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A SIMPLE JOURNEY?
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A SIMPLE JOURNEY? A Simple Journey? I am constantly going through changes of thought. I take in everything that friends and family tell me and try and make improvements in the way I do things. Every little change alters my thought patterns and my life in general. I have one friend that is concerned that perhaps I mislead men, so I try very hard to let men know right up front that I am very sexual but I don’t have sex with everyone... I have another friend that told me that she thinks that we base too much on the profile we read and photos we see with out at least meeting people to see if you “click”... Yet another friend wants life to be carefree, go where ever the universe takes you and never make plans or do anything you don’t feel at the time. Given all this I try to find the happy medium, this is where I ended up. I try to meet everyone if I have even the slightest interest, that makes my schedule full an somehow I don’t look forward to any of it. In addition when you make 9 appointment to meet people and then only 3 of the meetings actually happen then I is hard to stay motivated to try and meet people. All of this to make sure I don’t leave a great person out by prejudging them by their profile or their photo. I seem to have to meet loads and loads of people to find one that I “click” with and then when we actually do have sex it often does not happen more than one time. All that work then I have to start over... If I could find 8 to 10 regular fwbs then perhaps I could have as much sex as I think I want, and I think that would make me happy. So am I the only one who thinks that you can have more than one fwb and that they can have their own life. If I could find one fwb that has the kind of time I have and the stamina and the sex drive I have that lives near me then I think I could do just one but as it stands we are all so varied that one is not enough. The bottom line to it is this... as long as I am having fun I will do it. When it is no longer fun I will walk away. Lets Create together. http://Affairlook.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J |
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It would be nice to have more than one FWB. Like, good friends are hard to find. Yet, many are against having more than one FWB. That is a good bottom line. Because I can't get a meet from here, I get bored and walk away for awhile, like take a break from it. Blogging has been my main thing lately.  Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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Dear Ms. J....i read your posts as often as I see that they are posted but surely i miss some as you know how Affairlook works and sometimes i get waayyy to busy with the BS that is Affairlook...anyhow, i just wanted to whisper this to you....go with the flow and quit over-thinking the pleasure you get from living your life on your terms...what others think or feel is "theirs" and not "yours" so please let the sands of time sprinkle lightly upon your strong shoulders as you walk proudly into your next moment and savor it as a fine wine or glass of 25 y.o. Scotch!!!!.....xo69ox Duane
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You are the only one who can determine what is right for you. You can, and often should, ask for and consider advice from others whose opinions you respect. The final decision regarding your own life however is your responsibility and only you can make it. When I begin a new relationship, I make sure that the woman knows up front that we are both free to see other people until and unless our relationship grows to the point where we decide to be exclusive to one another. At one point several years ago, I had three FWB relationships going on at the same time, while two of the women were seeing someone else besides me. We were all open and honest about what was going on with one another so there was no obvious jealousy. One of the women ended her FWB relationship and the two of us became exclusive for nearly a year before we ended up moving on in different directions in our lives. So, you're not the only one who believes that more than one FWB is doable. Good luck sorting everything. 
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I don't believe anything in life is that simple. Attraction is a fickle thing. What is attractive to one person may be repelling to another. Does everyone act/react the same way every day? Do you? I know I don't... How many times does someone repress their personality so as not to seem too aggressive or overbearing...when that is exactly what the other person is looking for...even though they say otherwise. And when you do meet someone and they aren't what you expect, do you look beyond the obvious? Are they preoccupied because of that phone call/text they got a few minutes ago? Did they just learn their grand son is in the hospital (again) for his asthma? Their son was just arrested for meth (what am I going to do with my grand kids while he is in prison)...their brother was diagnosed with cancer...they were just blasted by another FWB for refusing an exclusive commitment... I've never had more than 2 FWB at once, and that can be a balancing act. Finding them can be hard, keeping them can be harder... Between work and family commitments, finding time can be a challenge. Unrealistic expectations can lead to frustration and more failures than are necessary. But that's just my opinion...
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and if it's not fun, it's not worth it...
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