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Sex Appeal  

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8/22/2018 9:25 am
Sex Appeal

How do we attract the Right Lady into our lives?

They are many ways to make yourself more appealing to the opposite sex. Its not all about how big your muscles are, how hard or defined your six pack is or how big your wallet is .

Men and women alike, tend to think that muscles, looks, appearance, clothing, is what constitutes good sex appeal. But we are all wrong to believe this, these are just things we think are what matters most when in fact they are not.

Talking is a big factor in sex appeal.

Women find a lot of other things far more attractive than the above.
Talking is a really big or maybe the biggest thing women like in a man. A guy who can talk, hold a decent conversation and talk about almost any subject coherently and also have a good ear to listen and be able to be understanding too. Women do find a guy who can tell a good story very attractive, but men do not seem to find women as attractive the same way. I personally prefer to talk about almost any subject, and have a willingness to learn about other subjects i do not have much knowledge about. I know some of the things i know are not necessarily the best topics to be talking about when i meet someone new, but it shows that i do like to engage in meaningful conversations. Im also a good listener and if i can offer any advice, i will do so. Its good to be able to contribute to a conversation or discussion.

Helpfulness

One way to help increase your sex appeal is in helping others. Helping can inspire a good mood, or alleviate a bad mood.It can also increase the chances of reciprocal help. Selflessness is sexy in itself specially to a long term sexual partner. Helpful men are also perceived as more attractive for a short term encounter. Being helpful can signal both the presence of good genes as well as a willingness to share parental care or resources with a partner.
Im always willing to try to help people where possible. Im not perfect, but i do feel that some people need more help than others, and if i can make a difference, i will try.

Being creative can be a very big influence on your sex appeal to others.

Again creativity can signal good genes or intelligence.

Personally, i like to use my hands in a creative way, and no not just in the bedroom, but i do like to be more practical, hands on type of thing. I like to mess about with computers, i learnt how to build my own about 20 ago. I still do some small upgrades etc and help keep my friends pc up and running for him. I built his pc in 2010 and its still going strong. More than i can say about my own, lol. But thats another story. I also like to make picture frames, or should say, i used to. I could still make one if i had the tools to do so. But it was something i did for a couple of , as a hobby when i was out of work. I then sold the frames i made by hand on a market to raise funds to make more. It was very enjoyable and i met a lot of really nice people doing it.

It is known that men will fall in love faster than women, and that men are more likely to believe in 'Love at first sight' or 'Love conquers all'.
Men will tend to express their romantic feelings in a much different way to women. Men are likely to show their feelings in a more practical way, like sharing the household tasks, whilst women will use a more emotional and affectionate way of expressing their love.

So, to sum up sex appeal.

Good sense of humour, being able to talk constructively and also to understand others. Confidence goes a long way. Independence is also a key issue. Emotionally strong and not being too clingy or too sensitive.

Bottom of the list comes the six pack, the bulging biceps, toned hips, enhanced breasts etc. We are all like<b> books. </font></b>Each one of us is a different book. We all have a totally different cover. We should never judge just by the look of each book. We should take the time to actually open the pages and delve deeper to find the real person the cover is protecting. Looks can help us decide when looking for a partner, but they shouldnt be the main factor, because we could potentially lose out on the perfect person for ourselves by just going on looks alone. Inside each book, there is a different personality waiting to be found and nurtured by the perfect companion book.

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