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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/10/2019 7:09 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I have never regretted any email that I've sent....even the not-so-nice ones.
    I have mixed up conversations on instant messengers. I try not to multichat any more.
You're better than me.
I realized that I had an inner voice that said _"You shouldn't have sent THAT. "
And that other voice, that said - it's what you wanted to say.
Now... about... this 'Multichat'... thingy. Tell me about THAT! 😗


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/10/2019 7:24 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Well, sure. Emotions get the better of everyone once in awhile.

    And, I've been the recipient of a text message sent to the wrong person. From my ex while we were still married. On Christmas Eve, to his girlfriend, telling her how much he wished he was spending the holiday with her. And, I know it was to her, because her first name was in it. At one point, he was messaging multiple women (apparently, he didn't think I was reviewing the cell phone bill), and he always put the first name of the woman he was texting.

    Ha. I just thought of something. Wouldn't it be funny if he was your neighbor, lmao. (He lives in Montreal...)
Wow!
What a story! I'm kinda in shock. THAT... is a slice of life, that remain branded in someone's memory.
And that last part, about him being my neighbour? Well...
What's his address? 🤔
That's... a pretty heavy, misplaced text. I, would have been freaked out Or... were you expecting it? I apologize, if I'm prying.
No worries...
Beats any wrong note, I've received. 🤔


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
10/10/2019 7:54 pm

For a moment there, I though I was going to have to come to your rescue and smack a beech. How dare someone rip into poor, sweet, funny Paul...

Well, glad I won't have to now.

I've done that in a chat room, way back in the day. I meant a snarky response to be send in a PM, but ended up sending it to the whole room instead. Whoops!

There was a good 30 or so seconds of no online convo, and I can only gather the room was wondering just who that was for and how to respond. Finally, someone chimes in with "Do you need chocolate this evening?"

"Yes, please. Sorry. PMSing. *Pay no attention to the (wo)man behind that curtain*."
Quote from Wizard of Oz. Laughter ensued. Good save on my part
.

"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


superbjversion2 69F  
24388 posts
10/10/2019 8:19 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    You're better than me.
    I realized that I had an inner voice that said _"You shouldn't have sent THAT. "
    And that other voice, that said - it's what you wanted to say.
    Now... about... this 'Multichat'... thingy. Tell me about THAT! 😗
Multichat? There's nothing really to tell - I don't do well chatting with more than 2 people at the same time. I've tried juggling 3 or 4 conversations simultaneously and the sexy, flirty remark ends up going to the person I'm talking politics with or the one I'm trying to get rid of.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/10/2019 9:15 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Multichat? There's nothing really to tell - I don't do well chatting with more than 2 people at the same time. I've tried juggling 3 or 4 conversations simultaneously and the sexy, flirty remark ends up going to the person I'm talking politics with or the one I'm trying to get rid of.
THAT... is so funny and so true.
It's happened to me a few times in the chat rooms.
In text where I feel angry... I wait 24 hours before I'll send something out. In business... it's best to maintain a stance... but WAIT before, you take one.
Politics...? Get rid of? Irony or pun? lol 😂
Or... how DO YOU get rid of them?


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
10/10/2019 9:19 pm

Never those types of e-mails...............If It happens its just sending to one son when it suppose to go to another son..........or to a son when its suppose to be send to a grandson.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/10/2019 10:18 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Never those types of e-mails...............If It happens its just sending to one son when it suppose to go to another son..........or to a son when its suppose to be send to a grandson.
That happens to me as well... Mixing up daughters. Many times I find friends with the same first name, so I've got to make sure I'm careful. 👍
You don't send out angry emails or messages to other people, that you kinda regret?


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/10/2019 10:34 pm

    Quoting RyuFujin:
    For a moment there, I though I was going to have to come to your rescue and smack a beech. How dare someone rip into poor, sweet, funny Paul...

    Well, glad I won't have to now.

    I've done that in a chat room, way back in the day. I meant a snarky response to be send in a PM, but ended up sending it to the whole room instead. Whoops!

    There was a good 30 or so seconds of no online convo, and I can only gather the room was wondering just who that was for and how to respond. Finally, someone chimes in with "Do you need chocolate this evening?"

