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The Ex
The Ex My gets off the bus every day at my Ex-husband's house, which means, every day I have see him when I pick her up after work. Most of the time it's not a big deal. He's an asshole, I'm a bitch, we discuss anything that needs be discussed in regard holidays, birthdays, and weekend plans. Then she and I are on our way. I know it seems like a bad situation, but for her, it's ideal. She gets see her dad every day. Then there are days like today.... He'd had a few beers by the time I got there to pick her up. She was sitting at the counter and he was teasing her about being skinny, telling her she wouldn't be cold if she put a little 'meat on her bones'. She replied back, stating she couldn't help it that she had a metabolism. His response? "You should have seen your mom when she was your age. She was JUST like you. Now at her." What an asshole, I wanted punch him in the nose. "Thanks for calling me fat. That was fantastic." "You will always beautiful me." Ok..... That was unexpected. He then told me how he was craving little debbie snacks the night before and decided to make brownies. He cut a piece of brownie and held it me asking if I wanted try it. "You JUST called me fat and now your feeding me brownies." What the heck is going on here?!? I ate the brownie, and dammit, the thing tasted amazing. I wanted it be terrible and dry, but it wasn't. "That's pretty good." "You'll never guess when the expiration date was. August 20." Good lord.... He ended up sending me home with the last brownie, expired or not, it still tasted good. We were on the way home when my told me that she and her dad had been having a conversation a while ago and he told her he still loved me. I was quiet for a minute, not quite sure what to say. There are parts of him that I do still love, myself. The problem is, so much of him has changed as a result of his acoholism..... And that outweighs everything. |
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thanks for sharing this one alcohol and substance abuse are permanent life issues that have to be managed good luck
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dammit! I thought this was gonna have a happy ending.
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The date could have been July!! Glad it was not harmful , I wish you luck, sometimes time will repair this but it takes a lot of work..
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A father who ridicules his daughter’s appearance is just setting her up for problems. Shame on him. Dads are to be supportive, not derivise.
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One should always work acts relationship even after its broken down to see if it could be mended. So he lied about making the brownies? Otherwise they wouldn't have an expiry date.
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12/19/2019 9:42 pm |
BEST regards
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12/19/2019 9:30 pm |
One should always work acts relationship even after its broken down to see if it could be mended. So he lied about making the brownies? Otherwise they wouldn't have an expiry date.
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THAT, is true. There is NO, 'erase button' , that does a complete job. If there was... I understand. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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A father who ridicules his daughter’s appearance is just setting her up for problems. Shame on him. Dads are to be supportive, not derivise.
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The date could have been July!! Glad it was not harmful , I wish you luck, sometimes time will repair this but it takes a lot of work.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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thanks for sharing this one alcohol and substance abuse are permanent life issues that have to be managed good luck To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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12/19/2019 5:53 pm |
dammit! I thought this was gonna have a happy ending.
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Wow... Yep. I can relate to so many layers of this little slice. It does, outweigh everything, doesn't it? 🤔 IF... is a big word. How big is it... for you?
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Wow... Yep. I can relate to so many layers of this little slice. It does, outweigh everything, doesn't it? 🤔 IF... is a big word. How big is it... for you? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Expiration Date August 2015!
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