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Do You Give?  

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
15138 posts
9/21/2018 1:47 pm
Do You Give?


I don't know about what is going on in your part of the world... but in Elizabethtown Kentucky... we have a lot of people who stand on the street corners with signs begging for money.... If I feel that someone is genuine and in desperate need of help.. I have been known to give a few dollars to them....

DO YOU GIVE TO PAN HANDLER???????

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scott6250 61M

9/21/2018 1:50 pm

I'll give on occasion. It just depends on the situation.

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/21/2018 1:51 pm

    Quoting scott6250:
    I'll give on occasion. It just depends on the situation.


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Story435 76M
3791 posts
9/21/2018 1:52 pm

Not much that I do that seen to many around here at different places the same person doing the same thing. Wonder how they get from one place to another so quick!
Classy Cat


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
9/21/2018 1:53 pm

In Montreal , there are many of them as well. They sometimes catch me at a red light. If I have spare change, then I might give it to them. But there are also scammers (in this city), who supposedly can make more than $40,000 pretending to be poor when they are not. I'll eyeball them and decide.


tmacshane26 39M
2092 posts
9/21/2018 1:57 pm

It depends on the situation. I will give a couple of dollars but you have to be careful most of them will either buy alcohol or drugs with the money people give them.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/21/2018 2:00 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Not much that I do that seen to many around here at different places the same person doing the same thing. Wonder how they get from one place to another so quick!
    Classy Cat


THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/21/2018 2:00 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    In Montreal , there are many of them as well. They sometimes catch me at a red light. If I have spare change, then I might give it to them. But there are also scammers (in this city), who supposedly can make more than $40,000 pretending to be poor when they are not. I'll eyeball them and decide.


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coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
9/21/2018 2:00 pm

Is the money you donate going to food and clothing or is it paying for alcohol or drugs. Give to a shelter, that way you KNOW what it will be used for

Be safe, relax and just have fun!


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
9/21/2018 2:00 pm

    Quoting tmacshane26:
    It depends on the situation. I will give a couple of dollars but you have to be careful most of them will either buy alcohol or drugs with the money people give them.


THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
9/21/2018 2:03 pm

NO!

Who knows what their real story i, and where the money would go. So much better to give to a reputable agency.

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Lovetolick0808 58M

9/21/2018 2:08 pm

I have as well. You don't know their situation just by their looks


Luv2bottom4u2 67M  
1875 posts
9/21/2018 2:11 pm

I give zero to the beggar's ! Never promote bad behavior !

Up here a lot of them are lazy people that don't want to work


_IKanCu2_ 105M

9/21/2018 2:26 pm

][ do when they feel right.
Not hard to tell the parasite*z, ][ntution ring*z like a BeLL !
Most often ][ bring them with to a store and get them something to eat, drink, and some spare change.
There has been occasion that ][ have given them all (\/)y change.


JuBee513 66M

9/21/2018 2:43 pm

If it's convenient I usually do. Mostly they're intersections here so if I have to stop next to one I'll give them some money. I don't much care what they're using it for.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
9/21/2018 3:08 pm

Seemingly one excuse to not give to beggars on the street is "Sorry, I've no change on me".

So to combat this, some beggars have their own contactless debit card terminal where you can just tap and go.

Baffies

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Freeonereturns 63F

9/21/2018 3:17 pm

I have but nolonger. I found it funny who the same people stand at the same spot month after month. Maybe the grass isn't greener on the other side but if I'm surrounded by weeds I'm going to give it a chance.

A report here locally claim they earn 180-220 a day, being tax free that's a middle class job. Not bad if you can get past the stink


luvgluv19 75M

9/21/2018 3:33 pm

They can actually make a descent living on the begging routine and do very well in the larger cities by changing locations. I give to actual charities or to my personal friends who are on their butts


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/21/2018 4:17 pm

I give everytime. And I don't care if they spend it on booze. If I was living under a bridge, I'd want to get as drunk as possible too.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


PlzMePlzUMuch69 56M
4 posts
9/21/2018 4:33 pm

I find it interesting POSSE CAT of KY, that My Model, Actress, cute GEMINI daughter (lives in MALIBU) and YOU, dear Candy, are BOTH June 4th D.O.B.'s?!!!

She's "got a LOT of Smarts"...2 movies/minor roles, & a LOT of work on STAGE & also BEHIND THE CAMERA. (While my dau, Tam, is 20 yrs. younger than you, U look fantastic & y'all have SIMILAR GEMINI STYLES, let's say?

Check TAM out as the GOTH CHICK (in all black...Black Wig, etc) in the CLASSROOM who raises her hand in this THREE DOORS DOWN video...It's called LOSER & in 4 minutes MS. Band "3 Doors Down" discusses the FEELINGS that some of us had in HIGH SCHOOL, Savvy?

Take 4 mins. & watch ur fellow GEMINI? XXX Danny Irish (DFW)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Ui_Q4qBDJY (TAMARA in BLACK)


qvillebiman 66M  
373 posts
9/21/2018 4:39 pm

I will offer them a days work for a fair wage. If they do not accept then it's there loss


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
9/21/2018 4:41 pm

It is happening everywhere I have been in the last 15 years, and getting worse. I WILL stop & give $$ to women, they are very rare on the streets and usually are not scammers, and shelters for women are few & far between. Men, no longer, despite the fact that 5 years ago I was homeless myself & on the streets. There are places almost everywhere for men, tho men with disabilities dont have much choice. But beware, some men that appear disabled and are panhandling are not disabled at all and are just more sophisticated scammers.


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
9/21/2018 4:54 pm

occasionally I will give something but seems as if someone is on every corner and every corner of every big store parking lot.


Michaelmjblucas1 54M

9/21/2018 5:42 pm

I give often to those that have less than I do. I try not to judge others. I wrote a blog about something similar, a while ago, about something I've seen another do, if anyone would like to read it. Thanks Cuddly, for bringing this topic into discussion.

Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!


Horny_Cat68 55M  
582 posts
9/21/2018 6:44 pm

I usually give to reputable charities, but have given small amounts to panhandlers that I feel are actually in need, a lot are phony though, they panhandle at different locations, then when they move on they walk a little way and jump into a nicer car than you have.

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hotguitar61 63M
5 posts
9/28/2018 11:45 am

i would give my shirt off my back and all the money i had to help another....we should never judge others... If we needed help I would pray someone would have the decency to help me...


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