    "Yes, please. Sorry. PMSing. *Pay no attention to the (wo)man behind that curtain*."
    Quote from Wizard of Oz. Laughter ensued. Good save on my part.
Oh... her comments were for someone else, but thanks for the offer of the sword! 👍
lol... Chat rooms can be rough... 😊 I've dttollrf) tripped up in there a few times. Yep... 😊 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/10/2019 10:41 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Honesty is fantastic. Brutal, rude honesty is not requirement. It's a blog what do I care what or how you write that I feel the need to call you a conceited dick, a sociopath, asshole etc. If I felt the need to intercede in your fantasy blog writing I am sure I could come with a more hospitable way to tell you, although I cant think of any reason why I would worry about what you were writing.
Then again she did say it was an accident and not intended for him.
I agree though... if it was intentional, then it was too harsh.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/11/2019 1:59 am

ha.. wow, would have loved to have read what the other person wrote to get that response from her.

Ever sent an email, that I shouldn't have? No.

But the character in your story...he should have just deleted her from his phone and his life, at that moment. She evidently is not stable.

Why would he even wonder if he's a narcissist or a sociopath , after reading her note?


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
10/11/2019 8:10 am

>>“It’s a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out niche”

I very much agree. Mine tends to be mostly diary and I know my life isn’t interesting enough on a day to day basis to keep a big readership! And haven’t podcasts kind of replaced blogs, anyway?


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 8:34 am

    Quoting  :

Yep... We've both got nerves that are easily pressed.
I'm working on it... lol 😂 I'm working on it! 👍
I count to ten. Dja think that'll help? 🤔


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 8:39 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    ha.. wow, would have loved to have read what the other person wrote to get that response from her.

    Ever sent an email, that I shouldn't have? No.

    But the character in your story...he should have just deleted her from his phone and his life, at that moment. She evidently is not stable.

    Why would he even wonder if he's a narcissist or a sociopath , after reading her note?
Here's the irony about this little story.
Everything she says in her note to him, may or may not be applicable. He's a blogger, who's full of himself. If not of her advice were applicable, he'd have deleted it and ignored her. Yet...
He pauses right at the end... and wonders - is he a narcissist or a sociopath? He'll have to pick ONE in order to get treatment.
That email COULD have been for him... 😊


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 8:42 am

    Quoting  :

Well... at least you apologized! Oh my...
On to the next one... 😊 I imagine you're more careful these days?
I'm still counting to ten and tripple checking... lol 😂


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 8:51 am

    Quoting  :

Wow... That sounds like a classic.
Ya never thought of starting him on a series of lessons? lol 😂 😮
Perhaps he KNEW... how bad he was.
I know my strengths and weaknesses. You must as well.
Such a fine line between enter and delete.
Do you ever try to teach your partner how to do it... or was he just a lost cause? 🤔
Thanks for sharing THAT one. Worthy! 👍😮


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 8:56 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    >>“It’s a tough market to crack, unless you have a well thought out niche”

    I very much agree. Mine tends to be mostly diary and I know my life isn’t interesting enough on a day to day basis to keep a big readership! And haven’t podcasts kind of replaced blogs, anyway?
Blog? Podcast? 🤔
Ya still need a captivating story to tell. And tell a new exciting fresh one... over and over again. 😊
I haven't mastered this blog thingy yet.
I don't think erotic anecdotes and quasi fiction have much of a lifespan, outside these walls.
I'm stuck... lol 😂 😮 For now!
Yep... I'm thinking about 'cozy'. That's... a nice word.


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
10/11/2019 12:34 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    That happens to me as well... Mixing up daughters. Many times I find friends with the same first name, so I've got to make sure I'm careful. 👍
    You don't send out angry emails or messages to other people, that you kinda regret?
NO SO FAR that's never happened.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/11/2019 12:53 pm:
Hmmm... Well I guess you're pretty lucky 🍀 that you don't have a temper.

SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
10/11/2019 2:26 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Wow!
    What a story! I'm kinda in shock. THAT... is a slice of life, that remain branded in someone's memory.
    And that last part, about him being my neighbour? Well...
    What's his address? 🤔
    That's... a pretty heavy, misplaced text. I, would have been freaked out Or... were you expecting it? I apologize, if I'm prying.
    No worries...
    Beats any wrong note, I've received. 🤔
Well, let's put it this way, if he was your neighbor, you'd know already...asshole American who is insecure and regularly will make himself feel important by putting down others.

Oh, we're going to have to have a bottle of wine or two for all the stories I could tell you. Some of them would curl your hair.

They'd also explain why I'm gun-shy when it comes to men. He burned the tips of every finger, and I let him, because I trust too easily.

Hey. Did you slip a vodka slushie into my tea when I wasn't looking?! I don't usually let all that out without alcohol...lol.

