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Not for me. I have to enjoy the person and the sex or things go soft and no one has any fun..
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6/1/2020 10:08 am |
Hi sexy Train
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YES, some (even mediocre) is better than none. If that wasn't the case, most of us would not masturbate. I think it has to do with skin-on-skin maybe. Credit Card Meltdown GUYS Thanks to Me You Too Can Measure Up Pampering, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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No, because as McGranny says, it's a bit ay a waste ay precious time! ps - simply not good enough McBiggles, you are so gettin' a skelpin'!! pps - and a few snogs x a gazillion too tae!!
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Yes. I've had some serious long bouts of singledom and celibacy, so sex, mediocre rather than bad, will be better. Mediocre sex doesn't automatically impy the person is poor company, or even unattractive to you, it just means that particular act wasn't sensationl, nor does it mean that it is all the fault of this partner The connection and intimacy matter as much as the sex, as does the chat, the wine, the food and being with someone. Sex isn't the be all and end all Others no doubt will have dissenting delusions
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For me no it has to be as good as you give if that makes sense. When your with that special person you both should get your desires fulfilled to the best of yourselves. Great question hun and I hope your Monday is a fantastic start to your week.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Yes. I've had some serious long bouts of singledom and celibacy, so sex, mediocre rather than bad, will be better. Mediocre sex doesn't automatically impy the person is poor company, or even unattractive to you, it just means that particular act wasn't sensationl, nor does it mean that it is all the fault of this partner The connection and intimacy matter as much as the sex, as does the chat, the wine, the food and being with someone. Sex isn't the be all and end all Others no doubt will have dissenting delusions When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Here's a definitive answer ...... Sometimes. Sometimes, I really, really like a person who isn't the best lover. Sometimes, people need to be touched by hands other than their own. Of course, since I rarely orgasm with a partner, all my sex could be considered 'mediocre' by some. We all have different definitions. I don't look at sex in a graded sense - bad, mediocre, fair, good, great - but rather how satisfied I feel overall. One of the 'worst' sexual experiences I've had included an orgasm yet left me completely unsatisfied. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Sweetheart, If you are stranded on the road and an old guy stops by and offers you a ride, you say No? Or wait till a tall , dark and handsome guy in a Mercedes stops by?? Walk or ride is the question? Waste of time, with so so sex,? Depends on who and why.. it might be the steps into that world you are looking for. At what level does it become a mediocre action/ This is for you to decide and I would think that there are a lot of variables to play in this conception of his action,.. To answer simply, my thoughts are Sex, good sex, da best sex, all have merit. Sex is Good... it is good for you, it is natural. GO FOR IT... just have a good day and be safe, good to see you back Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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What is sex? 
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No such thing as mediocre if I have anything to do with it.   Looking for Mischief
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Yeah I guess mediocre sex is better than none at all, especially if the gaps between the sessions are counted in weeks, months, or years. But I'd still take some mediocre sex, I'd still look to learn something from it and that can't be a bad thing.
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Obviously it's not optimal. But yeah, if I had the opportunity of a sex partner who I liked but the sex was mediocre - I'd take it over months of celibacy. As flowerkings, cleavagefan and BJ stated, there is value in companionship, intimacy, skin to skin touch.   
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I will answer here instead of my blog...depends on how long it’s been! Sometimes it is the jump you need to get back in the game. Other times one of you can just have an off day...they can’t all be outstanding sexual experiences. We all hope for more but sometimes just a touch is all you need or what they need. BUT I believe there always needs to be some emotion attached...be it friendship or love. Oh and a big thanks for the response on my blog
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How do you know the sex is going to be mediocre beforehand? But I'd say yes, sometimes the intimacy is more important than the act itsef.
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In the present times, mediocre sex would be greatly appreciated by me.  
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Taken in a complete vacuum, I'd say it's not better than no sex, but sex is about so much more than sex. Other significant factors come into play, that can't be ignored. Do I like spending time with this person or is her personality on par with her sexual prowess? Does she take direction and show an interest in making it an amazing experience, next time and the time after that? Is she the only woman I've wanted to have sex with in six months or are there more than one and I had sex last weekend with someone else? Sorry for over complicating everything, but you knew it would be me who did it.
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For me......the release can be satisfied with the BoB's, the connection of intimacy can make even mediocre sex morph into....making love. So....no. I will wait, as I'd rather have nothing at all....than sell my soul and settle ~~
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And let’s just say that 10 years ago, when my libido was higher and I also had more options for sex partners, my answer would have probably been a lot different.
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What is this 'Mediocre sex' you are referring to?
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You are gettin' yer arse skelped an ye ken it!  The only other thing I'd add to the discussion, having read the comments, is that in my experience the sex improves with familiarity. The more I've gotten to know the girl, and her likes and dislikes sexually, the better the sex has become. So while it may not have started off as mediocre, it has certainly improved as the relationship has progressed. And once again I find myself answering a different question. Perhaps I'm the one who'll be getting skelped! 
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I've had good dates which ended with mediocre sex. I'd give the dater a second and maybe a third chance. If nothing has improved then I'd rather go without the sex altogether. All this talk of connection, intimacy, etc. yes but what has that go to do with the sex part? If I want connection and intimacy I can get that from friends family pets, or through other channnels (the COVID times have forced us to find alternatives for connection and intimacy) it doesn't have to be sourced from our sexual partner. What I'm trying to say is you don't have to fulfill all your needs from one person. And in difficult times, self-pleasure is a better option as it never fails.
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LOL yeah. It's either hit or miss but I am often surprised what's a hit and what's a miss
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Is mediocre sex better than no sex at all? Why or why not? Sorry, forgot that part.My answer would be yes. To quote a movie Sex is like golf You may be bad at it but when you're done, you still enjoyed it
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Mediocre sex with a significant other is like pizza. It's easy. It's familiar. It's convenient. I don't necessarily want appetizers, wine, and desert every day of the week. Who can keep up with that nonsense? As boring as it may sound, there's a lot to be said for easy and familiar. On the other hand, if it was with some guy I barely know, then it wouldn't be worth the hassle for mediocre sex. Sex always comes with strings and entanglements. There's post-coital texting. "Yeah, it was great, I really enjoyed it" (No I didn't). "Of course it was big enough" (actually, it was, why are you so insecure about it?) "Umm, sure, we can do that again soon" (trust me, I'll always be conveniently busy if you take me up on that). "Ok, really, I have to go to sleep now" (seriously, what do I have to do to get you to stop texting now?) Additionally, I have to do a lot to have sex. I have to do my hair (no, I'm a black woman, I HAVE to do my hair). I have to shave. I have to find a cute outfit. I have to make sure I smell nice (like, everywhere). I have to lotion up. I'm exhausted before I've even left the house! And all for … what? The same orgasm I could have had at home without having to do all that?
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