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Is It Love... Or Does She Just... Reeeelee Like You... 🤔  

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/7/2019 3:38 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    ohhh...that was cute!!! you know...it's a start...and it's a good start...i just feel like, ,sometime, we are soooo serious...but them??? oh i love the way they are...
Yeah.. that's so true. Just relax and have fun with it and see where it goes. No need to get serious right off the bat. Good point.
I think the younger kids are like that. At least.. that's the vibe I'm getting from my kids and their friends. Maybe I'm wrong. 🤔
Yep.. have fun! 👍 😊


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/7/2019 6:49 pm

Paulxx001 replies on 10/7/2019 3:55 pm:
Hey.. I'm surprised ya had nothing to offer, on that video Conf call I had with the two Bobs from A F F, last week.
I thought it would be right up your alley, in terms of letting it all hang out, lol 😂 Take care.


Yes, read that when you first published it. Nothing to add. Seems about right for what anyone might expect within an Affairlook upper echelon work office.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/7/2019 6:53 pm:
Yep... Cheers! 👍

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/7/2019 7:48 pm

    Quoting  :

They do... don't they?
If we're lucky! 🍀🤔
Get lucky! 👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/8/2019 4:47 am

    Quoting  :

True.... 😊 👍


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
10/8/2019 5:14 am

"hot paws breast covers"

Where on earth can I get me some of those?

I think there's room for all three in the bedroom.... The best times are when all three are there at once!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/8/2019 5:53 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    "hot paws breast covers"

    Where on earth can I get me some of those?

    I think there's room for all three in the bedroom.... The best times are when all three are there at once!
Oooo... I like that one! True! 👍
All three is a rarity though... isn't it? 🤔
It's special when they all meet! 🔥💦


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
10/8/2019 11:34 am

At minimum, I have to 'like' and be attracted to someone on multiple levels before the clothes come off.
People can be swayed by dimmed lights, alcohol, a body pressed up against them and loneliness to let the lines be blurred between 'Like', 'Lust' and 'Love' and wake up the next day with regrets. I choose not to be one of them.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/8/2019 2:44 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    At minimum, I have to 'like' and be attracted to someone on multiple levels before the clothes come off.
    People can be swayed by dimmed lights, alcohol, a body pressed up against them and loneliness to let the lines be blurred between 'Like', 'Lust' and 'Love' and wake up the next day with regrets. I choose not to be one of them.
Ahhh... regrets... yes. Well 'like' is good, at the very least. 😊 👍
I'd be fine with that.
People have regrets? 🤔


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/8/2019 3:43 pm

LOL... Oh soooo not true.

"Friends"? As in platonic? No way.

Every woman's lover [sexer] either got her goodies in the very few hours, or later . And "Later" only because she was either shy, or had her doubts about him and herself.
But either way, she had a sexual attraction for the man from the instant she met, to about the first 10 to 15 minutes.

Sex does not spring from platonic. You are friendzoned because there is no sexual attraction. She doesn't want to see the guy naked, but will take his attention.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:58 pm:
Nope... disagree.
I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me. Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit.
Ooops... I changer my mind and all of a sudden... the little guy was seriously interested.
It's a transition... and there's no formula. Generalities are fine for arguments sake. But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/8/2019 3:50 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Ahhh... regrets... yes. Well 'like' is good, at the very least. 😊 👍
    I'd be fine with that.
    People have regrets? 🤔
"Regrets" are born more from what /who we did not do, than from what/WHO we did do.

Also really hot sex can be had with those we despise, or just don't like.

This is why women always say her ex was an asshole. ..ha.. she bent over for him, and she thought it was hot.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:51 pm:
Sex with someone we despise? Nah... Maybe in YOUR world. Do they owe them a favor?
Sex with someone we dislike... hmm
How drunk or desparate am I? 🤔

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/8/2019 7:15 pm

Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:58 pm:
Nope... disagree.
I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me. Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit.
Ooops... I changer my mind and all of a sudden... the little guy was seriously interested.
It's a transition... and there's no formula. Generalities are fine for arguments sake. But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.


