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Blogs > Cimarron143 > AFF Insight of the Week

Standards On IM  

Cimarron143 56F
7 posts
7/5/2015 11:38 am

Last Read:
8/1/2015 1:12 am
Standards On IM

I am most likely preaching to the choir of delicious hedonists who are upgraded and not sure if Standards would even have access to blogs. Why would they read them anyway? LOL They are the ones that actually should be reading them to gain some brief insight well to the site and as Standard members there are Standards especially on Affairlook Instant Messenger.

We know the majority of Standards tend to be men or fake ads posing as real women/real men. I can go on about the formulaic algorithm sites use to lure us. I tend to personally avoid Standards. I don't seek them out at all because they are part of that marketing formula but they do end up bombarding me on the IM which it seems is one of the few perks as they randomly start a paging frenzy to whoever will respond.

The actual real Standards waste no time requesting pics because they can't really see you or even read your profile which I respond tactfully I have many salacious pics and vids pay the three months and cruise to your heart's content. Of course they usually have no pics themselves and not much on their profile...that is another insight for another day

Standards balk at the thought of paying but really who truly keeps the site above board, less sleazy (though that can be yummy in a certain dynamic), inclusive of all age groups, open minded, classy, kinky, overall safe and fun...US!

Us, sexy, folks, the groovy Golds! Standards, anyone can join the orgiastic party. Isn't that what we are all here for

Upcoming by request from some of my admirers who want to hear insight on the naughtier side...my topic will be about COCKS. I do love tumescent pics!

Sexies, wishing you always amazing sexventures{=}

izlongp619 53M
1 post
3/28/2022 5:13 pm

 I only have a free account. I cannot IM or see your profile. K!K me at izlongp or email me at izlongp at gmail I am very interested.


ludwig202 72M
11894 posts
2/24/2019 8:38 am

 hi

good girl


Itsmeandyou69 65M
3 posts
7/5/2015 1:01 pm

 Unfortunately, I must agree that there are VERY few real people here from my perspective. I also agree with the other poster which said that there appears to me a large amount of ways that the site entices people to either become members, go to Gold, or whatever. Tone of bullshit, but that is simply my humble opinion.


MyHeartLost4U 59M
2487 posts
7/5/2015 12:43 pm

 Personally I find your posting and attitude towards the "standard" members as being quite insulting. Especially since 3/4 or more of the female members on this site do not even pay for their little Gold ball memberships; since they pimped their own selves out to obtaining it by signing up on the "Icebreaker" program.

I been a member on this site since 1996 (under a different profile handle) and since 1999 with this profile handle alone on all levels of membership (Standard, Silver, Gold, VIP) ; in addition, I personally have contributed to this site in more ways than you could ever imagine within those years From being interviewed by WSJ online, to the programming development and debugging of this site, to even being in private external contact with the CEO\Owner Andrew Conru and his development team years ago, and yes, I can back it up.

So before you start thinking or believing that you and other members with their little Gold membership are so much more better than the standard members on this site, you need to understand that the enhancements of features and tools that you and every other member use on this site came by way of Standard members contributions of ideas, opinions and suggestions for the most part; and not so much by the premium Paid members. That's indisputable fact.


Cimarron143 replies on 8/1/2015 1:39 am:
Dear MyHeartLost4U

I appreciated your insight and responded to you and KTMnDu in kind
I have had to pay for my membership and have also been on Affairlook for many years now as well. I do feel that as women it does make a difference between responding to a Gold Member vs a Standard if anything because it seems the gentlemen/ladies are more serious about meeting. My intent was not to be elitist, though I do feel as Gold we do have more access to be able to make those contributions you mentioned where Standards have very limited access. As you know, most of the women on here have fake profiles and/or are pay for play though have seen less of them. I have had those 'ladies' respond to my own profile, lol. I suppose like anything else in life it is what you put into it and how you want to be perceived. Despite it's long standing issues, I have met real and wonderful people on the site and it has been successful for me even now as I approach old lady status. It seems for all you contributions to the site, you should have received VIP life time Gold.

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