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Cumming too quickly… The Women  

khuXBFXM8u 62M
6260 posts
3/25/2014 6:04 pm
Cumming too quickly… The Women

In my last post, I wrote about men who cum quickly. While looking deeper into the subject matter, I stumbled across something I didn’t know about human sexuality. I want to share it with blogville.



When most think of female sexual difficulties, we usually think about women who have a great deal of difficulty or can’t achieve orgasm at all. But just like men, a new study has shown women can jump the orgasmic gun just like their male counterparts, and can cum to quickly when penetration begins.

After coming across some ambiguous references in clinical textbooks, a Portuguese researcher decided to investigate. The research team sent out an orgasm questionnaire to over 850 women between the ages of 18-45, 510 women responded. 40 percent of the women had experienced an orgasm earlier than they’d desired at some point of their sex life. 14% of the women have had it happened more frequently, and 17 women in the response group met the criteria for having a dysfunction due to premature orgasm.

You may be thinking, what is the problem, women are multi-orgasmic. A lot are, but not all women. Some are one and done, they need a rest in between just like the majority of men. One of the 17 women, who met the criteria for premature orgasm wrote: "I feel the same way men must feel about<b> premature ejaculation </font></b>and don’t completely see the difference — I finish very quickly, whereas my boyfriend doesn’t get a chance to, and it's really starting to bother me," she said. "Once I orgasm, I find it uncomfortable to continue, the mood changes and he ends up missing out, which I feel bad about."

Have you ever heard of this phenomenon before, of women who cum very quickly from penetration? Ladies, do you experience discomfort immediately after cumming from penetration? Gentlemen have you been with someone who suffers from this?

Oh, BTW this is my 100th post.


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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
3/25/2014 6:15 pm

Congratulations on 100!!!!! Now on the road to more

I have not been with a "one and done" lady. Occasionally will need a short break after a couple. I learned something new today , thank you

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hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
3/25/2014 7:02 pm

I'm done after one orgasm from oral (unless he's interesting) but then I like penetration for him.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 7:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Most unfortunate! Perhaps if we were all more knowledgeable about the full range of human sexuality, it would not have been so difficult on both of you.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 7:11 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    Congratulations on 100!!!!! Now on the road to more

    I have not been with a "one and done" lady. Occasionally will need a short break after a couple. I learned something new today , thank you
Thank you Pal. It was a surprise to me too.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 7:17 pm

    Quoting George_W_Johnson:
    congrats on the 100

    Not sure I have know a woman who is premature, but I have known woman that are done after one orgasm, if its from oral then there was no intercourse

    Luckily during intercourse her orgasm triggered mine
Thanks George. Need a break after cumming orally, before you can resume more oral is far more common. But not being able to move immediately to penetration, may fit the criteria for the research, especially if she cums quickly.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 7:22 pm

    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    I'm done after one orgasm from oral (unless he's interesting) but then I like penetration for him.
Hippie, that's far more common. I have a friend is who is similar.

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__Maria__ 58F
8252 posts
3/25/2014 9:01 pm

If there are premature orgasm males and females, how can we pair them up? Seems that the problem lies in pairing premature orgasm lovers with can sex a lot until orgasm lovers. Sexual compatibility has its purpose.

Congrats in your 100th post.



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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 9:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you.

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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
3/25/2014 9:08 pm

Happy 100th post!
I often used to only have one and done with ex.
I would endure the rest of sex while he finished up (sometimes an hour later...
sighing). I would dry out. After a while it started to bother me.
Then I stopped orgasming all together.
I often orgasm just from having the man enter me.
But then I have changed and I am now multi-orgasmic.
So I don't know what to say but...
I feel sorry for women who are like the way I used to be, and I am celebrating
the fact that I am no longer like that.
Kitkat

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 9:11 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks, just goes to show us the wide rage human sexuality.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 9:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Kinky, everyone is different. Just like for some men the head of the penis is too sensitive to touch after they cum, there are women with the same issue. Some it just their clit that becomes too sensitive, and they are ok with penetration, but with others the whole area is off limits for a time.

What's sad is that quick cummers of both sexes can't find each other, creating a whole lot of unhappiness surrounding sex.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 9:20 pm

    Quoting __Maria__:
    If there are premature orgasm males and females, how can we pair them up? Seems that the problem lies in pairing premature orgasm lovers with can sex a lot until orgasm lovers. Sexual compatibility has its purpose.

    Congrats in your 100th post.
wouldn't that be the thing, to find your perfect match. I did see one female profile local to me who is looking for quickies. Thanks.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/25/2014 9:26 pm

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    Happy 100th post!
    I often used to only have one and done with ex.
    I would endure the rest of sex while he finished up (sometimes an hour later...
    sighing). I would dry out. After a while it started to bother me.
    Then I stopped orgasming all together.
    I often orgasm just from having the man enter me.
    But then I have changed and I am now multi-orgasmic.
    So I don't know what to say but...
    I feel sorry for women who are like the way I used to be, and I am celebrating
    the fact that I am no longer like that.
    Kitkat
Thanks Kitkat, and thank you for your candor. Perhaps you should write about your experiences, so that others who have or are experiencing what you did will know they are not alone.

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rm_AliciaBlonde 40F
1532 posts
3/26/2014 3:53 am

Congratulations on the big 1-0-0!!!!!

From Alicia
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XX

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 4:04 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you Quiet. You should definitely enjoy.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 4:09 am

    Quoting  :

Thank You Passion. I had never heard of it either, and judging from the comments, a lot of us have not. Only a few have run into it or have first hand knowledge.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 4:09 am

Thanks Alicia.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 4:47 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks Addz, it's a little talked about issue.

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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
3/26/2014 5:19 am

Congratulations on 100 posts.


When I was younger I was a "once and done" woman but over the years I learned to be multi orgasmic and to achieve better control. They would not all be of the same intensity.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 5:44 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Congratulations on 100 posts.


    When I was younger I was a "once and done" woman but over the years I learned to be multi orgasmic and to achieve better control. They would not all be of the same intensity.

Thank you Sexy.

Its great that you were able to learn control and improve your enjoyment of sex.

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
3/26/2014 9:48 am

Well done on the 100 post!! Never heard of it before hugs V



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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 10:06 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you -E'. Yes, I do recall you mentioning a time or two that penetration is not your thing.

Quick and multi-orgasmic, -H' is so lucky.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 10:15 am

    Quoting  :

SexyO, in a perfect world we would all (not just on this site) be more open about our sexuality, so that those of us who are unique see that we are not alone. I would also help those who are "normal" to be more understanding of the uniqueness of everyone's sexual experiences.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 10:24 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you SexyO, I will contribute what I can to Blogville.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
3/26/2014 10:25 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Well done on the 100 post!! Never heard of it before hugs V


Thanks V.

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