I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me..... Yes, from your perspective, but I'm speaking from the perspective when women friendzone the male. Nothing sexual is ever going to happen after she does that.

We males are are totally different.

Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit...... Well they opened their mouths, probably to offer you a blowjob. You're a male, you won't say no to a woman you've let into your circle, usually [not always typically] when you're not currently seeing anyone.

A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with.

But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.... The mind is very difficult to understand sometimes, but when it comes to attraction and sex, humor and wit is a secondary notice [if that], and really doesn't affect whether she gets a rise out of you. Something more primal and visceral was there, about her, you noticed first...... otherwise you wouldn't have reacted sexually when she said some words. Maybe it was the sound of her tone.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/8/2019 7:27 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:58 pm:
    Nope... disagree.
    I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me. Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit.
    Ooops... I changer my mind and all of a sudden... the little guy was seriously interested.
    It's a transition... and there's no formula. Generalities are fine for arguments sake. But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.


    I've met women who) at my first glance) were not specially attractive to me..... Yes, from your perspective, but I'm speaking from the perspective when women friendzone the male. Nothing sexual is ever going to happen after she does that.

    We males are are totally different.

    Initial impression - 'This is gonna be platonic. THEN... they opened their mouths and tripped me out with their wicked sense of humour and wit...... Well they opened their mouths, probably to offer you a blowjob. You're a male, you won't say no to a woman you've let into your circle, usually [not always typically] when you're not currently seeing anyone.

    A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with.

    But... not a reflection of MY reality.. at least. I'm positive that I'm not the only one.... The mind is very difficult to understand sometimes, but when it comes to attraction and sex, humor and wit is a secondary notice [if that], and really doesn't affect whether she gets a rise out of you. Something more primal and visceral was there, about her, you noticed first...... otherwise you wouldn't have reacted sexually when she said some words. Maybe it was the sound of her tone.
Actually... you're expressing YOUR point of view. Which is ok.
But...
"A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with."

In YOUR opinion. It doesn't make YOU.. want to be with her.
In my world .. it trips me out.
Brain waves are fucking sexy! There's more to having sex than just purely physical attraction.
Otherwise... how long will THAT last? Until you get ugly and she gets fat?
Hmmm. maybe you're right. But in the interim... I'd fuck her mind.. for a while. Better than no sex at all.. and somewhat stimulating.
Try it?
Or at our age.. is it too late? 🤔


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/8/2019 7:29 pm

Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:51 pm:
Sex with someone we despise? Nah... Maybe in YOUR world. Do they owe them a favor?
Sex with someone we dislike... hmm
How drunk or desparate am I?


Sex with someone we despise?.... Again, not from a male point of view. From the woman's. Women continuously have sex with men she despises, time and time again.

But men do have sex with some very bitchy women, whom he wouldn't normally be with. But she's hot, and she's made herself available to fuck. So you dive in.

Sex with someone we dislike... hmm How drunk or desparate am I? ....You don't have to be drunk or desperate. Just horny. But men , like us, in our 60's , for a bitch of a woman to get you horny , she'd have to be one hot tomato .

But as I said... "You don't have to be drunk or desperate"..... but since you asked... you don't have to be all that drunk , nor all that desperate....the right looking woman , bitchy attitude and all, could get you into bed. This is more true when men are in their teens, twenties and thirties... so I don't discount the women we despise.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/8/2019 7:56 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Actually... you're expressing YOUR point of view. Which is ok.
    But...
    "A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with."

    In YOUR opinion. It doesn't make YOU.. want to be with her.
    In my world .. it trips me out.
    Brain waves are fucking sexy! There's more to having sex than just purely physical attraction.
    Otherwise... how long will THAT last? Until you get ugly and she gets fat?
    Hmmm. maybe you're right. But in the interim... I'd fuck her mind.. for a while. Better than no sex at all.. and somewhat stimulating.
    Try it?
    Or at our age.. is it too late? 🤔
"A woman's humor and wit doesn't make her someone you want to simulate procreation with."

In YOUR opinion. It doesn't make YOU.. want to be with her.
In my world .. it trips me out.
.... Okay. But I guarantee you there is first something physical [visceral] about her , that you chose to consciously ignore because you needed a cerebral contact , too.

