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Marital Status: Prefer not to say = Married.  

slidein2meplz 69F
907 posts
1/28/2006 3:41 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Marital Status: Prefer not to say = Married.

Here's the question...regarding profile pictures and status selections. Just cuz I'm kinda curious...

Do you prefer to see the person by themselves?

Or...if they are engaged in a "sex" act...does that turn you off or does it not matter at all?

Do you prefer to see answers selected instead of "Prefer not to say"?

To: Smile__38
From: slidein2meplz
Subject: RE: Smile
Message:

Marital Status: Prefer not to say = Married. Right?

A challenge...no, not really. Just very picky.

May I make one itty bitty suggestion regarding your profile....

Most women (not all will agree)....do not want to see another person in the pic. I know I prefer not to. It is more often than not a turn off. You might fare better with a simple picture of just yourself.

I would have been more likely to encourage communication if most of your answers were not "prefer not to say" and if the picture was just you....and if I were actually looking for someone, which at this point in my life I am not.

Thanks for your compliment though. Good luck with your search.


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Sender: Smile__38
To: slidein2meplz
Date: Jan 28, 2006 3:58 PM MST

Hi,
Love your profile...You sound like a chalange...
I dont realy think we are a match but I just had to say hi. Grate profile.

Jon

P.S.
Looking forward to hearing from you!

Smile
Jon



~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


caressmewell 61F

1/28/2006 7:57 pm

I'd rather see a pic of the person by themself.
I like to see all the questions answered.


Cowboy_Deluxe 45M

1/28/2006 8:33 pm

I don't read much into profiles, as far as they go, they can put what ever they want on there..it's theirs. I definetly say though no matter what you do be honest, nobody wants a flake.
Another reason why nobody has to lie to kick it.
Cowboy.


slidein2meplz 69F
1993 posts
1/28/2006 11:14 pm

Looks so far to be 6 for sure out of 7 (including myself) prefer... a pic of only the 1 person and questions answered.

saintlianna ~~ yes
shyvixen1962 ~~ yes
caressmewell ~~ yes
candy69sosweet ~~ yes

Cowboy_Deluxe ~~ Doesn't matter ~~Neutral~~
oldman1776 ~~ yes

Thank you all for your opinions. Oh..and guess what...he sent me a pic...of just himself...and wasn't mad at me for my somewhat rejection. Actually...that's still sorta pending...since I replied back asking him to answer. So we shall see'eh?

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


DTduzDallas 57F

1/29/2006 10:28 am

Honestly, lol, I don't read profiles except those of bloggers I know, so this info doesn't really matter to me, although I do like the "additonal" questions if the answers are humorous.


tillerbabe 63F

1/29/2006 11:31 pm

I don't mess with "married" or "attached" men and if they're single with a pic with someone else...yeah, don't like it. (I really hate when they're "posed" with someone that they are or were at one time obviously attached to and the "smudge" the face of the other person)...so disrespectful! AND lazy; since if you have the "tools" to "smudge".. you have the tools to "Crop"..LOL!

As far as vagueness in the profile, too vague is a turn-off too much info seems arrogant...I like to make discoveries!


slidein2meplz 69F
1993 posts
1/30/2006 12:10 am

Looks so far to be 8 for sure out of 10 (including myself)
prefer... a pic of only the 1 person and questions answered.

Bct2Esi ~~ yes

DTduzDallas ~~ Neutral

docdirk ~~ yes

TexanTiT4u ~~ Yes, I saw that he mentioned that...and he replied back to me after I sent my first reply and sent me a picture of just himself...but he failed to answer whether he was married or not. So, I'm waiting to see what the answer to that is...before I will encourgage any sort of follow up conversations. But thanks for noticing that.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


kyplowboy22 69M

1/30/2006 3:09 pm

okay


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
1/30/2006 5:51 pm

no preference really as i do not browse profiles much. If i had to choose, gimme by themselves every time.


slidein2meplz 69F
1993 posts
1/30/2006 9:48 pm

Looks so far to be 10 for sure out of 13 (including myself)
prefer... a pic of only the 1 person and questions answered.

singing4you ~~ So, I take that as a yes. I agree they should all be filled out because those issues to some people are just as if not more important.

kyplowboy22 ~~ Not sure if this is ok..yes...or ok..no. LOL.

keithcancook ~~ yes on the picture deal.

Thanks everyone...

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


FeistySyn 59F

1/31/2006 2:43 pm

I prefer it be "him" only, not being bi, I generally will not even read the profile or blog of a guy who had pics of him with (ok, bluntly - fucking) another woman on his profile or his blog is littered with "hot chick pics" ... blech, what a turnoff.... and in my book, Prefer Not to Say is the same as saying Guilty As Hell.

Apparently the depth of depravity here is bottomless... don't you feel right at home?
~~~~~


slidein2meplz 69F
1993 posts
2/2/2006 9:20 am

Feisty ~~ I agree, it is a turn off to see others in the pic...and also those unanswered choices..especially the marital status to me says they most likely are married or attached.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


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