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My thought on adult friend finder
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My thought on adult friend finder I have been browsing this site for few weeks just for the sake of curiosity and killing time, I put up my own single man profile and upgrade to gold member to see if i could meet up someone interesting here. the result is not what it seems. Here's what i see : 1. It is normal you don't get friend request it is normal people don't reply your message. 2. no active group chat or anything to join in group chat. very outdated forum post. 3. able to watch all the pictures or videos of members sexual exploits as gold members only. 4. most people loves to post the pictures of their genitals penis / pussy as their avatar / profile pics instead of face (is that how you get attention ?). 5. Lots of horny married couples who looking for group sex party with single female and couples only. 6. Lots of Scams mostly shown in fake female profile "looking for sex partner" ads profile status where they actually deceive victims with the excuse of helping reserve a party pass for you by using victims credits card to register sponsor sites for the "swinger Party" Party pass. they'll use any means to persuade you to use your credit card to register "sponsor site" for themselves to get the pass instead of you. in the end they'll left you without anything and never heard from them again and wont even respond to your message. by the time you knew it its too late. I am not saying all "party" event is a scams some might be real from real organizers but i was unable to identify which is real or not. the scammer will definitely instruct the victim to do registration over and over again on the same sites without giving any valid explanation, the minute you skip one of the steps they'll get upsets or impatient. their purpose is to get subscription confirmation from the sites for themselves or whatever the reasons are. they provide their email for you to register instead of using your own email so they can directly receive the confirmation receipt from their mails without you notice it. the minutes you notice anything strange instruction , you should immediately stop doing this no matter how sweet they sound. and they don't give other contacts like phone no or whatsapp for further enquiries. most will give a shallow introduction about themselves without knowing they are true person or not. The most obvious sign is they will deactivate their Affairlook id after they've achieve their goals or their identity is compromised. I seriously don't why they need to scam to get these (what a low lives). 7. See alot of comments or group channel that single guys aren't allow to join group session what so ever the activity. join certain group "activity" or party discussion. this is what i see here in southeast asia. 8. Wonder whats the "IM" for if no one reply your message? This is the first time I have seen how single man profile is not attractive to the people or ladies here (perhaps i should have put a sexy female profile instead) and somehow had a bad reputation as a single man in this sites (couples only, single girls only, no single man? lol how can you call this is a pure swinger sites I wonder ?) or there's simply way too many horny single man / hungry wolf out there scaring the woman away ? or there just too few horny women into this sites mostly fakes profile / scams? Well, this is what I think it is, or there is other thing i am not aware of ? its a complete different things i see here, so for those of you want to put up a dating profile here , its not going to work , this is for sex dates only, people here loves putting picture of penis , boobs , ass , cunt as avatar instead of face. So that's my view experience about this websites. feel free to comment. |
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Maybe i shall tell you why I would NOT respond to you. LOL.. 1) your handle - TETman? - as in you like tits?? errrmm this doesn't really display that you are a "decent" person to get to know.. 2) In your profile - you state you are looking for couples and groups.. This again is projecting the image that you are looking for a hook up for sex. 3) You are displaying alot of anger and that isn't the sort that most would want to be involved with. For me, you would be someone who takes rejection badly. There are many people on this site. There are many different sorts of people. Some create business... some are looking for a hook up. When your messaging is confused, chances are minimal. I have made many good friends here.. some will be lifelong even. Most of them end up platonic.. some with benefits. Some had benefits.. For me, it's friends first.. I would advise, change your strategy. Change your handle. Think clearly about what you want.. and then take the time to make friends.. or respond to those who don't require friendship and then just pay la! Best of luck Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be? 
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I totally agree with you!! I used to buy the gold membership and it was a waste of money! No replies from women (men would talk to me). I would say many of the profiles are fake on here!! Sorry that you have had a bad situation like I have! Its normal my friend , if we are using our single mans profile here. i am not upset about it really, I am not desperate for sex guy looking for hookup, I am just trying out the sites out of interest, but if i really can hookup with someone here, that will be cool. I don't have this problem on regular dating sites. I am glad you agreed on the fake id things, happends to me here the first time, no wonder lots of people report scams here. Think about It, that most of the fake IDs are Female , or Female & Female. they know they wont get response if they use Single Male profile. its a best way to scam single guys here , don't you think so?
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Thanks for your valuable input, Sassy_Angel69 . 1 . From your response it is obvious that women get more messages including rude message from horny guys, maybe it is true that the ratio of male user is maybe 10 times more than female user ( excluding the fake female id). kinda explain why guys don't get as much response cuz its simply too few women here. (I would have done the same if i was you, too many weird message flooding the inbox by horny man considering the nature of the sites) I had no problem on other sites though, i get response most of the time and i am always cautious in my comment on the profile without using rude words or bad language. but it seems its doesn't applies here though (maybe they are fake profiles, or women simply turn on by reading the provocative, vulgar and rude words). I have seen a female profile that address herself as "he" or is it an error in her writings and she describes herself as a model. later on i found out she was a fake because she posted a picture of a porn star (Lexi Belle)) which luckily i know, claiming that she was her ( boy wish i was that lucky ). i makes a few jokes on this then she deactivated her/his account. 2. I simply don't like the idea of upgrading to gold members just for watching and just paying extra to get highlighted to standard members. 4. I see ... you don't post a face pictures for privacy and safety reasons, hmm point taken, i suppose it's dangerous and risky for female to post real face pictures here. never would have thought stalker would misused this for stalking women. I did post my Face pics before and now (yeah ordinary guy pics , i don't know how a creative pictures i should post, penise pictures? i don't have great bodies lol , i simply add in the silhouette pictures for fun. 5. and ? well , i didn't get to know any of them , as they always keep the singles guys out of the way. most of the time singles guys don't get response out of couples, (I comment and ask politely) simply because they aren't interested to single guy but they interested in single girls and couples only, or unless I have girlfriend or wife then they'll response you well. You don't get this because you a female here and there's always a room for more female here. 6. well again you wont get this because your a female here. 8 . Never did use the IM function here , so it's not that efficient messanger i take it. i never did experience this "IM" eventhough i am a gold member. perhaps i try post some message see anyone cares. Overall perhaps you are right , this sites is really different because of many kinds of people here, lol perhaps it is true being single guy is a curse mark here and its 10 times harder than women.( maybe i would create fake female profile to prove this theory for you  ) or perhaps i should looked harder ?Of course , I wont deny that we can meet some real people here i make real friends perhaps, I suppose everyone experience this differently considering gender differences. I wonder what makes a profile so interesting in meeting women here? I know the formal genuine profile like "I am a genuine down to earth guy blah blah " profile don't work here. people more to writting profile like "looking for NSA or we are couple looking to spice up sex life things lie that "
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I guess everyone has a different experience
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