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Blogs > JaniceJanes > Jan's Thoughts

Little things I Now Embrace  

JaniceJanes 49T  
708 posts
8/4/2018 9:44 am
Little things I Now Embrace

I have mentioned many times that to me, Transitioning to the Female world is more that just looking Female. It really is the nexus of Mind, Body and Spirit.

I have assumed the duties and responsibilities of the “wife” in my relationship with my partner, Richard. We are not married yet, maybe never will be, but we each have our role. Some of each of our responsibilities just happened as part of our everyday life together while others resulted from decisions we made together.

For example;

I’m in charge of the Kitchen, my favorite job. I do the meal planning, shopping and cooking/baking. I’m sure by now, Richard doesn’t even think about dinner during the day. He knows I have that under control.

Cleaning the apartment is my responsibility and something I enjoy doing. Sure, not a big job, but vacuuming, dusting, mopping (just kitchen and bathroom), straightening and whatever I do almost everyday. Even cleaning the bathroom is something I take pride in doing really well.

I make the bed or beds. On occasions, I have to get some work done after dinner (or play on the internet) and I may crash in our second bedroom room instead of disturbing Richard’s sleep.

Managing our finances is my job also. We have joint accounts so I am the Bookkeeper. I make sure the few regular bills are paid, I track our investments and savings, I make sure we always have some cash in the apartment (mostly for tipping delivery people) and look for ways to save money.

I get the laundry done. Really not a big job, we have a Laundry in the building, but I make sure it gets done.

I also work from home and am very conscientious to not abuse this privilege. I make sure I give 8 hours (or more) to my job everyday.

So those are most of responsibilities I willingly accept as part of my role as a domesticated woman. These are things I never worried about 10 years ago but now embrace as part of my Transition.

Oh, you may be wondering what are Richard’s jobs? Well, he has three that are very important;

1. Plan, or suggest, our social life. Could be going out for a dinner, entertainment or having friends over.

2. Keep me happy in the bedroom.

3. Tolerate my occasional affair or other “wifely” sin.

If he does those things, I’ll take care of the rest.

Jan

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