There's more to having sex than just purely physical attraction.... No. Not really. Just that something cerebral [on your level or above] about a woman can be a bonus. Especially if you wanted to keep her around.

Otherwise... how long will THAT last? .... Doesn't matter, unless you are specifically looking for a woman for something long term. Then a cerebral connection might be important.

Until you get ugly and she gets fat?.... In terms of how long, oh so much sooner. Maybe a week. Maybe less.

Hmmm. maybe you're right. But in the interim... I'd fuck her mind.. for a while...... Of course , but you'd fuck her pussy first.

Better than no sex at all..... What, fucking her mind? ... That really doesn't satisfy if you have a strong libido.

and somewhat stimulating..... No. Sitting there listening to her talk on a subject isn't stimulating you physically. While you brain is being stimulated on a topic you enjoy, you are subconsciously being stimulated by the way she smells, moves, wiggles, sounds, looks. That is what is arousing.

Try it? Or at our age.. is it too late? 🤔... As long as the libido is alive, you'll want to fuck her pussy first.


Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 10:11 pm:
I think you were saying... fucking is good.. regardless of how you get there? Right?
That's about what I understood... at this time of night.
Should I get deeper into it?
Nah... I think I get your point.
So... what else is new? 🤔

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/8/2019 9:40 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Paulxx001 replies on 10/8/2019 4:51 pm:
    Sex with someone we despise? Nah... Maybe in YOUR world. Do they owe them a favor?
    Sex with someone we dislike... hmm
    How drunk or desparate am I?


    Sex with someone we despise?.... Again, not from a male point of view. From the woman's. Women continuously have sex with men she despises, time and time again.

    But men do have sex with some very bitchy women, whom he wouldn't normally be with. But she's hot, and she's made herself available to fuck. So you dive in.

    Sex with someone we dislike... hmm How drunk or desparate am I? ....You don't have to be drunk or desperate. Just horny. But men , like us, in our 60's , for a bitch of a woman to get you horny , she'd have to be one hot tomato .

    But as I said... "You don't have to be drunk or desperate"..... but since you asked... you don't have to be all that drunk , nor all that desperate....the right looking woman , bitchy attitude and all, could get you into bed. This is more true when men are in their teens, twenties and thirties... so I don't discount the women we despise.
Hey.. Do me a favor... Don't put the blue font color on... I'm fucking blind enough as it is.
Ok... Yeah.. as it relates to teens? Sure. I agree.
But I've been with bitches and ya know what? If I'm not laughing and having a good time... I don't need it. It's me and the way I roll. Done that. Been there.
But I see your pov.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/9/2019 7:26 am

Whew I am worn out with perusing all of HG's take on this blog post. My comment will only generate more BS

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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/9/2019 9:23 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Whew I am worn out with perusing all of HG's take on this blog post. My comment will only generate more BS
Hmmm... I'm a very patient and polite person. And pretty tolerant. I guess he had stuff to share.
Go for it. Your opinion is always welcome. I'm sure he has covered it all... right? 😗


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/9/2019 12:27 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hey.. Do me a favor... Don't put the blue font color on... I'm fucking blind enough as it is.
    Ok... Yeah.. as it relates to teens? Sure. I agree.
    But I've been with bitches and ya know what? If I'm not laughing and having a good time... I don't need it. It's me and the way I roll. Done that. Been there.
    But I see your pov.
Yes, I totally understand your point of view , too.....

And , sorry, won't use that light blue font again when communicating with you.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/9/2019 1:18 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Yes, I totally understand your point of view , too.....

    And , sorry, won't use that light blue font again when communicating with you.
No worries...
So... I guess we can wait around until I come up with something else... 🤔


scoupe42 60M

10/9/2019 5:07 pm

Hi Paul, this could be a story of "lifetime". a good story.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/9/2019 5:51 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Hi Paul, this could be a story of "lifetime". a good story.
lol... I'm pretty sure... THIS sort of thing happens all the time... no? 🤔
I used to go to clubs. Hated the bright lights when they'd flip on.
You know what I mean... Right? 😗


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