You just seem to ask the right questions to get me talking...

(Oh, and I knew about the other woman, and I knew her name, but, no, I wasn't expecting that kind of a text. We were celebrating with his family, I was already there, and he was headed over. I confronted him, quietly when he arrived, and he spent the rest of the evening trying to get my forgiveness. I couldn't stand the sight of him, and tried to hide it. Likely, unsuccessfully. I've never discussed it with family.)

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 3:47 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Well, let's put it this way, if he was your neighbor, you'd know already...asshole American who is insecure and regularly will make himself feel important by putting down others.

    Oh, we're going to have to have a bottle of wine or two for all the stories I could tell you. Some of them would curl your hair.

    They'd also explain why I'm gun-shy when it comes to men. He burned the tips of every finger, and I let him, because I trust too easily.

    Hey. Did you slip a vodka slushie into my tea when I wasn't looking?! I don't usually let all that out without alcohol...lol.

    You just seem to ask the right questions to get me talking...

    (Oh, and I knew about the other woman, and I knew her name, but, no, I wasn't expecting that kind of a text. We were celebrating with his family, I was already there, and he was headed over. I confronted him, quietly when he arrived, and he spent the rest of the evening trying to get my forgiveness. I couldn't stand the sight of him, and tried to hide it. Likely, unsuccessfully. I've never discussed it with family.)
Thanks for sharing something so personal.
I imagine we ALL have 'stories' to share. I like to refer them... as 'layers', to a novel that's not yet over.
Ya know... I have a Private Mail Box?
That chapter you described is something that I can relate to!
I love to listen.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/11/2019 4:26 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Here's the irony about this little story.
    Everything she says in her note to him, may or may not be applicable. He's a blogger, who's full of himself. If not of her advice were applicable, he'd have deleted it and ignored her. Yet...
    He pauses right at the end... and wonders - is he a narcissist or a sociopath? He'll have to pick ONE in order to get treatment.
    That email COULD have been for him... 😊
LOL... not necessarily. Many women, since the #metoo belch, try to put men in the sociopath or narcissist category, by claiming , "He's full of himself", if he shows the slightest hint of still having his patriarchal balls intact. For these women, this comment, "He's full of himself", is her go-to defensive measure when she feels at loss for words to make a cogent debate.
In reality, he is likely neither.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/11/2019 5:18 pm:
In this case (although your argument is a valid one), it's likely he's 'one' or the 'other'. Why else would he search Google? 🤔
That other stuff you mentioned... is a route that's interesting to follow but one...I prefer to analyze.
That ONE is a "lose, lose situation," isn't it? 🦃

Livin_my_Life14 53F

10/11/2019 6:44 pm

Not any more. I don’t multichat or I don’t email very many at 1 times. I try to talk to 1 person. Even if someone is nasty to me- be gone before a house falls on you! I don’t keep engaging. I don’t have time for haters!!

Not all women are into the Me Too movement! That crazyford lady who came after Brett K was a nut job!! Any normal person could see she was lying. The vagina hats are stupid. Don’t get me started 😂😂😂


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/11/2019 8:17 pm

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    Not any more. I don’t multichat or I don’t email very many at 1 times. I try to talk to 1 person. Even if someone is nasty to me- be gone before a house falls on you! I don’t keep engaging. I don’t have time for haters!!

    Not all women are into the Me Too movement! That crazyford lady who came after Brett K was a nut job!! Any normal person could see she was lying. The vagina hats are stupid. Don’t get me started 😂😂😂
Wow... You're so level headed.
Don't get you started...? Go for it!
"Vaginal hats"... lol. Good one.
So.. whatcha gonna do now? I'm watching a movie... chilling and flipping channels.
And of course... perusing this 'Abyss'. 😊


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
10/12/2019 2:02 pm

I know how she feels. I am going to start making a list of all the ass holes stat stand me up and post it on here.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/12/2019 2:28 pm

    Quoting flannel_light:
    I know how she feels. I am going to start making a list of all the ass holes stat stand me up and post it on here.
You? Stood up? 🤔 No! 😮
I imagine they were never serious, right?
Well... I'll be looking for it.
Besides that... what's up with you? Any plans today? Drop by any time. 👍


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/13/2019 11:44 am

Holy Shit. That person needs to be ashamed both by sending it and by the weak apology. No manners and certainly no compunction about rupturing at the seams. They would be on my very cooled off list immediately.. Wonder how she discovered she sent it to the wrong person???? No slushies for her

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