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Say...what? So, Mr. I-don't-believe-in-evolution sent me a message after the fact, "So does this mean no more good sex???" Wait...what? The guy...okay...he did feel pretty good...but I'd been telling him I needed sex to go a lot longer before I'd feel satisfied...and he just kept cumming way too soon...maybe it's plenty for some people...but NOT FOR ME! Not only that, he really didn't put in much effort to make sure i came...which meant I didn't. I figured it was good enough that I could work with it...but it was by NO MEANS "good" sex. it was okay sex that could possibly get better with MORE EFFORT on his part. What exactly did he think was in it for me to continue the sexual aspect of our relationship if the rest wasn't working out?   MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=} |
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Guys fail to realize that MEN can ejaculate almost instantly, but for women to reach an orgasm it takes LONGER THAN THAT!! Women and men's bodies are NOT the same and guys have to stop thinking that because they ejaculated a woman is satisfied. That was maybe the thinking in the early 1600's, but it isn't now. NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THIS - BUT TOO MANY ARE!!! I have heard and seen enough posts on "OHHH I can rock your world" and it is really they rock their world and got what they wanted and to hell with us.
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You deserve a man who can satisfy you, whatever your needs may be. If he can't last long enough then he should make endurance a priority. Let him find his "good sex" with somebody else. You need great sex. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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in that case he needs to become more creative.. and maybe you can even suggest things that really turns you on, coax him into pleasuring you instead of just pleasuring himself.. he probably did it that way before and it was good for an ex partner that he may have had. Many of us men fail to realise that what works for one woman may not work for another because y'all respond differently. so I think it's just a matter of getting him to pay attention to you rather than pay attention to himself alone..So I think you should work with him since you said he has potential and coax him into being the lover you believe that he could be..All the best because sex is such a beautiful thing when both parties are connected..
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what? women can cum from sex with a man? when the hell did this happen? when did a woman let a man touch her naked without a burning bed of coals to cross? LOL just being sarcastic. half of all men are in the bottom half and the top half also has a bottom half which is not so great .the odds are not great that after all the filtering and subjective decision making you will find a gem . you will never find a ruby in a mountain of rocks ,and there ain't no coupe deville in the bottom of a crackerjack box . to catch big fish cast a wide net .
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You deserve a man who can satisfy you, whatever your needs may be. If he can't last long enough then he should make endurance a priority. Let him find his "good sex" with somebody else. You need great sex. I agree with Prof playful, that there is nothing to be gained with this guy, and that it's a mistake to settle for less than you deserve or want. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Part of the fun for me is making sure my partner has fun too. That's one of the reasons I love giving oral; just about every woman I've been able to do it with has enjoyed it a lot. I don't usually want to stop once she comes, I want to keep going until she doesn't want any more oral, and wants my cock inside. At that point, it's possible that she might come again from penetration, but it's OK if she doesn't, because she's already had her share; an orgasm while I'm inside is a bonus rather than her only chance. So, even if I happen to be a minuteman by that point, it's not a problem. But when oral is off the menu (as happens certain times of the month), self-control is a good thing. Unless my wife tells me, "Just for you this time," I can hold back until she's had her turn. That's just the right way to do things, for her pleasure, for my satisfaction at pleasing her, and for the benefit of being welcomed back for more later. It puzzles me that some guys don't think that way, even if only for the possibility of more later. Rather than a digression above about other reasons I love giving oral, here's more. In addition to enjoying how it almost always works for a partner, I like how it allows me to concentrate on my partner's pleasure, rather than dividing attention between mine and hers. I like the physical sensations I feel: the touch, the scent, the close-up look, the taste (sometimes), and the sounds. I like the way a well-pleased partner is more likely to be a partner who wants more later. And I like how a well-licked woman feels when I have the privilege of the sex act that typically follows oral.
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First of all--introducing Softcups...your woman needs these things RIGHT NOW for period sex. I will suggest the idea, or maybe just buy it for her for a random no-occasion gift occasion. I know that there are plenty of ways to please a woman besides oral. For my wife, there are certain p-in-v moves that really work for her. Breast play works for a lot of women, but only occasionally for my wife. Various foreplay moves are good for getting her into the mood (not that it takes much), but they're much more for stimulating the mood than for getting further into the action. With a different partner, I'd have to learn new moves, or maybe just a new mix of old moves. But I know pretty well what works for her -- and I enjoy all of it. I haven't had erection problems; at worst it's been slow to start but fine once started. But I know plenty of things to do if that happens. It would be interesting to try some really long sessions now and then. Usually my wife reaches a point where further stimulation starts to feel like tickle torture (not exactly, but some sort of too much of a good thing), so when that happens she needs a break or a switch to something else. But there's only so much time in a day, and we have to allow a certain amount for things like food and sleep.
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