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Blogs > JaniceJanes > Jan's Thoughts

My Orgasms  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
10/13/2018 10:26 am
My Orgasms

I made a new friend on this site late last night, or maybe it was more early in the morning. We had both been out drinking and we continued to drink while chatting so the conversation was more joking about men than anything serious.

Somehow the chat got around to asking me if I was still “functional” and if I still had orgasms.

IMs don’t really allow for detailed answers and being drunk further reduces the ability to clearly express oneself.

So this morning, with plenty of coffee at hand, I will try to answer these questions soberly and seriously.

First, yes I’m functional in that I get erections and ejaculate but to me now, those are not important elements to my enjoyment of sex. I no longer get greatly aroused by having my genitals orally stimulated. I do enjoy having my penis and testicles orally awakened but only as a small part of Foreplay. Having them Kissed, Sucked, Licked or fondled probably won’t take me to Orgasm.

There are at least two reasons why;

My genitals are very small and much less sensitive now from my HRT Treatment. Normal for this procedure after all this years.

But most importantly, in my transition to womanhood I purposely ignore that I still have a Penis. It is my personal choice to keep my penis but it is not how I wish to have sex now. I do not even consider using it for sex. In plain language, just to be clear, I do not desire to fuck anyone. That desire is almost fully suppressed.

Secondly, my Orgasms come from having a man Orgasm in me. This is the ultimate pleasure for almost all of us that are Transitioning. When a man Orgasm peaks and he ejaculates in me I am at the highest point I can reach as a woman.

I often describe my Orgasms as mostly mental. I do not have the same sensitive nerve endings as a woman has vaginally but I can feel his manhood and that it is becoming firmer and swelling in me. When his muscles tense and his grasp becomes stronger and his thrusts are harder and faster, I know he is ready to release his sperm in me and I am completely satisfied.

The very same mental process happens to me as any woman. Certain chemicals are released in my brain and certain functions are increased while some shut down. It is an Orgasm even though I did not release anything from my Penis. Sometimes I do, I admit, but it isn’t necessary that I do for me to achieve a Mental Orgasm.

Men always orgasm before I do and that is alright with me especially if he can recharge relatively quickly. I can be ready for more sex and stay at the same level of emotional arousal if he desires. Not every man can or wants a second session of sex so soon after he orgasms once.

Even If I don’t reach Orgasm during or from intercourse, I am still satisfied by knowing that this man desired me and found me sexually exciting. I aroused him to his greatest primal urge. He wanted to have sex with me. That is what I want, to be desired.

On a closing note, I have to say I encourage this in men. I have spent years learning and perfecting the art of turning men on. I often dress provocatively and act coquettishly in public even when I’m out with my boyfriend. After all, he is part of the audience I am playing to.

Jan

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