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Just call me Cautious Carol
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Just call me Cautious Carol I’ve been thinking about how to better navigate this site safely. So I’ve poured through a lot of blogs and I realized something. I’ve viewed this site in an immature fashion. I just wanted a fuck. It was Dick R Us for me and while there is nothing wrong with sex, it’s treating people like objects that’s not right. So now I’m actively working on not just focusing on just a fuck and focus now on the person. While I do try to treat everyone in a respectful manner, I can try harder. Of course I’ve had great fun on here, through the blogs and with most people I’ve meet on here. One bad apple won’t spoil the bunch. Though my screening process has got to change. I screen violent guys, but don’t screen for stupidity. Which can be just as dangerous as a violent guy. Through some of the blogs, I’ve gain tips on how to avoid this so bad apples don’t slip though. I won’t tolerate abuse, stupidity and any overall disrespect and violation of my person. |
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Nerdy its a game of give and take my mama said you can't hurry love  that song is before your time but the principle still applies , but damn she was hot back in her time the queen of soul music Diana Ross . Rumor has it she kept her singing voice for so long cause she sucked the Devils dick daily but like I say that could have been just a rumor
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So glad to see you back. Missed seeing your blogs. Hope you are well and start to blog again soon. It does take time to realize what you really want from the site and others. It's taken me some time and I have realized I am really on here just to blog right now and maybe meet someone in the future. There is so much more than just the hook up side of it. Take care!   Rachel Mae
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I wouldn't blame any woman for treating men like objects here, with their own personal filters applied, for two reasons: First, that's how a large percentage of men approach this place, and approach you, and second, men outnumber women by some wide margin. I don't know that margin, but I wouldn't be surprised by anything from ten to one to 200 to 1 or more. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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Good to see you back. As long as you were up front about you were after there is nothing wrong with it. That is being side I understand what you are saying and good luck! This is a Copy of My Profile Want to know even more about me? Read my Introduction Post. Feel free to drop me a line here: Give me All the Messages. Don't worry it is private! Check out all my rambles here, BlackRayne74!!   Desire becomes surrender, surrender becomes power. -Joker
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So very good to have you back and I love your new perspective. (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Great blog hun and we must always use the screening process with this place.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Nerdy its a game of give and take my mama said you can't hurry love that song is before your time but the principle still applies , but damn she was hot back in her time the queen of soul music Diana Ross . Rumor has it she kept her singing voice for so long cause she sucked the Devils dick daily but like I say that could have been just a rumor  Luckily I'm not looking for love. But I do agree with the first part. I have heard that sucking dick can help your vocal range. 
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So glad to see you back. Missed seeing your blogs. Hope you are well and start to blog again soon. It does take time to realize what you really want from the site and others. It's taken me some time and I have realized I am really on here just to blog right now and maybe meet someone in the future. There is so much more than just the hook up side of it. Take care! Thanks. I hope all is well with you. Honestly, I love the blogs on here. This community is so embracing. You guys are the main reason, I decided not to leave the site. The bloggers, the commentators and the watchers help to make this site worthwhile.
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I wouldn't blame any woman for treating men like objects here, with their own personal filters applied, for two reasons: First, that's how a large percentage of men approach this place, and approach you, and second, men outnumber women by some wide margin. I don't know that margin, but I wouldn't be surprised by anything from ten to one to 200 to 1 or more.
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Good to see you back. As long as you were up front about you were after there is nothing wrong with it. That is being side I understand what you are saying and good luck!
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Welcome back young lady
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So very good to have you back and I love your new perspective.
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The need to always move forward, won't let me stop. Though I had to pause to grieve a loss and to learn from an action I regret, it did give me time to gain this new perspective. Your advice about balance really helped me and I'm grateful for it.
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Thanks. I've been drilling those words into my mind for weeks now, trying to get it to take root that stupidity can be dangerous.
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Great blog hun and we must always use the screening process with this place..
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Hooray your back,,I was being to wonder if you would return.
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12/7/2016 5:13 pm |
It's good to see you....welcome back!!! "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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12/7/2016 9:32 pm |
LOL.. don t you just hate it when you realize you have to grow up and act mature. i'm 63 and just 4 yrs ago i came to the same realization.... LOL what a surprise to see you back on my watch list. welcome back. face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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Good to have you back.
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It's good to see you....welcome back!!!
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Hooray your back,,I was being to wonder if you would return.
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LOL.. don t you just hate it when you realize you have to grow up and act mature. i'm 63 and just 4 yrs ago i came to the same realization.... LOL what a surprise to see you back on my watch list. welcome back. Thanks
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Good to have you back.
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 ...you're back On a separate note, I will however counter your statement about bad apples, as I've learned one can very easily spoil the whole bunch -- at least if the bad one isn't quickly isolated and/or thrown far, far away  Oh yeah, and if you're going by Cautious Carol can I be Paranoid Pete?  ......mostly because I can't say that I'm interested in being a Dick R Us products - for anyone -- despite the social acceptance and (I'd say) expectation that guys should want to be a dildo for whoever is wanting to use him as such.  (call me crazy, but I think it'd be a lot more fun to snuggle up with someone where there's mutual respect for each other as human beings)
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Yea for your positive return! GG. Don't let 'em grind ya down.
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