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My Four Phases of an Orgasm
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My Four Phases of an Orgasm his morning over coffee I read a very Clinical article titled “The Four Phases of an Orgasm”. It describes in detail the physical changes that happen to both Women and Men during sex. As I said, very Clinical in describing such events as the female natural lubrication process and the male testicles being drawn into his<b> scrotum. </font></b>To site the article, the Four Phases are; Excitement Plateau Orgasm Resolution Hardly fascinating reading, unless you’re a doctor or have wondered why your toes curl up when you orgasm. This study is very often referenced in other articles detailing the orgasm and has been accepted for years. It’s shortcoming to me is that it only explains what happens physically during a relatively short time during sex. It only explains your arrival and nothing about how you got there. So, let Dr. Jan paint the entire journey for you; MOOD - Both the mental mood and environmental mood matter importantly for great sex. The anticipation of sex sets off a prolonged mood of ecstasy. Knowing sex is just hours away, you will get dizzy with thoughts of achieving the greatest pleasure for both. Have constant mental images of how best to make love. Set the environmental mood by dressing carefully in a way that clearly suggest you want sex. Not like a slut that shouts “Fuck me” but like a woman who whispers “I desire you tonight”. Also, manipulate the settings in subtle ways for him to relax and to anxiously anticipate the possibility of sex with you. FOREPLAY - So important for good sex. All good athletes warm up before the game. I suggest to draw this phase out as long as you can. Don’t be in a hurry and take short pauses to extend these moments. You might get more wine, or simply excuse yourself briefly and let him watch you walk away. Men love to watch a nice ass in motion. Kissing and exploring each other’s bodies is necessary to elevate the mood to the proper stage for sex. Most women don’t respond to men that walk in and unzip immediately. We want to be kissed passionately and undressed slowly. OBTAINMENT - Slowly enter her, a little at a time. There is no pleasure in being jabbed like you are with a cheap in a hurry. She is giving you her body, please don’t abuse it, unless she ask for it and that’s a different situation. Feeling a man’s entire erection slowly penetrating sets off involuntary muscle reactions. She will tighten around his cock and pulled it in. Tell him to slow down if his thrusts becomes too vigorous too quickly. He will enjoy his climax more if he is fully loaded by delaying his release as long as possible. Get the most for both of you. ENJOYMENT - These are the moments after an Orgasm that are so critical to total pleasure. She wants everything you can give her including when you go limp on her and in her. Knowing he has reached the top of the mountain and is completely spend gives a woman a mental and physical calmness. Ask him to wait before pulling out so you can milk his cock with whatever fuck muscles you use. Don’t leave him with anything left to drip on you or your sheets. He should be so drained it’s an impossibility for him to recharge and fuck anything for the rest of the night.Take pride in leaving him sexually impotent for the foreseeable future. He will will need time to recover but he will feel totally satisfied until then. Dr Jan suggest you take all four and call me in the morning |
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Great advice and we all should do as the good Doctor recommends! When you get the first two Phases right, the last two take care of themselves.... Would the good Doctor demonstrate in person?
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