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WHO SHOULD PAY?
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I said each pay for yourself. I don't mind paying for both of us. Sometimes if you offer to pay for both meals then the lady will get mad and say I don't need you to pay for my meal. I have my own money and I don't want you to pay for my meal.
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9/5/2018 5:22 pm |
If you invite you should expect to pay, now this is different than two people meeting at an agreed place, but to me it is a less about gender and more about being polite. Would you as a woman invite a man who you know nearly nothing about to escort you to an event that you know that you couldn't afford but wanted to attend, expecting that if he is truly interested in you he will find way to honor your wishes. Then when he politely declines something that he can not afford, even though he does want to meet you. I don't know it feels self defeating Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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9/5/2018 5:35 pm |
I agree whoever asked for the date off the jump..If the man is expected to pay then the gal might see him as an easy mark and expect him to pay the expenses every time.. adults should be adults and maybe talk about it then there be no misunderstanding ...first to ask for meet and lunch should pay..
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9/5/2018 5:37 pm |
The man should pay on the first date. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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Just be a man and pay on the first date. Then see how goes from their.
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The man always.
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I was raised with manners, Guy always pays, hold door open etc Dewy"s Cooterlicking Corner
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the guy pays although now days it might be the person who did the asking..
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I always pay on dates, but that's just how I was brought up. I love the way you make me horny without even doing anything.
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the man first and if another he again, and again...be a man about it...and smile when you do.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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9/5/2018 9:23 pm |
A large percentage of women will just decide the guy is cheap if he doesn’t pay. Wish it weren’t so but it is.
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Go dutch, regardless of who invites who. If Jim invites out Jane, ....what the hell would Jim be paying for? Jane works... Jane is interested in Jim, or Jane would not have accepted his invitation.
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9/6/2018 1:33 am |
I'm old school and believe I should pay for both of us.
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I'm old school too. But if the lady INSISTS she can pay for it all - no splitting. School Dazed, on HNW Most of My Friends Would SayYoure a FAKE Scary Places [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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Perhaps I'm old fashioned this way, I still open car doors and doors for women. So, I would never consider anyone other then myself paying for any date unless she insisted strongly. Even then, it would be up for debate. *S* Bud Always Ready for Fun.
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I know it's more common to go dutch these days, but I'm old school and believe that the man should pay for at least the first date. Then I guess after the first date, the two can decide to go dutch or trade off.
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If I asked out? I will let the other person pay but I will pay for both of us if she lets me! That will be her call...
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The Boston Globe Magazine asked the same question...."Do you think men should still be paying for women on dates". 46% said "Yes" 12% said "No" 42% said "They should split it" Going on a first "intended" date...... What does that mean? It means the male wants to have sex with the female , so he invites the woman out to dinner [when really he reasonably could have just invited the woman to his bed]. Still a "Yes" or "No" response is expected from the woman. A woman being invited to dinner, because the man fears inviting the woman to his bed, is now allowed to insist he pays money for the company of the woman at his table, and not his bed. Are women who insist on men paying for food [and drink] for her, Narcissist? Women don't want to go back to a traditionalist society, so women are encouraged to succeed, and progress , but insist the men behave as before, hold him back, make him pretend he's being "Old school", isn't that making the man obsolete in todays social environment? If so, then this is no longer about "Equal opportunity" , instead, its about squashing men and elevating women.
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9/7/2018 10:12 am |
My Time, My Dime. Nuff Said. Jimmy B. My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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My Time, My Dime. Nuff Said. Jimmy B. So we'll say you have one dime. Wouldn't it be wiser to keep that dime, and find a woman who will do you without expecting that dime to be thrown away on her? Your dime? If you spend that dime, and she doesn't put out.... you have no dime. So now no power. The idea is to attract the woman with your dime.... not spend it on her.
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I'm old school, I want to pay. And I want to pay most of the time. I've been in my current relationship for a few years now and I still feel I should. On occasion Vicki will or if she comes over and stops at the store to pick something up she'll pay but I always ask if I reimburse her.
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9/8/2018 2:08 am |
It is only gentlemanly to cover ll expenses on a first date unless you make arrangements before hand.
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9/8/2018 6:35 pm |
Depends on who asks whom out.
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9/10/2018 4:38 am |
That's right. So we'll say you have one dime. Wouldn't it be wiser to keep that dime, and find a woman who will do you without expecting that dime to be thrown away on her? Your dime? If you spend that dime, and she doesn't put out.... you have no dime. So now no power. The idea is to attract the woman with your dime.... not spend it on her.  Jimmy B.My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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