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To Wear the Condom or Not to wear the Condom, That is the Question!
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To Wear the Condom or Not to wear the Condom, That is the Question! Ok having late night conversations with ex FWBs will always bring up good topics. The topic last night came to condoms, the use and non use of them. Ok we all have been at that one point of where we were hot and heavy in a make out session and then.. wait for it ...wait for it.. here it comes.. " You have a Condom right" Instant softy.. Ok so here are a few questions. First whose responsibility is it to have the condom anyway? Some say the guy, Ok I have no problem with that logic but hey you women are just as if not hornier then us sometimes. Second is should your other half get made if you suggest using one? Well for one thing this is a sex site set up mostly for casual sex hook ups. Now if you are meeting someone and having sex with a total stranger( and talking to someone over the internet for a couple days and never meeting them in person still classifies them as a stranger) off a sex site and you don't use a condom then I feel for ya. So if your sex partner gets mad because you want to use one then I would say keep walking cause chances are they may give ya something ajax cant take off. Third kinda ties into number 2. Well when in a relationship do you stop using a condom? Some will say never, use one at all times no matter what, but we all know that the more we have sex with our partner the more we want to explore and do more things and the condom becomes a after thought. Besides it feels sooooo good without it right? If she is on birth control and you have both agreed you are gonna be a exclusive couple then toss that rubber out the window. Besides we cant figure out who is suppose to be responsible for providing them anyway. Issue number one eliminated..lol Ok last one... Condom break! OMG! Who out there has this happened to and they freaked out afterwards??? I know I have been thru this and I freaked more then the woman did. I just knew it was feeling way to good for some reason but screw it I just couldn't help but finish. I have also heard some stories of the condom coming off inside the girl while having sex.. OK I'm gonna try and not snicker while I type this but boy you KNOW you needed a finger condom not a Magnum when you were buying those things. Geez.lol  Has any of those happened to anyone? I know this is a lot of rambling but it just seems that people just don't care anymore about being safe when it comes to sex. Our attitudes are "If it feels good do it" Well I have sex and use a condom. Yes it takes away from some of the feeling but damn it still feels good! So I will leave with this.. When you sleep with someone without protection you are sleeping with around 100 or so people. Think about it...  Feed your guy at home or he will eat somewhere else  |
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Ok....-takes a deep breath-.... It is the responsibility of the person having sex to provide protection. That means, just for example, you and I *both* should have condoms on us. I used to carry them in my purse, even if I wasn't planning on meeting anyone. I *always* had condoms on me. That way, if you forgot, we were still covered....as it were. If you get upset when I ask about a condom, you're not getting any closer. That's as far as you go, thanks for the build up, I'll finish myself off, have a great night, haha.... Now, as far as the relationship question goes, that's a tricky question. If you're both clean, she's on the pill, and you're MONOGAMOUS (and plan on remaining so), then I don't see the issue, if you plan on staying together. But, it's not something you decide right away, you have to be into the relationship a bit, first. Broken/lost condoms.... I have a kid from that happenstance, lol. It does happen, it's just usually a freak accident. As far as "losing" a condom, you have to pull out *before* you're soft enough for the condom to come off, haha.... Ok, I think I'm done with *my* ramblings in response to YOUR ramblings.  {=}Shi{=} {=}ShiGyrrl{=}
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Ok....-takes a deep breath-.... It is the responsibility of the person having sex to provide protection. That means, just for example, you and I *both* should have condoms on us. I used to carry them in my purse, even if I wasn't planning on meeting anyone. I *always* had condoms on me. That way, if you forgot, we were still covered....as it were. If you get upset when I ask about a condom, you're not getting any closer. That's as far as you go, thanks for the build up, I'll finish myself off, have a great night, haha.... Now, as far as the relationship question goes, that's a tricky question. If you're both clean, she's on the pill, and you're MONOGAMOUS (and plan on remaining so), then I don't see the issue, if you plan on staying together. But, it's not something you decide right away, you have to be into the relationship a bit, first. Broken/lost condoms.... I have a kid from that happenstance, lol. It does happen, it's just usually a freak accident. As far as "losing" a condom, you have to pull out *before* you're soft enough for the condom to come off, haha.... Ok, I think I'm done with *my* ramblings in response to YOUR ramblings. {=}Shi{=}  Feed your guy at home or he will eat somewhere else
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I carry them all the time. The question should also touch on oral use of protection. I do not think many people think about the fact that you can orally give or get something too. While going for a regular checkup I did ask my doctor and she said it is possible and one should take precautions and get throat checked too. Men should get regular check ups because my daughters friend got genital warts and she is only 18. Her boyfriend did not know he had them when they started dating.
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If you are wearing for protection from stds and having oral sex with that person, are you really protected? You stated that if you have sex without one then you are having sex with people he or she have had sex with, well the same is with oral sex, Body fluids are body fluids. Unless doctors found that spit kill stds, you are still at risk for stds, not getting pregnant but stds.
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Condom whose responsibiility to provide... well if you respect your own body (whichever party you are) you provide!! i am another one with a kid from a broken rubber. I actually went to the clinic to take the morning after pill too.. but I have a beautiful spoilt little brat that I totally adore out of it. when i had the kiddo i haemorraged and ended up with an emergency hysterectomy.. so I opt for the monogomous relationship...  Wannabe/Sexpot - which one do you want me to be?
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I found out I had herpes in my 40's everyone I had sex with while we were swingers got tested and are clean so my advice is condoms all the time, unless tested first.
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I'm all about condoms all the time unless I'm in a monogamous relationship and even then I still get tested cause you never know if they are messing around. It's just too risky
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