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Trying to Open Another’s Life
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Trying to Open Another’s Life If you read the profiles of some of the Crossdresser on this site on any other site that allows sexual diversity you will see terms such as “closet CD”, or “non-passable CD” or such self descriptions. I have been in contact with many of these people on Passion.com and other sites and found these three basic facts; Many are content to keep their Crossdressing urges in complete privacy in their home or in a hotel room. This is completely understandable that many do not wish to be discovered and can fulfill their desires alone. That’s fine! The vast majority of Crossdressers wish to venture into more public surroundings. This can be Support Group Meetings or places that are safe and tolerant for Crossdressers such as gay clubs/bars. Public display of their inner self is important to their emotional needs. This is fine also. There is also a large number of Crossdressers who wish to go out in public but are reluctant to do so for several reasons. Mainly, in my opinion, because they feel insecure being out alone dressed as a woman. For the last group, Going out, or Coming out, is a very big step filled with doubt. Will I be passable enough, how should I act as a woman, will someones ridicule me? All valid reasons and I do not have, nor will I try to, advise everyone on how to deal with these issues. What I have done, is offer to accompany a few their first time out in public to help them feel more comfortable. I was able to do this last Friday night with a young Crossdresser I had chatted with for several months on the internet. Chrissy wanted to be out but didn’t know anyone who would go with her. She wanted to test the waters but with a friend she trusted. I had seen several pictures of her and honestly thought she attractive and knew how to dress properly. We agreed to meet after dark. I picked her up in a cab at her apartment building. We were on our cellphones until she was sure the wouldn’t be seen leaving the building. I already had plans to meet a couple of friends at the Stonewall Inn. We get together as often as our various schedules allow which is not very often anymore, On the way there I could tell how excited and nervous Chrissy was. She talked a mile a minute asking me about her makeup and dress and we weren’t even at the Stonewall yet. I assured her she looked fine and told her not to be nervous. inside, the Stonewall we found my friends who saved us seats in the upstairs lounge. For a Friday night, the place wasn’t very crowded. Chrissy mostly listened to our conversation while looking around at the other people and probably checking out if she was being watched. She wasn’t being watch in here as only the most flamboyant draws any attention at the Stonewall. We left about midnight and again I had the taxi drop Chrissy off first. In the cab she told me she had the best time ever and wants to do it again. I may never see her again, she’s on her own now. My small contribution to helping a young woman get out in the world. Jan |
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That was very kind of you, Janice. Excellent story, thanks for sharing!
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7/28/2018 1:53 pm |
Ask, ask, ask!
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I understand the fear and the issue of not having someone to talk with. I am a man who is not into being a CD. I still want to be with a man and experience that feel of being touched and kissed. Why is it so hard to just be me and be accepted?
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7/28/2018 12:51 pm |
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7/28/2018 12:33 pm |
I wish I had a friend like you, Jan. Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!
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Nice post!! I am not into wearing women's clothes at all, but I am into men who are and are attractive like you!! Example, you are very sexy, you have a nice sexy look, Sexy body, sexy legs!! I am just you average Bi-Male and I love it!!
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