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I'm tired of getting these type of emails from some of the black guys on this site  

babygirl24jg1978 46F  
17 posts
6/19/2015 7:12 pm
I'm tired of getting these type of emails from some of the black guys on this site

This is an email that I got from a user on this site. It has the user profile name and the message he left me. I'm tired of these type of messages.

thickdick_freak
This is a sex site that is for fun, you are grown to do whatever it is you want to do. You have every right to have your preferences and I am truly thankful we can do that without being persecuted. However, in this day and time when we should be able to freely be ourselves black people are actually being persecuted and being looked upon as lessor than in 2015. How can someone consciously exclude their on race when it comes to dating. Please recognize I didn't say just date outside of your race, but I am saying completely exclude your own race.

Do the things that are happening everyday to undermine the value of black people and not just black men, But black women, men, and even the first Black president. How does that not resonate with you when it comes to your thinking when wanting to date only outside of your race?

I am not angry and hopefully I am not coming across that way. I wish you happiness and success. I am really curious to whether or not you consider the current social climate in dating only non-black as a black woman? You do realize they just refused to marry an interracial couple in NC, not to mention what just happened in SC among the many other incidents. Does that not even come into your mind?

LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
6/19/2015 7:26 pm

 I get the same type of emails only from all the other races becauce i only date black males. So its just not the black men its all the races. As you can tell I am white woman. So I totally understand what your talking about
LadyTeddieBear


babygirl24jg1978 replies on 6/19/2015 9:25 pm:
Thanks for our comments. I do appreciate it. I kind of figured that other people get heat from their own race for dating outside their race. I'm glad you understand.

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
6/19/2015 7:39 pm

 He is obviously very insecure. Shows his weakness which is a turn off of any race.


babygirl24jg1978 replies on 6/19/2015 9:26 pm:
Thanks for our response. I agree with you.

LessaNL 50F
25 posts
6/19/2015 7:45 pm

 Well, at least the message sounds a lot more intelligent and articulate then 99% of the messages I receive....


babygirl24jg1978 replies on 6/19/2015 10:29 pm:
Thanks for your response. I had other messages much worse. I'm sorry that you receive those type of messages.

fireman6001 66M
3 posts
6/19/2015 7:57 pm

 Babygirl how did you answer that ??? We live in a world of Racism. Something that happened before any of us were ever born. It saddens me to see our country like it is know. We have good black people and good white people and we also have bad black and bad white people. I am so tired of seeing both races cut each other down !!! None of us can hold each other responsible for what the other did before we were ever born !!! I see the difference in color but I respect the person for who they are no matter what the color !! I am not a Obama fan.. not because of his color but that he as not done what he should have for our country. We are a lot worse then we were before he took office and it will take a long time to turn around. I don't see Racism ending for along time.. because people will not let it end !!! BLACK OR WHITE !!! I do not have a racist bone in my body and was raised that way... we all need to come together as 1 race and do what is right for everyone !!!!


babygirl24jg1978 replies on 6/19/2015 9:34 pm:
Thanks for your response and comments. Some of the things that you have mentioned was a few of the things that I told him. I told him that all white people are not racist or bad just like all black people are not racist or bad. I told him that every race have a small group of racist people. Those are the few things I said. I told him a lot. I told him that it makes me mad that he and some of the racist people want to continue to keep people from coming together and keep pushing people apart because of race. It isn't fair to blame a whole race because of a few ignorant people.

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
6/19/2015 8:21 pm

 Everyone has a right to their preferences.

Whether or not others like it, to bad.

Stick to your guns !!!


babygirl24jg1978 replies on 6/19/2015 9:40 pm:
Thanks for your response. And yes everyone has a right to their preference. I am going to stick to it. Thanks!!!

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/19/2015 9:09 pm

 Attempts at misguided cunning do have some entertainment value.
His intelectual approach had some merit but fell flat after he said,
"This is a sex site".
Using more than all the road!


babygirl24jg1978 replies on 6/19/2015 9:43 pm:
Thank you for your comments. I agree with you.

Ringlos 57M
Ask me for a photo
456 posts
2/8/2016 11:27 am

 If you follow the argumentation, you have two options.

Solidarity or political correct equality.
On the solidarity angle you should have sex only with women of yor ethnic and social background.
On the equality angle: If you have sex at all you have to give every member of every ethnic, religious or philosophical group some, so that nobody can claim to be left out.

That is following his logic, following the underlying pleading it is simply: "Please, even if you do not want me find a reason to have sex with me anyway!"

I do not think that a political rant may help him. To my experience charm, wit and humor are much better tools to bring a change of mind. And to be an exception whing does not help, being exceptional might!


galvsailor61 62M
291 posts
2/25/2017 3:19 am

 No worries, hon.....Keep your own counsel and just love who you want to.....Hopefully Me!! Open invitation to Galveston anytime!!


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
4/8/2018 7:29 pm

 Some people are just too narrow minded. Everyone is free to do what ever they please as long as they are adults.


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