/18/2018 6:33 am

Seems6666 is right on. The IM app is crap but I also find that people can be too.


luvgluv19 75M

10/18/2018 6:58 am

Always has been, always will be from what I can see and hear


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/18/2018 1:20 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    Ignore Heathen... he has a downer on everyone on here! ... the IM IS crap, you can be happily chatting and boom.. down it goes... I'm not saying it happens every time,, but more often than not... and it shows people online when they aren't.
    I would suggest reading profiles before you message to see if you both want the same thing.. and also use the messaging /email system too. Good luck x
Don't be rude.... everybody knows the IM is broken.... so that makes the need for him to communicate his point all that much faster, plus, the ratio of men to women is well known, here. ......So the longer he lets her keep him on IM.. the greater his chances of losing his chance.

And that's a fact.


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