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Blogs > Teenage_Riot > My Blog

To all the people that say "no, thank you"  

Teenage_Riot 40M
22 posts
9/21/2018 5:10 pm
To all the people that say "no, thank you"

I say this - "Yes, thank you!"

Thank you for checking out my profile and sending a reply, no matter how matter how negative - you showed a lot of courage by hitting that reply button and I appreciate that, even though you need to learn some basic manners.

There's a fragment of conversation I had with someone that replied that way:

"Why Affairlook then?"
"Why ask why? I don't owe you an explanation. I don't find you that attractive, I was just being polite."

When I said that I don't find her attractive either (there's one photo in profile and its a leg), she said that she knew I'd be insulted.

She received a block from me for being rude and those people clearly do not expect anyone to turn the tables on them.

Teenage_Riot 40M

9/22/2018 4:17 am

 I once had an interesting convo with a girl who said "no, thank you".

You know what she said? "I don't find you attractive, was just very polite".

Simply put, people that respond this way do often think the world of themselves - they may not, of course, but I still think its a very passive-aggressive form of reply/response.


Teenage_Riot 40M

9/22/2018 4:21 am

 "I knew you'd be insulted" lol - funny how when the tables turn those people usually start blaming me for being rude.


Teenage_Riot 40M

9/22/2018 4:28 am

 As the saying goes:

The more I learn about people, the more I like dogs.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
9/22/2018 5:05 am

 So lemme see if I got this straight.....

You contacted a woman you were interested in.
She replied indicating no interest in you.
You asked why not.
She was honest and said she didn't find your pictures attractive.
You got butthurt and cried "oh yeah, well I don't think you're attractive either!" and blocked her.

плакса


Teenage_Riot replies on 9/22/2018 7:53 am:
lol, and now you're butthurt too over my response

How cute

Teenage_Riot replies on 9/22/2018 7:54 am:
Клякса lol

Даже придумать нормальные оскорбления не можем - видимо не хватает ума

Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 5:09 am

 So exactly how would you have them respond? Do you need them to lie to you? Something like, I'm sure you're the greatest thing since sliced bread, but I'm washing my hair that night. Sorry.

Come on man, you keep throwing around terms like rude and passive/aggressive at the respondents. I'll toss a couple out for you, defensive and overly sensitive.

Just take the no for what it is, be happy they responded at all, and move on.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Teenage_Riot replies on 9/22/2018 7:52 am:
I don't need them to lie to me by any means, but being passive-aggressive isn't a good way of going about it either.

Why respond at all if you don't like me?

Teenage_Riot 40M

9/22/2018 8:03 am

 Thanks for responses y'all - appreciate those.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 10:28 am

 So exactly how would you have them respond? Do you need them to lie to you? Something like, I'm sure you're the greatest thing since sliced bread, but I'm washing my hair that night. Sorry.

Come on man, you keep throwing around terms like rude and passive/aggressive at the respondents. I'll toss a couple out for you, defensive and overly sensitive.

Just take the no for what it is, be happy they responded at all, and move on.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member"

Teenage_Riot replies on 9/22/2018 9:52 am:
I don't need them to lie to me by any means, but being passive-aggressive isn't a good way of going about it either.

Why respond at all if you don't like me?

Well if you read enough of the blog posts complaining about women not responding at all to messages.."the infinite amount of times I've heard..hell even if they're not interested, they should just respond, tell me they weren't interested in me.

It might make more sense, why you're not getting a lot of..yeah youre right responses on this blog post.

If they do respond, they're being a bitch, If they don't respond, they're being a bitch. And after reading some of the responses back at the "I'm not interested " message returns.. If I was a lady, I wouldn't respond either.

Like I said ..don't take it personally, and just move on It's not that big a deal.
" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Teenage_Riot replies on 9/23/2018 3:39 pm:
Did you noticed that I thanked the responders too or did that flew over your head?

No need to write an essay this, dude.

Teenage_Riot replies on 9/23/2018 3:59 pm:
Its not that big of a deal, especially when you get 10,000 words in response multiple times with many responders being butthurt.

Not that big of a deal, just move on - oh wait, there's another 10k words waiting for me.

Teenage_Riot 40M

9/23/2018 3:41 pm

 Didn't realize that this little blog post will cause so much butthurt.

Just move on, they say - sometime after writing a 10,000 word response to me saying its mostly a laughable matter.

Okay then!


Teenage_Riot 40M

9/23/2018 3:44 pm

 People, they never cease to amaze me.


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