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Anal would ya?
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Anal would ya? |
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4/13/2006 12:45 pm |
i bet 90% of the answers are hell no. cant wait to see the results ~sexy~
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LOL sure it counts.!! anything foreign going in that direction would have to count. It does make me wonder tho, just how you would view, not just a butt plug, but a lady with a dildo, working you over. My question now to you would be, Does that count and would you still do it. Lady
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Waiting for the results also. I can't say how many I asked that said their ass was totally off limits but they wanted to drill any ass they could get. A double standard for sure. hehehehe
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Ok I voted here, butt (no pun intended; yea right lol) I do have something to add to my vote here and to the Q. I believe Rdy might remember over a year ago I asked for a little advice on Anal Sex in the Advice Lines. So here is a little update on that. Now, I have never totally experienced anal sex nor am I really curious about it or ever want anything going into my anal canal either; however, my girlfriend is curious about it (she being penetrated that is) and we have discussed it and we both agreed to give it a try (hey I want to please my g/f both mentally and sexually) and a few times we have tried and stopped. Why; because she showed signs of it being painful for her. I am the only man she has ever fully trusted in having sex with (and the same goes in reverse for me with her) and is why we even went that far or her letting me know of her curiosity with being anally penetrated. How far did she and I get? About 1" of my penis with lubrication and all (her being relaxed) inserted. Now I do not know if that can be considered as having anal sex or not, and is not important, and yes she (my g/f) wants to continue trying; thus, the decision we made together is all of her decision on how far we go with it, and if she say she does not want to try any further, then I will not push her either. Bottom line is, it is her body, not mine; furthermore, this is one of the major problems with some or many men in general and some women too when it comes to certain sexual positions or sexual acts, they don't take in consideration of the other persons having rights over their body or decision of what is off limits to them. My point and opinion being this: Even with all the research and suggestions, etc... about how to have anal sex both her and I have done prior together, I personally come to a conclusion that the human anus m/f was not designed to being penetrated and especially when you have to manipulated around the curves in the anal canal and use loads of lubrication that are not produced by that part of the body. A womans vagina is designed to accept a mans penis, it is designed to produce a lubrication naturally in order to accept a mans penis, a man does not have to manipulate the direction or course of his penis to a womans vaginal walls; furthermore, a woman's vagina is designed to conform to a mans penis to accommodate it, be it that the man is small or has an above average size; that is the human anatomy (also can apply to all creatures on the planet). Point being, the anus (anal canal) is not designed the same as a woman's vagina, and was not designed to accept a penis inside it (same applies to a mans anal canal). Don't get me wrong or think I am saying others should be against, having or trying anal if it is of mutual agreement between sexual partners, and not forced on another. For myself and my conclusion in concerns to anal sex is based upon the research and experience me and my g/f have had with it. It takes quite a bit of time and patients before a human anus will accept being penetrated sexually for the first time; whereas, a woman's vagina (a virgin) does not take even 1/1000th of the time before it is willing to accept being penetrated fully (consensual sex). "TCO" Apology to Lady, for being "Controversial" in her Blog posting here. Your1-Nick
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NICK YOU ARE CORRECT!! You are not being controversial, you are being logical and correct. Like you, I am *NOT* passing judgement on people that like doing anal, however it is a very dangerous thing to do, even if you have done it before. Infections from having feces in the tip of a penis, infections from people that go from anus to vagina and feces being inserted there, anal walls are thin and have NO peristeum wall!! so they can rip and do very often, etc... The anus WAS NOT meant for penetration at all!! I have yet to find a single doctor that even with all the lube and time etc...that actually *recommends* anal sex. I have found far more that say more if you have to nothing I can say will change your mind. However I have found more than not that have seen the damage and had people wearing butt plugs or depends for the rest of their lives because of damage caused by anal sex. Again...like Nick, I am NOT condemning anyone here nor trying to spark a conversation for defending your doing it. I am just making some facts that back what he is saying. Enjoy doing whatever the TWO of you feel you wish to do!!!
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I've tried it with a dildo. It's... okay. The world didn't end or anything, it wasn't unpleasant, but I didn't go wild for it either. On other occaisions someone's slipped a little finger in there and that's much better. Mind you I'm not desparately into giving fully penetrative anal sex either; if they like it I'll use a finger on a woman to heighten her arousal but when I've put my penis in there I've found it definately overrated, from my point of view. Rdy is right about the health implications btw - you should NEVER go anus to vagina without changing the condom, that goes for fingers/toys too, you have to be super-gentle, and if you're doing it more than once in a while that's way too much. An ex-girlfriend worked in a nursing home and she had some disturbing stories about gays who had indulged in too much anal sex in their younger days.
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NO need to apologize Nick. Perhaps, if some men were educated with the information that you and Rdy, have shared, they may begin to realize that anal isn't all its "cracked" up to be lol. I know some women, and men absolutely love it, think its better than bubble gum, but the majority of both genders, I don't believe are really into it that much. I think its just a matter of sticking it where you know it isn't suppose to go, the "naughty" factor. Lady
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4/25/2006 4:49 pm |
i have met men who LOVE anal penetration by women.. several in fact, hell, even lots... not bi, heterosexual men who love prostate stimulation.maybe not a dildo though
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HOW MANY MEN ARE WILLING TO HAVE ANAL SEX PERFORMED ON THEM, I.E. DILDO ETC. I would bend over and go for it, with the understanding ... I would have to trust that the woman would stop if I experienced any pain or said "STOP!", as I would do for her. If the lady wanted anal, and I didn't have a prophylactic, we'd have to postpone it. 'No glove, no shove'. For the reasons given above, I've practiced this policy for many years. BTW, it's been many years since a woman has asked me for anal. Peace and Love, Turq 
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12/14/2006 9:35 am |
The thing is the anus supposedly has a lot of nerve endings and it might be pleasureable to have a dildo stuck up a man's ass, but I ain't gonna do it. I mean that's too perverted and what women would want to do it? I've had a couple women who wanted it up the ass and I did it for a while. But it is an exit. It has a lot of germs in there and it is probably where the aids virus is located. If you're going to do the anus you better use a condom.
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12/14/2006 9:38 am |
Just the idea of a man with a dildo up his butt just doesn't seem to be very manly.
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