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Why are some boys such "girls"?  

Rosmerta 58F  
3 posts
1/25/2015 11:55 am
Why are some boys such "girls"?

No offense to women, but I find it funny how many men on here throw little hissy fits or get their feelings hurt by someone being straight with them. I mean, that's usually when someone throws out the term girl as a derogatory term. As in "Don't be such a girl."

I, myself, find that there seem to be a whole lot of guys out there who are the ones being emotional and sensitive so maybe we should change it to "Don't be such a guy." LOL! Or maybe instead of genderfication, we should just say, "Toughen up!"

What brought this little topical pondering about? I got an email from someone who said, "You can say something." I guess I viewed their profile although honestly, I don't remember viewing them. I didn't write them because there were obvious disconnects in our compatibility. Apparently it offended them that I didn't write after viewing their profile. I'm surprised at how many times I get that kind of response from men and they have said that if I'm not interested, I shouldn't look. WTF?!?! First of all, until I look at your profile, I don't know that you're a smoker or married or a drug user or live 14,000 miles away. But even if you are one or all of those things that would make me not want to explore anything further with you, I might just like admiring your pics.

If you don't want people viewing you, don't post pics. If you have pics and post them, don't<b> whine </font></b>when people want to look at them. I mean seriously, how can you get your feelings all hurt over someone obviously enjoying looking at you. I don't even check to see who's viewed me unless I'm really bored and want to re-set the counter just to see how many are looking.

So, if someone keeps viewing you, don't get your feelings hurt that they're not writing or flirting. Get over yourself! Be flattered. Or maybe send a flirt or something to see if they might just be shy and hoping you'll make the first move. If they don't write/flirt/hotlist/whatever, there's probably a reason why. Nothing personal against you, but we all have our likes. And wouldn't you rather get with someone who likes what you have to offer instead of trying to force it when you don't?

Hydenout 42M
1 post
1/25/2015 12:15 pm
Well stated!!!


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
5/26/2015 9:37 pm

 You are so very spot on


JoePleaser69 73M

3/25/2016 9:51 am

 And don;t get upset with an automatic message response.


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