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Is it possible?  

Razzie64 60F
157 posts
10/22/2017 3:14 pm
Is it possible?


Can a man...or a woman...stay faithful in a committed relationship? If not, why?

franki2806 56M
59 posts
10/22/2017 11:28 pm

its up 2 the woman 2 make a her man be faithful 2 her with her smartness

hello sexy friends


litlaz 71M  
27 posts
10/23/2017 5:37 am

Oh that ought to stir up the 'whose fault is it' pot. "I strayed because 'she' couldn't give me enough.......(fill in the blank)"

Good lord. The only person we can 'make' do anything is yourself. You chose your actions on a daily basis and the results, good or bad, are yours to own. so own it.

Being unable to accept accountability for one's own actions and decisions ranks right up there with 'she deserves to be abused because she tempted me with her scanty attire'. total BS.


Razzie64 60F
7 posts
10/24/2017 1:01 am

everyone has the right to their opinion...
there's no right or wrong answer...


madeamark 70M

10/24/2017 8:46 am

Yes but it is a difficult proposition. I cannot really speak to remaining faithful because I never was. Always had a wandering eye!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/24/2017 2:38 pm

That is up to the people in the relationship and how committed each is to remaining faithful.

The hard part is recognizing that people change and some grow apart.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Loveable_Mature 73M
54 posts
10/24/2017 10:46 pm

"no right or wrong answer" is the CORRECT answer!

I inherited the "wandering" gene from my father. Since it's a hereditary/biological trait, it's ME - and it ain't gonna change.


2xtreme297 41M
32 posts
10/24/2017 11:21 pm

too many temptations


xDude456 62M
31391 posts
10/27/2017 10:11 am

Both have to want to stay in, and it has to be a relatively equal commitment or desire by both to stay together


Razzie64 60F
7 posts
10/29/2017 10:34 pm

i am...ty


silversuar3z 31M
72 posts
11/21/2017 5:50 pm

con migo existe la lealtad mas no fidelidad..!!


guynextdoor43223 59M
4 posts
11/29/2017 4:18 pm

Yes, If the couple becomes best friends, have compatible interests and drive and always make time for dates, naughty and vanilla


dannyd655 59M
36 posts
12/24/2017 4:55 pm

Not from my experience.


Devilish462 49M
35 posts
1/13/2018 8:45 am

Monogamous relationships can be achieved and maintained. That being said, it is against nature, and requires a strong conviction to do so. All relationships, regardless of the nature of what is shared that defines them, only exist as long as a status quo is maintained. The human being is invariably separated from others by individual perspective, regardless of an over all instinct to share, or what parallels can be drawn in perspectives. Hence, we get the quips like " opposites attract, yet birds of a feather, stay together" Opposites offer growth in individuals in a sharing, by introducing different perspectives, yet, similar perspectives offer a sense of commonality which equates typically, to contentment.


mattnyou 51M  
2 posts
1/14/2018 12:02 pm

yes they can if there happy


StreamofCream 60M

4/1/2018 9:44 pm

To answer your question: Yes! My parents were married for 46 years and separated 30 years in, and it stayed that way till Dad passed away. They Loved each other: they just couldn't stand living with each other!

Another way of looking at it is this: commitment is a action word. The act of committing is based on the decision of forsaking all others to maintain a relationship with one person (assuming it is a monogamous relationship). It is like the decision to quit smoking, you may always be tempted to pick-up, but it is your decision not to.

A person can find 50,000 people in the world that would make a perfect match for themselves, but those who "decide" to take a partner for life are the only ones that can make that commitment.

Then there are those (like me) who can't decide and find themselves on this "fucking" site.

What do I want? You may ask...to get laid tonight and every night for the rest of my life!!! If that means making a commitment, then I'll do it!!

Where are you?


JimmysRocken 61M
6 posts
7/10/2018 6:03 am

I think so if there into each other and the sex is great, its a very emotional thing and I have a hard time not getting into it when its a sex marathon you get a great feeling between the 2 people I had this once unfortunatly she has passed on and have been looking for this love and it just hasnt happened people tell me stop looking and it will happen . Maybe it will ?


Needhungnowpleas 56M

6/23/2021 3:42 am

Absolutely when your in love and you connect as one in everything you do especially sex it takes your experience to another level the grass is never greener next door they just have a higher water bill. Yes being in a monagamiss relationship and in love plus mature enough to know how to handle someone else heart in your hands. It’s a blessing.


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