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Simple Question, a not so Simple Answer
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Simple Question, a not so Simple Answer I had a lengthy discussion with a nice man on another Dating Site recently. He was very curious about Transexuals. He admitted he had never been with one but had always wanted to “Try one”. Even with demeaning expression, I tried to answer his questions with the overall objective of enlightening another uninformed person. Instant Messaging is not a good forum for detailed conversation so my answers were necessarily brief and not as thorough as they could/should have been. Things were moving along pretty well until he hit with this seemingly benign question, “Do you stand when you go to the toilet?” confirmed just how little he knew about Transgenderism. Instead of even giving him any sort of answer, I just ended the chat. Thinking about question later, I realized agin how few people, and I will say Mostly Men in this case, understand what is being Transgendered. Being Transgendered means taking on a complete new mind set, a complete new life and a completely new identity. It is not just a desire to have sex as another gender. It is not just the desire to wear the clothes of the opposite gender. It is not just the desire to look like the opposite gender. When a person Transitions, they become the other gender in all ways, with the possible exception of Gender Reassignment Surgery, as in my personal case. I have taken the role of what I believe are Traditional Female characteristics. In today’s world people are less and less Traditional but in the realm of Transgenderism we find the lifestyle we are are most comfortable in and adapt our new life to fit. Transsexualism in not just a bedroom sport. It encompasses all aspects of life. It is not just about putting on a Dress and make up. You become a new being in TOTAL. On Affairlook/Passion you just see me in a sexual way. is a part on me similar to a genetic female who looks to hook up with a guy for sex. No different. I’m on here NOT because I’m Transgendered. Like anyone else, I find sex enjoyable. What you don’t see of me on here is the rest of my life. For instance: I have a Long Term Partner. We are not married but have lived together for nearly 20 years. I have a very good job and work five days a week. I have eight people on my staff. I do the housework. I take pride in my spotless Apartment. Even the Bathroom but specially the kitchen. I do the Cooking (unless we go out), Grocery Shopping and manage our Bank Accounts, Savings and investments. Even Transexuals plan for Retirement. When we have friends over for dinner or a party, I do all the planning and make all the arrangements. My Partner doesn’t have to do anything. I get up first most mornings and make the coffee and Breakfast for my Partner. Weekends I may sleep in a little. He at least knows how to make instant coffee. We have many close personal friends I try to keep in touch with. These are people I have never had sex with and love to socialize with just because we like each other. This is my life outside the bedroom. It is what I believe a Woman should be. I wanted to say all this to the man who wondered if I stand at the toilet. I don’t know if he would have guessed the answer. Jan |
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4/26/2019 6:06 am |
not a very good question to ask its like asking if you wipe your ass after you shit
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